A pervert is anyone who does/likes anything that someone else finds,
well, perverted.
That makes me a pervert for sure, and you are very likely one too.
Enjoy.
:-) Happy New Year,
JustGB
Justy's answer notwithstanding, a pervert is somebody who finds certain
things sexually stimulating that are not shared by the majority of those
around him. This means that it's the local or cultural standards which
determine the perversity of your interests.
That can be a moving target in some areas. It's a bit like the
difference between "erotic" and "kinky"
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Tom Allen
http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com
"I don't have multiple orgasms, myself... I am, however, known to be a
carrier."
>I like to think not but evidence may suggest otherwise. How do I
>figure out the answer for sure?
What's the evidence you reference?
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Things I consider perverted:
-war and liking of violence
-greed - if you can live on what you have, you don't need more
-desire to judge others for things they do or are that don't hurt you
-acceptance of other people's judgement of you
-worry about others' opinion
anyone want to add to this list?
I want to add these:
Rape
Excessive force during sex, enough to cause death
Paedophilia (acts, not just thoughts)
My porn collection and the thoughts going on in my head when I get off.
Well, the porn collection, depending on what's in it, and whether
anyone was injured making it could be a slight worry, but your
thoughts when getting off are no-one's concern but your own.
I have very violent fantasies about totally inappropriate partners
sometimes, as do many many other people.
Can you get off without the fantasies which worry you? Can you get off
without the type of porn which worries you? If you can, relax.
Fantasy is for fun. The inside of your brain is your own.
<3
Sarah_C
>My porn collection and the thoughts going on in my head when I get off.
I bet yours can't match mine -- but then, I know perfectly well that I'm
a pervert. Wouldn't have it any other way.
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Lusus Naturae
A few here know some of my hobbies but I'd love to know more if you
don't mind spilling some beans?
>A few here know some of my hobbies but I'd love to know more if you
>don't mind spilling some beans?
Not sure if this was directed to me or to CoM.
I tend to describe myself as a bondage voyeur. You can imagine that, as
such, I have just naturally accrued a large bondage porn collection.
It's not world-class, I'm sure, but I'm willing to put it up against
CoM's. :-)
I long-since got over any fear that being a practicing sexual pervert
was unhealthy for me, or that sexual perverts in general are unhealthy
for the society.
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Lusus Naturae
Are you kidding? Announcing that I was a pervert used to get me some
interesting dates from curious women.
If I wasn't so socially retarded I would give that a shot.
Spill the beans will you? Why do you think you're a pervert?
Yeah, you may be surprised that we may not think you're a pervert, or
not as perverted as some....
sue
I thought I was clear about that.
We're a bit dull around here. You've got to spell things out in graphic
detail or else we won't have a clue.
When did you get out of prison? Or are all these abuses of others
figments of your imagination?
Hi Elizabeth - don't know if you've recognized the inimitable style of
GoldenMan or not.
Yes, I know it's him. At one time I thought he (GoldenMan aka William
Cook) was a group of people who get together to be increasingly
bizarre with sexual tales. One thing I've noticed over the years is
that his writing style has become less literate. "Prevert" is one of
his tags. His earlier posts lacked this eccentricity.
I wrote the above letter knowing, also, that he has spent time in
prison. It's clear that prison did nothing for bringing any
understanding to the consequences of his sexual "preversion" (to quote
him) on his victims.
I don't think the prison system does anything for rehabilitating perverts or
any other miscreants. It does teach them to hide it well.
gilleebee
Or brings it out in them....
sue
>I like to think not but evidence may suggest otherwise. How do I
>figure out the answer for sure?
Why do you care?
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"Every single religion that has a monotheistic god
winds up persecuting someone else."
-Philip Pullman
-denny-
(not as curmudgeonly as I useta be)
Old gag but didn't see anyone bring it up.
Difference between "kinky" and "perverted"
Kinky is when you use a feather to tickle your lover's ass. Perverted is
when you use the whole damn chicken!
-Sam
:-P
>
> Not every pedophile is a pervert and certainly not every pervert is a
> pedophile.
But the word perversion is so subjective. I would dare say that the general
public would consider pedophilia to be a perversion.
-Sam
Yeah. We all know perversion when we see it. The trouble is
that there are many things some would call perversion that
others would not.
In my opinion, "perversion" is a word we ought to stop using.
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