If you're using the paypal resolution center, then I can see why you
ticked them off.
What happens is a charge back fee plus the amount you paid gets
immediately deducted
off their paypal account. I.E. You've immediately cost them more than
you've paid them.
Often with paypal, neither party gets the refund and when they do,
often it's the vendor that
pays even when the customer is wrong. If you paid by credit card via
paypal, then generally
they have to pay out regardless of who's right/wrong, because credit
cards can chargeback.
Also a history of customers complaining via the paypal resolution
center will give the vendor a
bad rating.
So it's kind of like you going into their bank account without their
permission and removing more
than you paid.
A better approach is to contact them by phone, their contact page or
email first. Then by all means, if you
don't get a reply and you think they've stolen your money, use the
resolution center.
Occasionally I've had customers do what your describing to me before,
i.e. resolution center with no
prior communication and although I explain in more detail as to the
reason and why, they are not
welcome to purchase from me in the future either, if they've made no
attempt to resolve their issue
via other means. I ship virtual goods immediately, have a 7 day trial
refund and after that date my T&C's
don't provide refunds, but despite that, people still try doing that
occasionally, and they get their money.
If they just contacted me first and said, give me a refund, I'd give
it to them to save the chargeback fee and
black mark despite the T&C's saying otherwise. Refunding in paypal is
free for the vendor with a timeframe.
Often it's things like, they paid with a different paypal email than
the email they used for their order,
or our emails have ended up in their over aggressive spam systems.
Sometimes they just think that
the resolution center gets them results. Either way, when a customer
is costing you and putting a black mark
against you, you don't want to do business with them in the future.
Also, issues chargebacks via credit card is the same kind of problem,
money gets taken and fee added for the vendor.
Not minimizing your situation, they should have communicated with
you. But maybe they did, and you didn't get it and
they were having a bad day.
You could always phone them, find out what went down, and offer to pay
their chargeback fee if you want to do business
with them in the future.
On Nov 16, 8:09 am, Hammerhead <
rkba...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Not to make excuses for their reply or their decision, but if you were on
> the receiving end of that email, I can see how it might be interpreted by
> them as abrupt. Since you posted this here, I'll assume you're asking for
> constructive feedback.
>
> My take is that they were as curt with you as you were with them. I also
> have had many experiences with sellers who don't get their orders out on
> time, but I take a totally different approach. Instead of the way you
> worded your email, you might have tried something like:
>
> *"Hello!
>
> I'm following up on an order placed on month/day for [item(s)], but have
> not yet received a confirmation. Just following up to verify you received
> the order and request a ship date, as I have a project pending. Feel free
> to contact me via email or phone at xxx-xxx-xxxx.
>
> Thanks in advance for your help!
>
> Regards,
> John Doe"
> *