Maybe this will help?
http://wiki.eclipse.org/FAQ_How_do_I_increase_the_heap_size_available_to_Eclipse%3F
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Hi Seth,I did get the same message running it from the command line. I also tried it on a 64 bit machine and was able to increase -Xms quite a but it didn't make any difference. I spent some time this weekend trying to figure out why that would be the case but didn't really come up with anything. Haven't had a chance to get back to it though.
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