[Commentary] [USA] My Gwyneth Paltrow 'Transvestite' Article Triggers a Social Media Meltdown

[Stephanie Stevens]

Huffington Post, USA


Courtney O'Donnell

Transgender actress, advocate, and writer; star, 'Lexie Cannes'

My Gwyneth Paltrow 'Transvestite' Article Triggers a Social Media Meltdown

Posted: 05/23/2013 5:49 pm


Admittedly, not every trans person found Gwyneth Paltrow's politically
incorrect usage of the word "transvestite" worthy of my devoting an
entire article to it
<https://lexiecannes.wordpress.com/2013/05/13/gwyneth-paltrow-says-she-wears-more-make-up-than-a-transvestite/>
, but a surprising meltdown that followed the reposting of that
article on a transgender support site had little to do with Paltrow or
her usage of the word.

First, a relevant passage from the article in question, "Gwyneth
Paltrow says she 'wears more make-up than a transvestite'
<https://lexiecannes.wordpress.com/2013/05/13/gwyneth-paltrow-says-she-wears-more-make-up-than-a-transvestite/>
," published on The Guerrilla Angel Report:

When asked in [a USA Today] interview how it was she looked so
fresh after spending the previous night 'partying', Gwyneth Paltrow
replied: "Are you crazy? I'm like RuPaul! I have so much makeup on.
Foundation! Last night, I was literally a transvestite."

My article was met with a lukewarm response on The Guerrilla Angel
Report, with many readers arguing that Paltrow probably did not intend
to offend anyone. I argued that the mocking of trans people by
celebrities is always over the line, because the violence that trans
people face is often triggered by such behavior, and that violence is
very real. We had a relatively civil discussion of an important but
not critical matter, I thought.

Later, I was stunned when I visited a large transgender support site
that had reposted my article. Hundreds of trans people were leaving
comments attacking transvestites, cross dressers, drag queens and
other fringe members of the trans community simply because they don't
want to be associated with them. This massive disowning of other
members of our gender-diverse group boggled my mind.

The administrator of the site eventually had to yank my article when
she found herself unable to keep up with the deletion of transphobic
comments by those within our own community. She left this message
<https://www.facebook.com/wipeouttransphobia/posts/461119993965658> in
its place:

This [site] is a safe haven for, transgender (trans*) people,
cross-dressing people, people who consider themselves transvestite,
transsexual people, intersex people, gender queer people, gender
variant people, androgynous people, bi-gender people, drag performers
and any other identity/person that may suffer from transphobia.

The meltdown was an eye opener. It turns out that the trans umbrella
is larger than some of us want it to be. We have a bit of education to
do in our own backyard. That old "hang together or hang separately"
adage is most apt here.

For those of you who still harbor ill feelings toward the inclusion in
the trans community of everyone listed in the above quotation, let me
give you a reality check: A person attempting to engage in violence
against a trans person does not consider those differences. To them,
we're all the same: "a man in a dress."


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