Hi Neil,
You are correct raising the wishbone "bringing in the topping lift" is a part of the modern reefing process. I believe it was introduced by Ed Botterell around the turn of the century. I found it interesting how different the early instructional videos (
HERE ) were from today's best practices.
It is also true that your topping lift should be set to keep your wishbone at a safe height without any help from the sail. The only reason we have added topping lift to the reefing process is to make it easier to secure the luff of the sail. In the good old days the youngsters sailing Nonsuch boats ( in the videos ) didn't even need to use winch handles to secure the clew when reefing.
Technically, after the choker is eased you could raise the wishbone via the topping lift. On Soave we wait till after the sail ( halyard ) has been lowered to reefing height, the tack ( inboard reef line ) is secured and the halyard has been retensioned.
On Soave, my intention has been to add some color coded marks to the topping lift for "normal", "1st Reef", "2nd reef". I am careful to tell crew, if you feel the topping lift load up.... STOP. Do not lift the wishbone if there is any resistance other than the weight if the wishbone. On Soave wishbone would be raised to the "reefing level" just prior to bringing in the aft reef line ( clew ). The aft reef lines and the topping lift share a common winch and are secured by rope clutches.
It might be a good practice to return the topping lift to the "normal" setting after the clew is secure so you can shake the reef without having to remember the topping reef. For this you definitely need marks on your topping lift to know where "normal" is. If the topping lift is eased too much wishbone will go boom on your head when you drop the sail.
I'm ashamed to say Soave's topping lift is not yet marked and I guesstimate how much to raise the wishbone leaning toward a little more than necessary and then ease after the clew is where we want it. You can do a "pretty good" reef without raising the wishbone if your crew is strong, but raising the wishbone requires less strength and stress.
We practice in medium air... so the process always goes smooth. We haven't had much opportunity to practice in heavy air..... such is life on Long Island Sound in the summer.
Sail on,
Robs/v SOAVE
NS33 #009
Cedar Point YC
Westport, CT