That's a good question which may not have a satisfying answer.
A decade ago, Roger Durham would have set you up with some great
Bullseye hubs. I have a couple of single speed hubs that have the
skewer hole threaded for bolts, so you can change your mind any time
you want. I imagine he's retired now.
I also am not bewitched by quick releases, but they do clamp well on
horizontal dropouts. As an aside, the one really nice little advantage
that bolt-ons have with single/fixed gears is that you can "walk" the
wheel to optimal chain tightness and wheel alignment by loosening and
tightening one side at a time.
I use mostly locking skewers, maybe that's a compromise that's halfway
satisfying for you. Pitlock is a current brand, but mine are Kore
brand. There are also allen key (non-locking) skewers, which are like
a bolt-on on one side...
Roger