"BDSM" is an acronym of "B&D" (Bondage & Discipline), "D&S" (Dominance
& Submission), and "S&M" (sadomasochism). "BDSM" refers to any or all
of these things, and a lot of stuff besides.

Tying up your lover is BDSM; so is flogging that person, or bossing
that person around, or any of a thousand other things. BDSM is highly
erotic, usually (though not always) involves sex or sexual tension;
and is highly psychologically charged. One person (the "submissive")
agrees to submit to another person (the "dominant"); or, alternately,
one person agrees to receive some sort of sensation, such as spanking,
from another.

MANY PEOPLE PRACTICE SOME ELEMENT OF BDSM IN THEIR SEXUAL LIVES
WITHOUT EVEN BEING AWARE OF IT.

Role-playing? Fantasy? You make it sound like it's all some kind of
game.
IT IS. YOU'RE EXERCISING YOUR IMAGINATION, AND YOU'RE PLAYING A GAME
WITH THE OTHER PERSON. JUST TRY AT
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