I don't know much about this besides what's available on wikipedia, but
my understanding is that you keep the activator separate from the next
nucleoside so you can wash away nucleosides before activation of the
next stage.
Assume I barely recall what I'm talking about here:
So, here's the reaction with separate activator / next-N:
~NN + Activator
-> Wash ->
~NN*
-> Wash & add G nucleoside ->
~NNG
-> Wash & add activator ->
~NNG*
-> Wash & add A nucleoside ->
~NNGA
Whereas without the intervening wash steps you could get rapid
polymerisation of new nucleosides:
~NN + Activator + G
-> Wash ->
~NNG
~NNGG
~NNGGGGGGG
-> Add Activator + A nucleoside ->
~NNGAA
~NNGGA
~NNGGGGGGGAAAA