FWIW, the guidance *not* to use std::unordered_map and std::unordered_set was only added (silently, unless I missed an email) about a year ago by
this CL. Here's
that file from prior to that commit, which while it doesn't ban, does discourage but calls out exceptions where it's fine to use them.
For what it's worth, I feel like I only noticed the change to recommend the absl:: types because I went to double check my memory of something on the table, and I don't remember any broad announcement preferring this type or as like a change to the style/recommendation even on this list.