Hi Scott, thank you for the fast answer, i really impressed, that you 24/7 online!!
So my mistake was that i tried to customize default language, and as you suggested, in apex tab i customized theme to 90% as i have in sublime.
One question, is there somewhere in IDEA special settings or system/xml files where i can change, which words belong to keywords and which are to parameters, if you tell me where and how i can do this by myself.
I suppose you did it somehow for apex
I would like to move all soql keywords to parameters and true, false, null to constants, then i will have 100% match to sublime monokai.
Here is what i have now:
sublime:

IDEA:
