https://tallbloke.wordpress.com/2015/06/11/atmospheric-convection-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-7/#comment-113587
Tall Bloke:
Maybe you need to explain how the ten water molecules dispersed in 10,000 molecules of N2, O2, Ar and CO2 always get together really efficiently to hold a dewdrop party.
Jim McGinn:
Not only is this a fair question but it is the right question.
However, if you are looking for a simple answer I suggest to you stick with Meteorology. Their notion that H2O turns to steam at temperatures well below those that have ever been detected in a laboratory is easy to comprehend even though it is plainly absurd. And once you accept this absurdity it is easier to accept other observational inconsistencies, like the fact that heavier clouds don't fall out of the sky like bricks as convection theory would seem to predict.
The correct understanding of what is happening in the atmosphere with H2O is incredibly complex. There is a dichotomy. And, Roger, the way you worded the question gets right to the crux of the dichotomy. I would rephrase it as follows: Are individual H2O molecules more electromagnetically active than collective H2O molecules? And might this explain why/how they are able to get together efficiently to form a dewdrop. For purposes of argument, let's just say the answer to this question is yes. And this brings us right to the dichotomy: If they are highly charged why aren't the droplets highly charged? In other words, if gaseous H2O molecules have such extreme electromagnetic charges that they are able to find one another despite being dispersed amongst 10,000 N2, O2 and such then why oh why aren't droplets/clusters of H2O electromagnetic powerhouses that would begin to attract any other droplets in their vicinity? In short, if monomolecular H2O (gaseous H2O -- steam) is so electromagnetically active why are droplets, collective H2O, so electromagnetically passive?
I struggled with this issue for about 2 years before I solved it. The solution has to do with the fact that H2O polarity is not a constant it is a variable. And hydrogen bonds are the mechanism that neutralizes H2O polarity. In other words, collectively H2O (liquid) is electromagnetically passive because its polarity has been neutralized by hydrogen bonds. It is at this point that things become extremely complex and confusing.
I have written a paper on this. If you are interested do a search for the following:
Hydrogen Bonds Neutralize H2O Polarity James McGinn