I've seen JCO speak at a few different venues and listened to numerous recorded interviews/discussions at bookstores and universities. She's always struck me as being very generous and giving in terms of reading her work aloud and welcoming questions - especially detailed/in-depth questions. However, she doesn't seem to be one to waste time if she feels like people aren't engaged or if the interviewer is a bad one. For instance, in Don Swaim's 1990 interview (which you can listen to here:
http://wiredforbooks.org/joycecaroloates/) he asks her a number of inane questions unrelated to her work and doesn't seem to listen properly to her responses. He seems nice enough, but not entirely engaged. She still manages to give interesting answers though. I listened to him interviewing Susan Sontag as well and she became quite cross with him for flat out not paying attention to what she was saying.
Of course, JCO might have also just been in a bad mood on the speaking engagement you are referring to or there might have been a pressing engagement/emergency which she had to attend to. These things happen. I'd guess that your experience was probably atypical. So if you have the opportunity to see her again, I'd recommend it.
Eric
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