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Manky Badger  
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 More options Jun 5 2005, 5:49 pm
Newsgroups: uk.rec.scouting
From: "Manky Badger" <s...@puritanDOTfreeserve.FULLSTOPcoSPOTuk>
Date: Sun, 5 Jun 2005 22:49:17 +0100
Local: Sun, Jun 5 2005 5:49 pm
Subject: Re: Boys and girls sleeping in the same tent.

"Eddie Langdown" <the3l...@btinternet.com> wrote in message

news:d7v2f5$oqc$1@pflock.pfadi.ch...

>I am seriously interested to hear people's views on the following
> situation;

> Five scouts, three girls and a two boys are on a hike camp, all aged 13,
> one of the girls 14.  They have a 3 person tent, a 2 person tent and a
> nylon 'tarp' for storing kit/ cooking....    Just before the second night
> one girl leaves as planned.   When the leader visits about 6pm there was
> only one other (unconnected) adult & son camping on the small wooded scout
> owned site. It is a horrible damp evening, but the 4 scouts are together
> in the bigger tent chatting and laughing innocently, having just made a
> percussion orchestra out of lids, pegs, poles, packets etc....   After
> checking they had everything they needed, were clearly happy and were
> clear about the next day's route, the leader left.  He was camping a about
> a mile away, with younger scouts on a different site. Both had working
> mobile phones.

> All four youngsters get on well together, have known each other since
> junior school and cubs, the parents of three are quite close, except the
> parents of an African girl, who are quite strict.

> The next day when everyone met-up the four said quite openly and casually
> to the leader that they had all decided to sleep in the bigger tent, 'As
> it was horrible weather and a bit scary.'

> 1. Tell them it was 'wrong' and unacceptable?
> 2. Tell them not to tell anyone ?
> 3. Make a point of telling the parents?
> 4. It's OK for these kids who are good friends, but not for others ?
> 5. So what?....Do nothing?
> 6. Tell the leader it is unacceptable?

As a leader I realise that these things happen, and I am sure it was all
100% innocent.

However as a parent I'm sure that if it were MY daughter, I'd lay an egg !


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