- Be inconsiderate, don't listen to her problems. Anyone a woman tells her problems to is someone she will not sleep with. Besides, if you’re the guy she’s pouring her heart out to about her relationship problems, chances are the guy she’s sleeping with doesn’t give a crap what she thinks and that’s why she’s sleeping with him. ------------------------------------ - Be unreliable - don't be there to answer a call, especially on the weekends. Leave that to her male "friends", you know, the pussies that are too timid to actually “close the deal” and sleep with her like they truly want to. ------------------------------------ - Do NOT be dependable. Do not be easily accessible. You do NOT want to be around when she needs someone to help her move. That’s what her male friends are for. ------------------------------------ - Don't spend more than $30.00 on a date, $0 (zero dollars) is preferable. A better idea is not to take her out to dinner at all. Leave that to the chumps. Tell her to hook up with you for a drink after she has dinner with the chump. Why waste your money otherwise? A woman knows in the first few minutes of meeting you whether or not she’ll want to sleep with you. It doesn’t matter how much you spend on her after knowing that. And if it does matter, she’s a whore anyway, so you can weed her out. Why spend money to validate her worth at your expense?
And what do you think that says about what she thinks about you?
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- Never tell her when she asks if you’re seeing someone, that you’re not. It’s a test question. She’s probably going out with other people too. Telling her you’re not seeing anyone does NOT improve your chances. Making women know that you’re in demand is your best weapon to get sex. Give her a nice cryptic answer that lets her know you are seeing one or more other people. Put her on notice that you are getting it from other sources.
Make sure she knows that. ------------------------------------ - Be unavailable on the weekends. Only, only go out with a woman on the weekend if you're guaranteed to get laid. Otherwise, go out with your friends on the weekends. Go out with women (you're not screwing) on weekdays. Make sure they know they’re on the B-list, especially the hot ones. Hot women are so insecure that when a man doesn’t take that much of an interest in her, she’s thinking “what’s wrong with me”, and they’ll try harder to “get” you. ------------------------------------ - Don't buy a woman any gifts, flowers, jewelry, etc. EVER. Perhaps you can buy her flowers on your first wedding anniversary. Whatever you buy sets the bar for all future expectations she’ll have. It’s better to have her whine about you never having bought her flowers, than having her whine about how you don’t buy her as much crap as you used to. That way, when you do it, it’s more appreciated. American women somehow feel entitled to something for nothing. Take the attitude that they should have to deserve what they get, and if they don’t, kick ‘em to the curb. They’ll take, take, take as much as they can if you allow it.
Is it any wonder why God shaped the vagina like a purse?
------------------------------------ - Don’t leave the toilet seat down if you don’t have to. I’m sure she evokes the rules of equality only when it benefits her, but does an immediate about-face when it’s a traditional “courtesy” that men do for women. And don’t fall for that positive reinforcement crap that they do by saying how much of a “gentleman” or “real man” you are to do these acts for her benefit. It’s an emotional device women have been using forever to manipulate men for their designs. When they start telling you something is the gentlemanly thing to do, do the opposite. Don’t let her dictate the rules to you. (Just remember that anytime a woman tries to tell you what a “real man” or a “gentleman” would do, it’s ALWAYS some self-serving definition that has nothing to do with being a real man. It’s just a rationale for how you can better serve her.) ------------------------------------ - Never compliment her. And if you do compliment her, give her the backhanded compliments (example, if she asks if she’s fat, etc., just tell her, “but I like a woman with some meat on her bones. / if she mentions her boob size, say “but I like women with small boobs. More than a handful is too much” / “You know, you look nice, but if you worked out and toned up some and got rid of the flab on your arms and legs, you’d look really nice”).
It’s the perfect crime because they can’t be mad at you for complimenting them. American women are the most unappreciative creatures on earth. Compliments only make her think that “if this guy thinks I’m pretty, then imagine what better kind of guy I can get”. Never let her self-esteem get too high. You want to keep it low so that she’ll even sleep with YOU.
The greatest part about this is that the better looking the woman, the more insecure she is likely to be.
Women have been inundated with “empowering” bullcrap for years, it’s time to deprogram them. ------------------------------------ - Follow the 3-date-rule. If there is no sex after 3 dates, move on to the next one.
Women decide within the first few minutes if they will have sex with you and under what terms......lover (right away) or provider (meal ticket). If more than a few dates go by (which you spend next to no money on) with no sex, get rid of her.
This is very important. If you don't she will either use you for gifts, expensive dates etc. or start sizing you up as a long term meal ticket (hello, financial and emotional ruin). ------------------------------------ - Always date more than one woman at a time, and if you’re not, act as if you are. It signals unavailability and your value to the woman. She will find you more interesting because you have better things to do than just pursue her. ------------------------------------ - NEVER go on a trip to Vegas, the Beach, etc. with a woman with whom you’re not sleeping thinking you might get laid. You’re being used. Yeah, you might get lucky, but why take that chance expending so much money and time? ------------------------------------ - Women want what they can’t have. When you go to a bar, you should just walk in and not talk to them. Make them buy you the drink, make them buy you dinner. Make them think that you’ve got something going on. You want them to think that you’ve got better things to do than be with them and that they’re lucky that you’re even wasting your time with them when you could be out with other women. NEVER, EVER buy them a drink, especially when they’re with their friends because then, if they’re truly detestable whores, they’ll use you to buy their friends drinks too and then ignore you. Don’t give them the satisfaction of thinking they’re worth your buying them a drink. Women do NOT respect chumps. ------------------------------------
Only give women what they deserve. American women are the most unappreciative creatures on Earth, so they don’t often deserve anything but a good spanking. ------------------------------------ Never give a woman an opportunity to say “no”. Women love to say no to men to boost their own egos. They get pleasure from turning men down. Learn from salesman. Never ask a question where the answer could be no. Give them options (i.e. “what’s better Tuesday or Thursday”). ------------------------------------ - Don’t let them control you with sex. If she has competition, she’ll work much harder to keep you interested. Ever watch the Bachelor or Joe Millionaire? It’s the perfect experiment in just how far women go when they want a desirable man, who is made more desirable by the fact that other women want him and are competing for him. After a while, it’s not even about the man, it’s about the competition and validation. Do you think for a minute that those women were in love? Hell NO! Women are so self-deceptive that you can’t even trust them when they tell you they love you, especially when they’re benefiting greatly from being in the relationship.
This is why marriage with American women is not desirable anymore, because it means that they don’t have to do anything to keep you interested after they’ve got what they want. They have no more incentives. Now they can get fat, cut off all of their hair, have less sex with you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
It is a power shift, and I would advise any man no to allow any woman to have that kind of power over him. Women abuse the rules that protect them at an incredible rate, and they’re often so f’ed in the head that they can dig deep and find some erroneous, illogical, irrational justification for it. They just don’t have any incentive to keep you interested anymore.
Don’t let them be the only game in town.
Women use sex as the “loss leader” to get you in the door. It’s part of the bait & switch strategy that ultimately becomes Marriage. They use sex to get you lured in until they have you locked in and have control. They don’t really want it as much as you anyway. They always need an incentive to have sex with you, so why not give them one. Men lie to get sex. Women lie to get married. Women will deny this all day long.
Feel free to ignore their denials. ------------------------------------
- DATE FOREIGN as much as possible. No experience in life will wake you up to the fact that American women aged 18-35 are the most atrocious, toxic, demanding, unappreciative, contemptuous, self-obsessed, self-centered, man-hating, bigoted, lying, double-standard following, deluded creatures in the galaxy. Find a South American, a Central American, a Southeast Asian, a Philipina – and you will see the difference. Some of the women
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> - Be inconsiderate, don't listen to her problems. Anyone a woman tells > her problems to is someone she will not sleep with. Besides, if you’re > the guy she’s pouring her heart out to about her relationship > problems, chances are the guy she’s sleeping with doesn’t give a crap > what she thinks and that’s why she’s sleeping with him. > ------------------------------------ > - Be unreliable - don't be there to answer a call, especially on the > weekends. Leave that to her male "friends", you know, the pussies that > are too timid to actually “close the deal” and sleep with her like > they truly want to. > ------------------------------------ > - Do NOT be dependable. Do not be easily accessible. You do NOT want > to be around when she needs someone to help her move. That’s what her > male friends are for. > ------------------------------------ > - Don't spend more than $30.00 on a date, $0 (zero dollars) is > preferable. A better idea is not to take her out to dinner at all. > Leave that to the chumps. Tell her to hook up with you for a drink > after she has dinner with the chump. Why waste your money otherwise? > A woman knows in the first few minutes of meeting you whether or not > she’ll want to sleep with you. It doesn’t matter how much you spend on > her after knowing that. And if it does matter, she’s a whore anyway, > so you can weed her out. Why spend money to validate her worth at your > expense?
> And what do you think that says about what she thinks about you?
> ------------------------------------
> - Never tell her when she asks if you’re seeing someone, that you’re > not. It’s a test question. She’s probably going out with other people > too. Telling her you’re not seeing anyone does NOT improve your > chances. Making women know that you’re in demand is your best weapon > to get sex. Give her a nice cryptic answer that lets her know you are > seeing one or more other people. Put her on notice that you are > getting it from other sources.
> Make sure she knows that. > ------------------------------------ > - Be unavailable on the weekends. Only, only go out with a woman on > the weekend if you're guaranteed to get laid. Otherwise, go out with > your friends on the weekends. Go out with women (you're not screwing) > on weekdays. Make sure they know they’re on the B-list, especially the > hot ones. Hot women are so insecure that when a man doesn’t take that > much of an interest in her, she’s thinking “what’s wrong with me”, and > they’ll try harder to “get” you. > ------------------------------------ > - Don't buy a woman any gifts, flowers, jewelry, etc. EVER. Perhaps > you can buy her flowers on your first wedding anniversary. Whatever > you buy sets the bar for all future expectations she’ll have. It’s > better to have her whine about you never having bought her flowers, > than having her whine about how you don’t buy her as much crap as you > used to. That way, when you do it, it’s more appreciated. American > women somehow feel entitled to something for nothing. Take the > attitude that they should have to deserve what they get, and if they > don’t, kick ‘em to the curb. They’ll take, take, take as much as they > can if you allow it.
> Is it any wonder why God shaped the vagina like a purse?
> ------------------------------------ > - Don’t leave the toilet seat down if you don’t have to. I’m sure she > evokes the rules of equality only when it benefits her, but does an > immediate about-face when it’s a traditional “courtesy” that men do > for women. And don’t fall for that positive reinforcement crap that > they do by saying how much of a “gentleman” or “real man” you are to > do these acts for her benefit. It’s an emotional device women have > been using forever to manipulate men for their designs. When they > start telling you something is the gentlemanly thing to do, do the > opposite. Don’t let her dictate the rules to you. (Just remember that > anytime a woman tries to tell you what a “real man” or a “gentleman” > would do, it’s ALWAYS some self-serving definition that has nothing to > do with being a real man. It’s just a rationale for how you can better > serve her.) > ------------------------------------ > - Never compliment her. And if you do compliment her, give her the > backhanded compliments (example, if she asks if she’s fat, etc., just > tell her, “but I like a woman with some meat on her bones. / if she > mentions her boob size, say “but I like women with small boobs. More > than a handful is too much” / “You know, you look nice, but if you > worked out and toned up some and got rid of the flab on your arms and > legs, you’d look really nice”).
> It’s the perfect crime because they can’t be mad at you for > complimenting them. American women are the most unappreciative > creatures on earth. Compliments only make her think that “if this guy > thinks I’m pretty, then imagine what better kind of guy I can get”. > Never let her self-esteem get too high. You want to keep it low so > that she’ll even sleep with YOU.
> The greatest part about this is that the better looking the woman, the > more insecure she is likely to be.
> Women have been inundated with “empowering” bullcrap for years, it’s > time to deprogram them. > ------------------------------------ > - Follow the 3-date-rule. If there is no sex after 3 dates, move on to > the next one.
> Women decide within the first few minutes if they will have sex with > you and under what terms......lover (right away) or provider (meal > ticket). If more than a few dates go by (which you spend next to no > money on) with no sex, get rid of her.
> This is very important. If you don't she will either use you for > gifts, expensive dates etc. or start sizing you up as a long term meal > ticket (hello, financial and emotional ruin). > ------------------------------------ > - Always date more than one woman at a time, and if you’re not, act as > if you are. It signals unavailability and your value to the woman. She > will find you more interesting because you have better things to do > than just pursue her. > ------------------------------------ > - NEVER go on a trip to Vegas, the Beach, etc. with a woman with whom > you’re not sleeping thinking you might get laid. You’re being used. > Yeah, you might get lucky, but why take that chance expending so much > money and time? > ------------------------------------ > - Women want what they can’t have. When you go to a bar, you should > just walk in and not talk to them. Make them buy you the drink, make > them buy you dinner. Make them think that you’ve got something going > on. You want them to think that you’ve got better things to do than be > with them and that they’re lucky that you’re even wasting your time > with them when you could be out with other women. NEVER, EVER buy them > a drink, especially when they’re with their friends because then, if > they’re truly detestable whores, they’ll use you to buy their friends > drinks too and then ignore you. Don’t give them the satisfaction of > thinking they’re worth your buying them a drink. Women do NOT respect > chumps. > ------------------------------------
> Only give women what they deserve. American women are the most > unappreciative creatures on Earth, so they don’t often deserve > anything but a good spanking. > ------------------------------------ > Never give a woman an opportunity to say “no”. Women love to say no to > men to boost their own egos. They get pleasure from turning men down. > Learn from salesman. Never ask a question where the answer could be > no. Give them options (i.e. “what’s better Tuesday or Thursday”). > ------------------------------------ > - Don’t let them control you with sex. If she has competition, she’ll > work much harder to keep you interested. Ever watch the Bachelor or > Joe Millionaire? It’s the perfect experiment in just how far women go > when they want a desirable man, who is made more desirable by the fact > that other women want him and are competing for him. After a while, > it’s not even about the man, it’s about the competition and > validation. Do you think for a minute that those women were in love? > Hell NO! Women are so self-deceptive that you can’t even trust them > when they tell you they love you, especially when they’re benefiting > greatly from being in the relationship.
> This is why marriage with American women is not desirable anymore, > because it means that they don’t have to do anything to keep you > interested after they’ve got what they want. They have no more > incentives. Now they can get fat, cut off all of their hair, have less > sex with you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
> It is a power shift, and I would advise any man no to allow any woman > to have that kind of power over him. Women abuse the rules that > protect them at an incredible rate, and they’re often so f’ed in the > head that they can dig deep and find some erroneous, illogical, > irrational justification for it. They just don’t have any incentive to > keep you interested anymore.
> Don’t let them be the only game in town.
> Women use sex as the “loss leader” to get you in the door. It’s part > of the bait & switch strategy that ultimately becomes Marriage. They > use sex to get you lured in until they have you locked in and have > control. They don’t really want it as much as you anyway. They always > need an incentive to have sex with you, so why not give them one. Men > lie to get sex. Women lie to get married. Women will deny this all day > long.
> Feel free to ignore their denials. > ------------------------------------
> - DATE FOREIGN as much as possible. No experience in life
> - Be inconsiderate, don't listen to her problems. Anyone a woman tells > her problems to is someone she will not sleep with. Besides, if you’re > the guy she’s pouring her heart out to about her relationship > problems, chances are the guy she’s sleeping with doesn’t give a crap > what she thinks and that’s why she’s sleeping with him. > ------------------------------------ > - Be unreliable - don't be there to answer a call, especially on the > weekends. Leave that to her male "friends", you know, the pussies that > are too timid to actually “close the deal” and sleep with her like > they truly want to. > ------------------------------------ > - Do NOT be dependable. Do not be easily accessible. You do NOT want > to be around when she needs someone to help her move. That’s what her > male friends are for. > ------------------------------------ > - Don't spend more than $30.00 on a date, $0 (zero dollars) is > preferable. A better idea is not to take her out to dinner at all. > Leave that to the chumps. Tell her to hook up with you for a drink > after she has dinner with the chump. Why waste your money otherwise? > A woman knows in the first few minutes of meeting you whether or not > she’ll want to sleep with you. It doesn’t matter how much you spend on > her after knowing that. And if it does matter, she’s a whore anyway, > so you can weed her out. Why spend money to validate her worth at your > expense?
> And what do you think that says about what she thinks about you?
> ------------------------------------
> - Never tell her when she asks if you’re seeing someone, that you’re > not. It’s a test question. She’s probably going out with other people > too. Telling her you’re not seeing anyone does NOT improve your > chances. Making women know that you’re in demand is your best weapon > to get sex. Give her a nice cryptic answer that lets her know you are > seeing one or more other people. Put her on notice that you are > getting it from other sources.
> Make sure she knows that. > ------------------------------------ > - Be unavailable on the weekends. Only, only go out with a woman on > the weekend if you're guaranteed to get laid. Otherwise, go out with > your friends on the weekends. Go out with women (you're not screwing) > on weekdays. Make sure they know they’re on the B-list, especially the > hot ones. Hot women are so insecure that when a man doesn’t take that > much of an interest in her, she’s thinking “what’s wrong with me”, and > they’ll try harder to “get” you. > ------------------------------------ > - Don't buy a woman any gifts, flowers, jewelry, etc. EVER. Perhaps > you can buy her flowers on your first wedding anniversary. Whatever > you buy sets the bar for all future expectations she’ll have. It’s > better to have her whine about you never having bought her flowers, > than having her whine about how you don’t buy her as much crap as you > used to. That way, when you do it, it’s more appreciated. American > women somehow feel entitled to something for nothing. Take the > attitude that they should have to deserve what they get, and if they > don’t, kick ‘em to the curb. They’ll take, take, take as much as they > can if you allow it.
> Is it any wonder why God shaped the vagina like a purse?
> ------------------------------------ > - Don’t leave the toilet seat down if you don’t have to. I’m sure she > evokes the rules of equality only when it benefits her, but does an > immediate about-face when it’s a traditional “courtesy” that men do > for women. And don’t fall for that positive reinforcement crap that > they do by saying how much of a “gentleman” or “real man” you are to > do these acts for her benefit. It’s an emotional device women have > been using forever to manipulate men for their designs. When they > start telling you something is the gentlemanly thing to do, do the > opposite. Don’t let her dictate the rules to you. (Just remember that > anytime a woman tries to tell you what a “real man” or a “gentleman” > would do, it’s ALWAYS some self-serving definition that has nothing to > do with being a real man. It’s just a rationale for how you can better > serve her.) > ------------------------------------ > - Never compliment her. And if you do compliment her, give her the > backhanded compliments (example, if she asks if she’s fat, etc., just > tell her, “but I like a woman with some meat on her bones. / if she > mentions her boob size, say “but I like women with small boobs. More > than a handful is too much” / “You know, you look nice, but if you > worked out and toned up some and got rid of the flab on your arms and > legs, you’d look really nice”).
> It’s the perfect crime because they can’t be mad at you for > complimenting them. American women are the most unappreciative > creatures on earth. Compliments only make her think that “if this guy > thinks I’m pretty, then imagine what better kind of guy I can get”. > Never let her self-esteem get too high. You want to keep it low so > that she’ll even sleep with YOU.
> The greatest part about this is that the better looking the woman, the > more insecure she is likely to be.
> Women have been inundated with “empowering” bullcrap for years, it’s > time to deprogram them. > ------------------------------------ > - Follow the 3-date-rule. If there is no sex after 3 dates, move on to > the next one.
> Women decide within the first few minutes if they will have sex with > you and under what terms......lover (right away) or provider (meal > ticket). If more than a few dates go by (which you spend next to no > money on) with no sex, get rid of her.
> This is very important. If you don't she will either use you for > gifts, expensive dates etc. or start sizing you up as a long term meal > ticket (hello, financial and emotional ruin). > ------------------------------------ > - Always date more than one woman at a time, and if you’re not, act as > if you are. It signals unavailability and your value to the woman. She > will find you more interesting because you have better things to do > than just pursue her. > ------------------------------------ > - NEVER go on a trip to Vegas, the Beach, etc. with a woman with whom > you’re not sleeping thinking you might get laid. You’re being used. > Yeah, you might get lucky, but why take that chance expending so much > money and time? > ------------------------------------ > - Women want what they can’t have. When you go to a bar, you should > just walk in and not talk to them. Make them buy you the drink, make > them buy you dinner. Make them think that you’ve got something going > on. You want them to think that you’ve got better things to do than be > with them and that they’re lucky that you’re even wasting your time > with them when you could be out with other women. NEVER, EVER buy them > a drink, especially when they’re with their friends because then, if > they’re truly detestable whores, they’ll use you to buy their friends > drinks too and then ignore you. Don’t give them the satisfaction of > thinking they’re worth your buying them a drink. Women do NOT respect > chumps. > ------------------------------------
> Only give women what they deserve. American women are the most > unappreciative creatures on Earth, so they don’t often deserve > anything but a good spanking. > ------------------------------------ > Never give a woman an opportunity to say “no”. Women love to say no to > men to boost their own egos. They get pleasure from turning men down. > Learn from salesman. Never ask a question where the answer could be > no. Give them options (i.e. “what’s better Tuesday or Thursday”). > ------------------------------------ > - Don’t let them control you with sex. If she has competition, she’ll > work much harder to keep you interested. Ever watch the Bachelor or > Joe Millionaire? It’s the perfect experiment in just how far women go > when they want a desirable man, who is made more desirable by the fact > that other women want him and are competing for him. After a while, > it’s not even about the man, it’s about the competition and > validation. Do you think for a minute that those women were in love? > Hell NO! Women are so self-deceptive that you can’t even trust them > when they tell you they love you, especially when they’re benefiting > greatly from being in the relationship.
> This is why marriage with American women is not desirable anymore, > because it means that they don’t have to do anything to keep you > interested after they’ve got what they want. They have no more > incentives. Now they can get fat, cut off all of their hair, have less > sex with you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
> It is a power shift, and I would advise any man no to allow any woman > to have that kind of power over him. Women abuse the rules that > protect them at an incredible rate, and they’re often so f’ed in the > head that they can dig deep and find some erroneous, illogical, > irrational justification for it. They just don’t have any incentive to > keep you interested anymore.
> Don’t let them be the only game in town.
> Women use sex as the “loss leader” to get you in the door. It’s part > of the bait & switch strategy that ultimately becomes Marriage. They > use sex to get you lured in until they have you locked in and have > control. They don’t really want it as much as you anyway. They always > need an incentive to have sex with you, so why not give them one. Men > lie to get sex. Women lie to get married. Women will deny this all day > long.
> Feel free to ignore their denials. > ------------------------------------
> - DATE FOREIGN as much as possible. No experience in life
It amazes me that people actually dispute my assertion that I'm finding a pattern of "dating foreign" among short men.
IXNAY on the foreigners. And you won't be "getting back" at anyone by doing so. If you're a short man, American women will be estatic if you "date foreign" (well...the ones men actually want to date, anyway).
In fact, they might just tear up and get all emotional about how "beautiful" it is.
...while her tall man agrees and places his chin upon her head.
In article <xn0dzpugg2t07t5...@news.west.earthlink.net> VF
<vfi...@earthlink.net> wrote: >You sound angry. I couldn't even finish reading the whole rant. What >happend? Some chick wouldn't put out for you tonight?
It's always just "angry" or "bitter" or "couldn't get laid", isn't it?
Thinking hurts. Ouch.
I could read the whole post just perfectly, even if it does overlook some inescapable social-contractual perspectives.
I found the post quite optimistic about the respectability of foreign (read: non-Western/consumerist) women. -----BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE----- Version: GnuPG v1.0.4 (GNU/Linux) Comment: For info see http://www.gnupg.org
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Joe Canuck <Joe.Can...@removethis-gmail.com> wrote in news:rK2dnZ- r5Ih2GajfRVn...@magma.ca:
> Would *you* like to be treated in that fashion? >Nice Guys ARE treated in that fashion by women you stupid bag of shit.
Well, if they're short they are.
If a tall guy is nice, he's a "hero". If a tall guy's a bastard, he's "cool".
This is undoubtedly one of the saddest things I've ever read. Life is short, and uncertain, and there's no guarantee that there's anything beyond this life -- so to spend precious time on such bitterness is such a terrible waste of time and energy.
> On 14 Mar 2005 09:01:37 -0800, "bluesmama" <onebluesm...@gmail.com> > wrote:
> >Hardpan wrote: > >> THE RULES
> >This is undoubtedly one of the saddest things I've ever read. Life is > >short, and uncertain, and there's no guarantee that there's anything > >beyond this life -- so to spend precious time on such bitterness is > >such a terrible waste of time and energy.
> What bitterness?
> This list of rules is about helping Men get some tail from > self-centered American whores who like to play games and see how much > you will do for them before putting out.
It's partly about that. And it probably does a good job of it. It's mostly about venting emotion, though. It's obvious from the wording.
Hardpan wrote: > On 14 Mar 2005 09:01:37 -0800, "bluesmama" <onebluesm...@gmail.com> > wrote:
> >Hardpan wrote: > >> THE RULES
> >This is undoubtedly one of the saddest things I've ever read. Life is > >short, and uncertain, and there's no guarantee that there's anything > >beyond this life -- so to spend precious time on such bitterness is > >such a terrible waste of time and energy.
> What bitterness?
> This list of rules is about helping Men get some tail from > self-centered American whores who like to play games and see how much > you will do for them before putting out.
> IOW, getting laid without being used as a sucker and dumped before you > spend a lot a cash on a woman that will never have sex with you.
> Is there some reason I should pay any more attention to you, troll?
> This is undoubtedly one of the saddest things I've ever read. Life is > short
I've never understood the expression "life is short". High school lasted four years but it felt like a hundred. And it feels like it's been sixty years since high school ended even though it's only been five.
Why can't I just hurry up and die of natural causes already?
> - Be inconsiderate, don't listen to her problems. Anyone a woman tells > her problems to is someone she will not sleep with. Besides, if you're > the guy she's pouring her heart out to about her relationship > problems, chances are the guy she's sleeping with doesn't give a crap > what she thinks and that's why she's sleeping with him.
Ain't it the truth. I'll also point out that life is too short to listen to someone squawking about her bf, job, and so on, especially when she has no intention of fixing whatever the problems are. She doesn't even want you to suggest solutions, and some will even resent you for doing so. She just wants you to listen, to what end I have no idea. Don't do it. Be too busy.
> ------------------------------------ > - Be unreliable - don't be there to answer a call, especially on the > weekends. Leave that to her male "friends", you know, the pussies that > are too timid to actually "close the deal" and sleep with her like > they truly want to.
Well I don't know about that. You could answer the call and see what she wants. If it's to chat, you can say you're busy, and you'll be right. There is always something better to do than talk to a girl on the phone. If she calls to set up a date, set it up, and then finish the call.
> ------------------------------------ > - Do NOT be dependable. Do not be easily accessible. You do NOT want > to be around when she needs someone to help her move. That's what her > male friends are for.
And you can be sure she wouldn't do the same favor for you. Help your male friends, because those are real friendships, and they'll get you out of a bind too. But when a girl wants you to move furniture for her, forget it. Watching the mid-day movie on AMC would be preferable.
> ------------------------------------ > - Don't spend more than $30.00 on a date, $0 (zero dollars) is > preferable. A better idea is not to take her out to dinner at all.
Well that all depends on whether a date gets you what you want. If you spend that, and then you spend the next four hours in bed with her, you've spent $15 on a four-hour romp. (The other $15 was for your food. Dating is somewhat of an excuse to treat yourself to a nice meal.) But if, after dinner, you gather from the conversation that your money was spent in vain, you can still avoid spending more on her.
> Leave that to the chumps. Tell her to hook up with you for a drink > after she has dinner with the chump. Why waste your money otherwise? > A woman knows in the first few minutes of meeting you whether or not > she'll want to sleep with you.
But you don't know.
> It doesn't matter how much you spend on > her after knowing that. And if it does matter, she's a whore anyway, > so you can weed her out. Why spend money to validate her worth at your > expense?
If you swear off meal hoes, you greatly shrink the pool of potential lovers.
> And what do you think that says about what she thinks about you?
It doesn't really matter what she thinks. It's what she does.
> - Never tell her when she asks if you're seeing someone, that you're > not. It's a test question. She's probably going out with other people > too. Telling her you're not seeing anyone does NOT improve your > chances. Making women know that you're in demand is your best weapon > to get sex. Give her a nice cryptic answer
Absolutely. It's none of her business anyway. You've made no committments to her.
[...]
> - Don't leave the toilet seat down if you don't have to. I'm sure she > evokes the rules of equality only when it benefits her, but does an > immediate about-face when it's a traditional "courtesy" that
men do
You can do her an even greater courtesy by giving her valuable advice. Ask her how many wet asses it will take before she finally learns to look at the seat before sitting. They will go to all out war over the seat, because if you leave it up, they'll fall in. But whose fault is that? No matter how they slice it, they can't blame anyone else if they fall into a toilet. [...]
I'm not a woman hater by any means but I would have to admit that those "rules" do actually make a fair few good points about how many womens minds work on a subconscious level.
To categorize all women as being whores and all thinking in the same way is completely wrong though. There's alot of women that aren't devious or manipulative. Some are just looking for happiness in life.
> In article <xn0dzpugg2t07t5...@news.west.earthlink.net> VF > <vfi...@earthlink.net> wrote: > > You sound angry. I couldn't even finish reading the whole rant. What > > happend? Some chick wouldn't put out for you tonight?
> It's always just "angry" or "bitter" or "couldn't get laid", isn't it?
> > This is undoubtedly one of the saddest things I've ever read. Life is > > short
> I've never understood the expression "life is short". High school > lasted four years but it felt like a hundred. And it feels like it's > been sixty years since high school ended even though it's only been > five.
> Why can't I just hurry up and die of natural causes already?
I understand the expression. I'm 5' 1/2". So no matter how long I live, life will be short.
These rules sound like the kind of rules that will remove everyone in your life and obtain a large hate group with your name as the focus. I was "the nice guy for many many years and yeah I will admit it doesn't get you any "true" friends and it doesn't allow your wallet full or your time unabused. But going in completely the opposite direction doesn't work either, rather than being stepped on people will be scared to come and speak to you, you will be just as alone. Getting a balance between the 2 is the most successful way you can go, if people give you shit you call them on it, not to the extent of punching thier lights out of course, and if someone asks you to do something that you dont want to do/dont have time for you can just say "no sorry, can't do it". Also asking other people to do things for you will get respect.
On Mon, 14 Mar 2005 09:01:37 -0800, bluesmama wrote:
> Hardpan wrote: >> THE RULES
> This is undoubtedly one of the saddest things I've ever read.
I take it that you haven't heard of the bestseller "The Rules" by Ellen Fein, Sherrie Schneider? This book set the ball rolling by promising to teach women the power-play needed to snag a man. Or were you less saddened by that?
Besides, women's magazines are overflowing with tricks to hook guys, are you saddened by that too?
> Life is > short, and uncertain, and there's no guarantee that there's anything > beyond this life -- so to spend precious time on such bitterness is > such a terrible waste of time and energy.
Check out alt.seduction.fast or www.fastseduction.com. These guys are busy refining their "rules" and are delighted with the results. They are not bitter in the least. This stuff works very well, apparently, which is quite a commentary on the modern western woman.
Weren't you of the opinion that women were not responsible for taking advantage of men's chivalry? Isn't it ironic that a person such as you should feel sad on reading a few "rules"?
> Good recipe to remain alone... if that is what you are seeking.
Mebbe not alone.. but, as with the women's version, a fantastic way of ensuring that the only relationships you'll ever have are with lunatics or those with serious self-esteem issues. As an added bonus it also provides plenty of material to demonstrate that the rules are necessary to "protect" yourself.
Have fun,
P.
-- The most common of all follies is to believe passionately in the palpably not true. It is the chief occupation of mankind. H. L. Mencken
> In article <xn0dzpugg2t07t5...@news.west.earthlink.net> VF > <vfi...@earthlink.net> wrote: > >You sound angry. I couldn't even finish reading the whole rant. What > >happend? Some chick wouldn't put out for you tonight?
> It's always just "angry" or "bitter" or "couldn't get laid", isn't
it?
It almost always is...
> Thinking hurts. Ouch.
Take an aspirin...
> I could read the whole post just perfectly, even if it does overlook > some inescapable social-contractual perspectives.
Just more bullshit from the "can't get laid crowd...
