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> > > On Apr 15, 7:48嚙窮m, eridanus <
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> > > > El lunes, 15 de abril de 2013 12:59:39 UTC+1, Ron O 嚙箴scribi嚙�
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> > > > > On Apr 15, 3:29嚙窮m, solar penguin <
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> > > > > > On Sun, 14 Apr 2013 11:53:14 -0700, Ron O wrote:
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> > > > > > > There has been poison in the air on TO for the last several weeks, and
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> > > > > > > there is no doubt that Nyikos has played the major role in it.
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> > > > > > He certainly seems to be playing _a_ major role. 嚙畿ut you and Jillery
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> > > > > > seem to be as much to blame as him, at least "for the last several
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> > > > > > weeks". 嚙瘢t doesn't matter who started the quarrel originally, you're all
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> > > > > This is the type of rationalization that I just don't get. 嚙確he last
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> > > > > few weeks means more than a year and a half of stupidity. 嚙瘡ow do you
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> > > > I cannot believe you are worried by this shit, Ron. How can you be
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> > > > affected by what some stupid people are telling of you?
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> > > > Do you really had any need of their appreciation? 嚙磐ou should remember
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> > > > that only a small fraction of the people have enough intelligence.
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> > > > The rest is nothing but trash, even they are posting in this group.
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> > > > I really cannot understand that you will need to be worshiped by some
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> > > > stupids. 嚙瘢t reminds me a little, on the stupid idea I was taught when
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> > > > I was a boy, "that god put us in the earth to sing his praises."
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> > > > What need would had an omniscient and omnipotent god that these stupid
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> > > > animals called humans were singing its praises? 嚙瘢t is absurd. 嚙確his was
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> > > > the main reason I had become an atheist when I was 12 years old.
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> > > > Eridanus
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> > > There is no doubt that the actions of some make it more difficult to
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> > > deal with the Nyikos problem. 嚙瘢t just does not go away, and
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> > > pretending does nothing, but let the loser fester. 嚙瘡e obviously gets
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> > > off on this junk and it only encourages him.
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> > > There is a need to set the record straight because ignorance of this
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> > > situation should not be the reason for continuing the ostrich
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> > > treatment and pretending that sense will win out. 嚙瘢t never has with
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> > > Nyikos and it never will. 嚙瘢 don't bug the sactimonious crowd, but
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> > > they have to bug me. 嚙瞎ake stupid claims and for what? 嚙確he thing is
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> > > that I don't read most of Nyikos' stupid posts, and I can't imagine
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> > > that the sactimonious would have any reason to either. 嚙確hey likely
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> > > read the crap that Nyikos posts to other posters and obviously get the
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> > > idea that we are constantly going at it, when the facts are that
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> > > Nyikos will go months with out posting that crap to me. 嚙確hey have to
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> > > deal with Nyikos and obviously do not do a very good job, so why blame
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> > > me? 嚙皚ust because I am not there to defend myself from the stupidity,
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> > > doesn't meant that they should believe a liar like Nyikos. 嚙磋eally,
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> > > who would have thought that anyone would take Nyikos seriously?
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> > > Should I have been following Nyikos around TO with a pooper scooper?
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> > > For months at a time the problem is theirs, and not mine, and look how
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> > I would ignore totally this affair of Nyikos.
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> > Behave as if he do not existed, and its posts were
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> > the best thing is to ignore it. 嚙磐ou cannot know what he
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> > other people make to his posts you should be stop reading
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> > them when you see the word Nyikos. 嚙瘢t is a sort of
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> Easier said than done. Like I said Nyikos is a malicious asshole. I
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> Ron Okimoto
I will tell you something. It is possible or even advisable with our
children, to immunize them against "social aversives". I mean aversive
controls that exist in social life. I am using aversives as an adjective
"substantivated". I am not sure if this word exists in English.
Probably not. The process of immunization to aversives, consist in
conditioning the child to bear mild insults and some pushing, or rubbing
while replying with clear smile. To achieve this we should start with the
mildest insults and pushing on the child, perhaps some mild hit, and
slowly in successive sessions increase the teasing. We should use some
sort of reinforcing of the child by smiling and behaving as if nothing
had passed. This makes these exercises bearable.
What happened is probably, like in my case, I was a very sensible child,
and did not bear well the ordinary rubbing and pushing, and the mild
insults most children use with others. These social aversives make
sensible boys less sociable in general, and more prone to solitary
activities like reading books and studying.
Then, we are adults now. But you should realize, the many people,
some are in this group, had got a taste for bitching others, or for
complaining that it is you who is bitching him. In general, we all
love to show our intelligence by arguing about something. This results
offensive, specially when they do no see a way out at replying.
This little game looks a little like we are bitching each other.
We can do it with a glove of velvet, we can do it with gardening glove.
This mean we are all "a little bitching each other".
There are several ways of bitching each other, and each person has his
own way of bitching, otherwise also called trolling, while pretending
he is being very polite.
You have to understand that a "troller", or a "bitcher", neologisms
that I had freshly minted here, get a lot of pleasure of this sport.
Sometimes the bitcher feigns to be offended. In general, there is
a way of bitching in which when you say, "stop trolling me" he feigns
to be offended and replies... "pretencieux qui? moi?"
It is suppose that you can not accuse anyone of being trolling you.
It is bad manners.
You should watch at least one episode of the series, "web therapy".
It is a comedy in which the therapist is bitching the client and
making him feel like distilled shit.
On the other hand. There is a social taboo about declaring oneself
offended or tolled by another. It is more tolerable to reply to
someone "fuck off" than being complaining.
I am dissecting social relations like it were an insect. Then, you have
to accept that a lot of people get a lot of pleasure of bitching
others. And there is not any other solution than to show them you are
immune. Or you can simple reply "fuck off" and that's all.
We are potentially somewhat social predators, that extract a lot of
pleasure bitching others. You had seen a few examples watching a
married couple bitching each other. This is a way of life. And
nobody would come at your rescue.
I am not sure, how this explanation can help you. You must think
of humans as a bunch of little bastards, ready to downplay or
humiliate anyone around. Observe how much we behave like chimps,
teasing each other. There is only a solution for this problem
to smile, and ignore anyone that complains about you.
You are a nice dude, Ron. I take you as a sort of scientist.
Do not get depressed by this little shit. This is nothing.
Eridanus