--VaidiWelcome back!'miracles' - my take on it is as follows. Things just happen and we attach the importance or meaning to them or interpret in the way they suit us either consciously or otherwise. You getting diverted would have happened anyways if you happened to be at that location and at that time. However you correlated that to the event from the immediate past. Just imagine if it wasn't Sai temple but a movie that you had planned. You probably would have been equally happy with the outcome. By the way my wife narrated pretty similar incident when she was on a temple tour recently. She was so happy that her God made it happen. Is that a miracle, may be! All things in life are miracles in a way. Problem starts when much importance is attached to these so called miracles because when they don't happen the disappointment is far worse.On your points on Brahmins - agree with your view. My dad had written a four volume book on the history of contributions by Brahmins to the Indian society. What was amazing is that it was so popular that he had few more reprints. He would get calls from different parts of the world asking for a copy.Having said that i guess Ramraj is perhaps reflecting on the falling standards that are usually attached to that profession. But again if we look around almost all such professions which were once revered including teachers, doctors etc have fallen down in the high standard and esteem that they used to be held in the past. Or may be it's just that they are changing as with the rest of the society and it's perhaps our perception about them that has to change with time.CheersRam
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Out of circulation for a few days, drive to Chennai to attend the 100th birthday of my Aunt, who has literally served our family (her brother’s) for four generations and we treat as our own mother.
Belated wishes to MSA – good to read the “down memory lane” posts of Viji and Ram, took me down that route too for a brief period.
About Swami’s post: I am only wondering on whose advise(?) you had gone to the temple and for what parikaram? I wish you a very nice common sense attitude to life, which will enable you to enjoy every moment of it, both while it happens and after it happens with enjoyable memories.
Ramraj: I am not very convinced of your arguments about Brahmins – historically, they have been instrumental in bringing new technology to society, to increase the spread the population – actually, only those who did this came to be called Brahmins and after all, being in the same family was the best way to learn the ways when there was a lack of communication tools (from writing to the internet today!). It is despicable that people complain of the priestly class, who generally are taught not the philosophical background of their profession but what is called as “prayogam” i.e application of the agamas. The agamas and sutras as anyway so arbitrary - for example, your own advice to Swami to do prokshanam – I am sure that if there was a post saying that scientically taking bath in temple water will give immortality since the vibrations of the prayers of so many bhakthas has purified it and it is proven to have medicinal value etc., you will be the first to forward it! It is very easy to blame a small group in the society called Brahmins – please note that if India can boast of having come out of the caste issues, it is mainly due to the Brahmins who fought for the downtrodden!
If today people go the US, nay all the world, look back to the 1960’s and 70’s and you will find that the Brahmins from Tamil Nadu have run away from persecution of the likes of the DK and its stupid followers, have laid the foundation of Indian society abroad.
This is true of Mumbai too – I see so many families who have moved here way back in the 1920’s and have set up the society for Tamilians here.
Yes, Brahmins have been pioneers all over India (not just Tamil Nadu) – Veda Vyasa was a great example of this – he is said to have travelled into deep forests converting erstwhile local tribals to the Vedic way of life.
The taboos Brahmins impose upon themselves like strict diet (note, I do not say vegetarian!), strict marriage rules, way of living etc. are there to allow them to retain their faith under adverse circumstances the face as they spread around!
I regret that the guy who is having the homam done at home due to his own greed (more wealth, removal of some dosham or anything) is cribbing at the guy who is doing it for him for his greed.
We are ready to pay Rs. 80 for a simple idli-wada, but will not allow our Purohit to charge us more!
The agamas and sutras have been subject to modification throughout history and we can practically do what we want and call it as per the sutras – only our bowing to some local authority (kanchi mutt or xyz mutt or some guru) puts some semblance of order.
Look at each function you have attended over your life of 50 years and see the difference in the performance , you will understand what I mean.
A final word on this: Ramraj, please do not interpret this that I am a Brahmin(???) friend and I am objecting – I am just putting up a view point. I am not in any way hurt or troubled by your post. Please continue posting.
Viji: Here is one more “miracle” for your records – more closer, since it is related to Sai. During my trip home, Chitra wanted to go the Sai Samaj, Mylapore and have darshan. I was telling her that nowadays there is a lot of crowd and there is no point is waiting for darshan, and more typical of my style, I told her that the door of our house is as good as Saibaba and she can have darshan of that door - after all, Sai Samaj was brought to Chennai by Sri Narasimhaswamiji and as we all know, doors and footsteps are a favoured by Narasimha. Well, after a few words, we left for Mylapore to buy some appalams and vadams. Well, after buying all these things, I thought that instead of making a U-turn, I will go around the tank and come back to Egmore. Wonder of wonders, when I reached the south west corner, there was an election procession and we were allowed only to go straight and past the Sai Samaj – mark this, we found that the temple was empty and we just had to walk in to have a darshan. We went in, sat down for a brief meditation and since it was 12, Arati started. We saw the full Arati and then left. From no-darshan to full-darshan due to an election procession – who said election precessions has no use? Do I call this the pull of Sai? What if we had been directed to the left and we ended having a darshan of Hanuman? Will I vote for the party who took out the electrion procession? Will my wife vote? Such are the deep questions in life!
Sorry guys, three days of no posting and so ….
Vaidi.
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Ramraj,
This is a consumerist world – I remember when my eldest brother wanted to buy a house and was going to the housing board for loan, my father was totally against it - This was circa 1974, we were in 4th standard – my father’s opinion was that you should save first and then spend. Today, the situation is totally reverse – the maid who comes to clean our office daily has an iPhone, a friend of mine who works with RIL as an officer recently bought an Audi – all spending their future earnings! This is the case with the Koil kurukkal too – we do not expect our house agent to own a house bigger than the one he is trying to arrange for us, similarly, the kurukkal is trying to arrange a better deal for you with God but does not mean that his deal with God would be better!
If possible kindly share the miracles details to me also, I would be very much interested – they make for good reading and remembering when one gets into trouble.
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Did the vibudhi come out even when the house is empty?
This does not mean that the people are cheating – we have just been discussing about the fallibility of the brain, these are simply more tricks that the brain plays on us. Unless we do a “controlled” experiment (which is least likely to be allowed) this will be difficult. Even if a controlled experiment fails, we can always await a further mode of sensing which can be discovered and which can prove the result otherwise.
Seeing a hundred black crows does not rule out the possibility of a white crow….
Seeing a single while crow will demolish the idea that all crows are black.
It is the necessity of humans to have God manifest in such ways as to seem unfathomable!
Reminded of Sai’s words: when he was asked why he grants boons to his devotees and whether this act will not put them more into the maya of life, he answers, “ I give them what they want in the fond hope that one day they start wanting what I want to give them”
Visu in Sai?
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Ram, Just see the difficulty one faces to put out common sense attitudes in a, shall we dare say, erudite group like ours and in this day and age when our very survival seems to have come out of our curiosity and experimentation and one can appreciate the difficulty of being non-confirmist.
I do not believe in God but firmly believe in the concept of God – this is a very useful concept which can help us have an attitude of willing suspension of disbelief, which in turn, helps us not to get bogged down and take a proactive view when confronted with issues.
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Friends,
All I am advocating is a little clear skepticism in our thinking and not to accord special status to religion in our thinking, unless it helps you in doing so.
My tirades against Gurus (old and new) and Babas (living, non-linving) is only to balance a bias that is generally shown by the flock.
Swami: I am god fearing – today is amavasya and I have come here after doing tharpanam (Dharpan is the actual word, I think) because I find that it helps me. I do not insist that anybody accept my view points, only that they consider it and if any issues, I am open to discussion – this along will bring out hidden views and overall contribute to common knowledge.
Reticular Activation Device: I learnt about this a few years back from a book, I have actually forgotten which one – I think one of the Fish series – and I have been very successful in using it to resolve issues, find missing stuff etc. It actually works for me quite a number of times. I am sure that mediation helps in solving problems also because when you focus on one mantra or whatever (which is basically irrelevant to your immediate life), the churning of the neural signals that happens throws up many options which you would not have thought about before. – my view point for what it is worth.
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Don’t you believe that some body can believe at one time and not at another time – switching back and forth?.
For electronics engineers: a linear power supply is less efficient than an SMPS (the one you have inside your laptop/pc) – if we were to make linear power supplies for a PC it will turn out to be bigger than the PC!
So switching between God and not God seems to be more efficient than otherwise – I believe people do this unconsciously anyway (even the great Bakthimans and the most loyal of the flock, let alone the Guru or God him(her/it)self.
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OK Vaidi.
Siva I know u r laughing there... Eppa bhakti varum pogum vaidhikku theriyadhu.
My take is Vaidi and all of us get frustrated at times at our inability to explain some things..
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Swami,
I can understand you constantly calling Siva to back you up – don’t worry, you can call me directly on my face without support.
Clearly, everybody will, at times, find it difficult to explain some things – however, just because you are not able to answer a question during the exam does not mean that the question does not admit an answer or that you cannot answer it after you come home and look it up.
Frustration is a positive view point when used properly – kaththi is for cutting, but you should hold it with its handle, blade-a pudichuttu ayyayyo keerudhe-nu kaththiye waste-nu solradhu waste-a thonadha?
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Viji,
For all the riling I have been doing about your probably long imprinted beliefs, if I cannot even allow you to pull my leg to this extent, even Sai, for all his benevolence, will not grant me his forgiveness.
However, there is no point in pulling my leg, I am already a fallen man! J - Non-Muttall –a dhan muttal akka mudiym, Nan-muttal-nu oththukaravana enna pannuve?
In this group any leg can be pulled any person at any time!
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DearVaidi. I called Siva because he and I have debated whether new nallavanaa kettavannaa enru. You are unlike some sidu moonjis in this forum. Vers year Kitts urimai kaamikka mudiyum..
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Aniyayama, nallavana kettavana debate-a , god-fearing –a illaya debate-a mathitteengale?
Kadavula nambaravan ellarum nallavana?
Kadavula nambaadhavan ellaraum kettavana?
When I was doing a vedanta course in Chinmaya ashram Mumbai under Swami Chinmayananda (around 1989/1990), one day one brahmachari asked “how will I know that I am on the true path of Vedanta” – he answered, “ the day when a close friend stops you in the middle of the street and calls you a bastard on your face, and you do not react but start thinking what has made my friend like this and what can I do to win him over again, that day you are on the path of Vedanta and when you can sit next to the garbage dump and enjoy your dinner, you are on this path of Knowledge!”. He then continued to go over the story of the Saint and the Snake to balance the advice he gave us - I will write out this story later, in case some in the group want it.
I have not forgotten the lesson.
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