Sex Addiction
The Knights That Say Ni
Basically, it's all I think about and want to talk about,
everwhere I go I just want to hit on girls and get board
with a place or people if there no girls to hit on.
I have sex about at least 4 times a day, sometimes with the
same girl. I watch a lot of porn, and have even paid to make
my own porn video and hired a model for a set of hardcore pictures,
just for my own fun. I am now interested in public sex and exabishionisum.
Am I addicited ?
suzee
I think that's more of an obsession. Sexual addiction (from a clinical
viewpoint) is when you do have sex and keep wanting more and more of it
because it doesn't leave you satisfied from an emotional standpoint,
though you may not (probably won't) have emotional connections to your
partners. Of course, it's a bit more complicated than that.
sue
Joel
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Depends. Are you a teen, or no? *grin*
But seriously... You just enjoy sex a lot. If it starts hurting other
parts of your life, -that- is when you should start worrying. Other than
that though... you sound fine.
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> viewpoint) is when you do have sex and keep wanting more and more of it
> because it doesn't leave you satisfied from an emotional standpoint,
> though you may not (probably won't) have emotional connections to your
> partners. Of course, it's a bit more complicated than that.
>
Well when I do have sex I do keep wanting more and more of it
but it's not that it doesn't leave me satisfied from an emotional
standpoint, just a sexual one. How ever much I get it is not
enough, plus I get bord with the same partner, so need to try
others. Most girlfirends, also don't want the same ammount of
sex I do.
suzee
That might be borderline addiction, I couldn't say for certain as I'm
not a psychologist or psychiatrist. You might want to check with a
counselor or someone more trained in addictions to get a professional
opinion.
Eric
I'm not a therapist nor do I play one on TV.
Do you have any other hobbies besids sex? I've noticed that my
interest in sex goes way up when I am not pre-occupied with other
activities. When there's nothing going on, I find myself fantasizing
and being horny all day. However, when I am working on a project, my
interest in sex diminished.
Just a thought.
Eric
Randy Starshagger
Do you have any other hobbies besids sex?
No, not really in my spare time I am either with a girlfirend or
go to clubs to pick up
interest in sex goes way up when I am not pre-occupied with other
> activities
Again even when working I find my self thinking about sex or if
there is a nice girl or girls there, how I am going to hit on them,
and then keep looking out for a good opertunity to do so.
DeferentialCiphr
It might help you to decide if you educated yourself about this subject. Use
a search engine and look up sex addiction. Though by raising the question
yourself I'd guess you probably are.
good luck
DB
Randy Starshagger
> yourself I'd guess you probably are.
>
Seems I am !
Laurie S.
Call me pedantic, but I don't accept the label of "addiction" for
things that are compulsions and/or obsessions, whether it be sex,
food, gambling, the Internet, whatever. I consider addictions to be
physical in nature; psychological compulsion/obsession is more grey.
Look at it this way: If you're addicted to morphine, it's because your
body has developed a need for it. Simple. If, however, you obsess over
sex, and you do sexual things compulsively, the cause may not be
readily apparent. It makes addiction and compulsion/obsession very
different, too different IMO to be painted with the same brush.
If you're addicted to something, the goal should be to eliminate it
from your life because it's bad for you (I think the phrase "sexual
addiction" actually implies this, in a sense, and has the effect of
making people feel they're doing something bad or shameful). But the
goal with a genuine obsession/compulsion should be to *curb* the
feelings and behavior, and explore why they exist.
That said, I'd say you're pretty compulsive about sex and that you
obsess about it. Maybe you're young, and you're enjoying the thrill of
getting as much as you can. Maybe you feel like you'll miss something
if you don't saturate yourself with sex. Maybe sex is the only way you
really know how to feel good, so you focus on it to the exclusion of
most other things, and maybe if you tried to find some other things
that you really did enjoy, and let sex take a back seat now and then,
your sexual interests might naturally relax so you can enjoy other
experiences. You could just be really highly sexed, but I'd guess it's
a problem if you can't have any fun unless there are girls to hit on.
Just some thoughts off the top of my head...
Laurie
Roy. Just Roy.
Think destructive behavior. Do you lose friends because the only thing
you want to do is brag about the sex you get?
Do you not care if a girl is with a boyfriend or not? Do you get into
fights trying to steal girls away from other guys?
If a girl says, "no", do you get angry with her? Call her names? Hit
her?
Have you used threats/violence/raped a girl to get sex? Drugged her
against her knowledge?
Do you regularly miss work / school because you are out hunting at
clubs?
Do you not care about relationships, or even how attractive the girl
is, or even if it IS a girl, just as long as you get laid?
If you are concerned, take a break. Lock the porn away. Burn the
pictures. Go to a club and go home alone. See if you NEED sex to feel
self-important. If you do, maybe it's time to get some help.
Personally, I think you just need a new challenge. You're attracted to
the chase, and you need to find another race.
JJ
JJ
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Randy Starshagger
> you want to do is brag about the sex you get?
>
Some of the guys at college get I bit jelous, but that don't bother
me.
> Do you not care if a girl is with a boyfriend or not?
Only on one night stands mainly have I had sex with a girl who
has a BF, I don't normally hit on a girl if she has a BF, unless she
is giving me a come on
If a girl says, "no", do you get angry with her? Call her names? Hit
> her?
> Have you used threats/violence/raped a girl to get sex? Drugged her
> against her knowledge?
>
NO
> Do you regularly miss work / school because you are out hunting at
> clubs?
>
Often get up late, like lunch time, becuse I am in bed with a girl,
but I just do things late, but everyone forgets to do stuff when
thier busy doing something else.
> Do you not care about relationships, or even how attractive the girl
> is, or even if it IS a girl, just as long as you get laid?
>
She has to be attractive to me in some way, but I find most are
even older women.
> If you are concerned, take a break. Lock the porn away. Burn the
> pictures.
I don't use porn, I prefer and have the real thing.
Go to a club and go home alone. See if you NEED sex to feel
>
Ahhhh I hate that I fell really bad when that happens.
Randy Starshagger
> you want to do is brag about the sex you get?
>
Not really some guys at college are jelous, but that don't
bother me.
> Do you not care if a girl is with a boyfriend or not?
The only time I've been with girls that have BF's is on one
night stands, normally if a girl has a BF I don;t hit on her
unless she is giving me a real come on.
>
> If a girl says, "no", do you get angry with her? Call her names? Hit
> her? Have you used threats/violence/raped a girl to get sex? Drugged her
against her knowledge?
>
NO
> Do you regularly miss work / school because you are out hunting at
> clubs?
>
I sometimes miss stuff becuase I'm in bed with a girl and get up
late, like lunch time. But so far it just means I get things done
a bit late, but everyone sometimes forgets stuff if there busy doing
something else.
> Do you not care about relationships, or even how attractive the girl
> is, or even if it IS a girl, just as long as you get laid?
>
No, even if she is an older woman, she has to be attractive
to me in some way. But I find most do seem attractive to me.
> If you are concerned, take a break. Lock the porn away. Burn the
> pictures. Go to a club and go home alone
>
Don't use porn, prefer the real thing. Ahhhhhh can't stand going
home alone feel really bad when that happens.
JJ
I'm curious, Randy, with no fulltime live in lover, how do you manage (time
wise) 6 screwing sessions a day? I would think your whole day would revolve
around finding screwing partners. Plus, you couldn't possibly put much time
nor feeling into each screwing session. Are you a 5 minute man? How do you
pay your bills, shop for groceries, get a haircut, do your college work,
etc? There is more to life than lining up fucking prospects.
One more question. Do you consider pulling your dick out for 5 mins & then
sticking it back in a second session?
Feel free to ignore me....I'm just having a hard time understanding your
life & how proud you seem to be of it.
JJ
"Randy Starshagger" <lbja...@ukc.ac.uk> wrote in message
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Randy Starshagger
wise) 6 screwing sessions a day?
>
Where dose it say I have no live in lover, I have a girlfriend that
lives with me most of the time, we're at college and she spends
mosts nights in my room or I go to hers. Most other girls I have slept with
are also here and have thier own rooms.
I would think your whole day would revolve
> around finding screwing partners.
College is full of girls, I don't waste time when hitting on a girl, I'm
direct and ask her out on a date within a couple of mintues of talking to
her, so it don't take long.
How do you
> pay your bills, shop for groceries, get a haircut, do your college work,
> etc?
I don't go to my lectures, and all my classes are only on two days
of the week, so I have plenty of time to wonder round college
hiting on girls. In fact me and a friend are going to "cruse" the libary
later. As for my bills I have my student loan and other finance to pay
them, I shop once a month or take out, and a haircut only takes about
half hour every month or so.
There is more to life than lining up fucking prospects.
>
Is there ?
> One more question. Do you consider pulling your dick out for 5 mins & then
sticking it back in a second session?
LOL
Randy Starshagger
> getting as much as you can. Maybe you feel like you'll miss something
> if you don't saturate yourself with sex.
Yea I'm 23 and do feel like I'd miss something if I don't try it on
with any girls I meet
You could just be really highly sexed, but I'd guess it's
> a problem if you can't have any fun unless there are girls to hit on.
>
Well I just love girls and if I'm having a beer with the guys from
college thier converstion bores me about football,etc. So then I
start looking around the bar for girls !
Troy Bull
> Well I just love girls and if I'm having a beer with the guys from
> college thier converstion bores me about football,etc. So then I
> start looking around the bar for girls !
What strikes me, is that you call these women, girls. Just a little
something
I noticed.
Troy (married to, a beautiful women) Bull
Randy Starshagger
> something
> I noticed.
>
Well I'm 23, so I define any female under 30 as a "girl" and over
as a "woman". I mainly hit on girls, being at college and most of
them are between 18-25, but sometimes go for older women.
Wendy Hankins
> I'm curious, Randy, with no fulltime live in lover, how do you manage
> (time wise) 6 screwing sessions a day?
>>
>
> Where dose it say I have no live in lover, I have a girlfriend that
> lives with me most of the time, we're at college and she spends
> mosts nights in my room or I go to hers. Most other girls I have slept
> with are also here and have thier own rooms.
>
does your gf expect a monogamous relationship, and if she does, how would
she feel knowing you are always on the prowl for your next screw? how
would you feel if the situation were reversed? what will you do if/when
she finds out about this?
<shakes head>
i dated a guy who did what you claim to be doing. he lasted till i found
out about it. i felt used and dirty and cheap, till i realized it was HIm
who was doing this and not me. however i DID go get tested for STD's just
in case he got something he brought home and i might have gotten. luckily
everything was negative, but if it hadnt been, you can be sure i would have
told EVERYONE i could that he had been with sexually about it. not to hurt
him, but to protect THEM from the diseases.
wendy
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Randy Starshagger
she feel knowing you are always on the prowl for your next screw?
>
No she dosn't expect a monogamous relationship, she knew about
me and how I was before we got together. She dosn't want a serous
full on replationship, so it works out for her too. Our relationship is
complicated as she likes being with me and spends a lot of time
with me and we have sex, but she is ok with me being with other
girls, just as long as it's not too many and I don't go on about them.
She is not interested in seeing other guys, she dosn't really want a
boyfriend in the normal sence, she wants to concentrate on her
study, so our on/off relationship works, although I see and sleep with
her far more than with other girls. Sometimes she asks and is interested to
hear. I ALWAYS use a condom when with another girl so she is not at any
risk.
would you feel if the situation were reversed?
>
Hmmmm probley not the same, I feel very protective about her,
but thats because I know she dosn't want attention from other men,
as she has told me, so it wouldn't happen. If she went to a party and
a guy tried to hit on her, I *know* she would *want* be to come
over and take her away or if I wasn't there she would say no.
what will you do if/when
> she finds out about this?
>
She already knows