I agree that this may not be the best option. Posts to
anaconda.org are not necessarily done using the same build tools as the "official" anaconda packages, and there may be library conflicts. Many package maintainers work directly with us to ensure that we are updating the "official" conda packages for their software. In fact, Michael Droetboom has contributed a Matplotlib 1.5 recipe to us, but we have been too busy with the simultaneous Anaconda 2.4 release to make that package available. We have limited resources. Sorry.
We have historically done this, and IMHO, this is bad for the whole ecosystem. We have made great efforts in this release to build from source, rather than simply pull binaries that other people have created. If people package DLLs in their wheels, then this can lead to some major headaches, crashes, and general disfunction when those DLLs are differently versioned from other DLLs that might get picked up. By compiling from source, we are able to ensure that we keep only one copy of underlying libraries, and moreover, that all packages in our system use the same underlying library.
A unified build system for the Python ecosystem with completely standardized versions of all libraries involved would be awesome, but it's not present as far as I know. Conda includes TclTk 8.5 because that seemed to be what Matplotlib wanted when I compiled it from source. Really - there's nothing sinister or proprietary here, just people working hard to make things work in a very complex system. Python from Python.org includes Tcl/Tk (seemingly version 8.6), but I could not get Matplotlib to recognize that as an adequate installation to build against. I think it was missing headers. Tcl/Tk is a very strange package to build, to begin with (please try it sometime - it's a fun Friday night. Make sure to bring your alcoholic beverage of choice.)
Generally, maintainers appreciate having more people building their software, because it lowers the "bus factor," and because we contribute patches back to the ecosystem. I fixed Python 3.5 builds for at least 4 packages during this release, and contributed that code upstream in all cases.
I would argue that this is a severe problem with software in general. We (open source projects, Continuum, other package maintainers) are all doing the best we can to make life easier for people. Finding better ways for all of us to standardize more and work together would be nice, but I would stop short of having only one person building software, and everyone else just using binaries. Sorry you have hit roadblocks in the complexity of this matter.
Michael