Bhai Usamah,
A mother's heart is like a ROSE,
& serving the parents will always help a person in this
world & the Aakhirah (hereafter), when I leave my house in the morning,
my mothers slightly opens the window & watches me going away, it brings
tears in my eyes & I want those moments to freeze for ever.
I asked my mother that what is
a QIWAM ? She said that Qiwam is the old name
of SHEERA (Sweet Syrup) made by boiling sugar in
water.
So "Qiwam al Laban"
mentioned by Ibn Al Qayyam clears the concept of Talbinah, it is made with
barley's Saweeq in sweetened milk, & nothing is better than HONEY as a
sweetener.