Dear Sophie Fifer,
Dear Usenet or Google group. I am NOT trying to be a troll.
I am a devastated and CRUSHED Aunt, who has no contact with my
biological niece, Sophie Fifer. I have no children and she has been
my delight. Losing her, I feel literally chopped into pieces.
And so I post to the usenet, for the day that she googles her own
name, and will find she has a loving aunt here. She has many friends,
and maybe their parents have banned her from google, but if she goes
to a friends house, a friend may find it and tell her about you, Tofu
My posts are numerous, but do not constitute fraud or spamming
according to my Privacy Service that I use. They simply do not allow
spamming and you can lose your account over it.
Is my approach weird? Yes, it's weird but it's also working!
I need to get AROUND the parents and speak directly to my niece. if
she happens to search her own name, I want her to also see a Aunt who
loves her, and with my body language and angst that might make her
understand by video. So YouTube.
Maybe I will have to wait many years to see her again, as she is 12
and will be 16 in 4 years. I will find her then, and speak to her. Her
parents can't control her every move at age 16, when she has her own
car. Then of course, at 18, she can legally decide if I'm worth it or
not. She will be in college, I'm 100% sure.
I am patient and can wait. She lives in Hong Kong anyway. Her mother
has hated me for 15 years and there was no way on earth that she was
going to allow me to be a true aunt. even before our dispute.
I am DEVASTATED about the way things have turned out and my purpose is
not to spam you, but you have searchable text for my niece. She is
the only innocent one, but God only knows what kind of lies her
parents are feeding her about me.
I am SORRY. I have to do this! This is the only way I can connect
with my niece. IT IS WORKING!
When people use children as pawns, emotions run wild!
I AM SORRY! :-(
I am here, your only paternal Aunt, and sister to your father, Eric
Fifer of Horizen Asset International (HK) Limited.
I am very sad because one day, I went to get photos of you on Anne
Stefanov Fifer Facebook. As an Aunt, I still don't know why photos
would not be given to me. I skyped with your father, Eric Fifer of
Horizen Asset International (HK) Limited and tried to work things out,
and he accused me of hacking facebook when I absolutely had not.
They have cut off all contact with you and so, I feel that if I reach
out to you, over the internet, that you will know that there is a aunt
out there who can give you unconditional love. If your parents say, I
have meant anything bad to you, Sophie Fifer, they are lies. I have
never done anything to harm you, Sophie Fifer, and I never will.
I have said many things just for shock value, to get at your parents,
but not meaning any harm to you at all. They may show you what I
have said, but I said things for shock value, that I did not
sincerely mean. I was just trying to freak them out.
Anytime you want any help, Sophie Fifer, and Eric Fifer and Anne Fifer
of Anne Fifer Interiors are too controlling, please come and stay with
me. I have a nice house, and Id love to have you over.
Sophie Fifer, I have never committed any crime, and I do not even have
a traffic or speeding ticket. If your parents say I am harmful, they
are lying. If you stayed with me, you would be queen of the house. I
don't care what texts I sent to your father, Eric Fifer.
I can be your confidant, Sophie Fifer and I will not report anything
you say to me, or any contact to your parents, Eric Fifer of Horizon
Asset International (HK) Limited and Anne Fifer of Anne Fifer
I loved visiting you in your San Francisco home, Sophie Fifer. Your
skating was beautiful and I am so sad you moved from such a beautiful
place, to such a dark and polluted place like Hong Kong. It is the
most polluted city in the world, and you are going to have to live
with that, Sophie, at your age can permanently damage your lungs.
I am so sad you can't skate anymore but your parents just want to be
rich and ripped you from your home, just for money. I'm sure you still
Skype your friends, but really, you have lost all of your friends. You
will find this out. Skyping is great, but it's not real life where
you can go shopping or play games in person.
I am glad you liked the music boxes. I gave you the music boxes
because when I was 11, I also really loved music boxes. I will try to
send you more gifts but your parents may just throw it away.
Eric Fifer of Horizen Asset International (HK) Limited, has never been
a honest man for as long as I have known him. We had a intimate
relationship until the age of 25. But when we were children, he used
to steal money from me. He is only one year younger than me. No matter
where I put my money, he would steal it from me. Even one time, I put
my money in a plastic bag and put it in the soil of a potted plant and
he found it, still.
This is how Bernie Madoff started off!
I remember this, because we grew up on Welfare, Sophie, and so had
little money to begin with. but when Eric Fifer, your father, Sophie
Fifer, stole my money, I then had not even enough to go to a theater.
He mostly stole cash and not coins and so I would save coins to go to
Your father, Eric Fifer, of Horizen Asset International (HK) Limited
has never been an honest man, and I don't know about his ability to
care for other people's money, so I won't comment, only that he stole
from me, until the age of 18 and also lied and was dishonest about it.
People in finance, who corrupted the economy to become filthy rich,
are evil. Now there is oversight, and the unethical people, can find
no jobs in the US, and so they are heading over to China in droves to
go and exploit weaknesses in the Chinese economy and shut down Chinese
economics, to get filthy rich again. Hong Kong is a place where all
the illegal finance people run off to, as there is nothing left to our
own economy but Chinese economy is still strong, but will eventually
be destroyed, also, by people who wish nothing but greed and money.
Your mother, Anne Fifer, Anne Stephanov Fifer, of Anne Fifer
Interiors, has hated me, the moment she layed eyes on me, Sophie
Fifer. This is before you were even born, for 15 years. Eric Fifer ,
you father, and I have not always gotten along, but your mother's Anne
Stephanov Fifer's, has bitterly hated me for 15 years.
As far as Anne Fifer Interiors, I am not a design expert and have seen
maybe 30 photos of her work and other than slight variations in color,
all of her rooms look identical, and especially the chairs look pretty
damned uncomfortable. I don't know what style or why she uses
identical chairs and identical shandaliers in front of a mirror I
I do not know how much she makes at Anne Fifer Interiors, but IMHO,
way too much. If I had a designer come to my home, I would want to
make sure that my room was unique and not just a cookie cutter design
applied to all projects.
Are the rooms pretty? Sure they are but IMHO, they all look too much
alike and if I was paying for Interior Design I would want a unique
room and not know that every other person in San Francisco has an
That is my opinion about Anne Fifer, Annie Fifer and Anne Fifer
I have asked her to help us design our home, Sophie Fifer, and also
offered her typical fee but because she hates me, she did not do this
basic favor for me. I will say when you were 1 year old or so, your
father and mother, Eric Fifer and Anne Fifer did come to visit. Your
mother, Anne Fifer of Anne Fifer Interiors, did mention that I could
move a plant from one place to another. It was a large ficus tree and
we moved it. The spot was less sunny but her idea was a good one as
far as aesthetic s and did not die with less sun, a I had believed.
See, I said one good thing.
She may be perfectly fine at her, Anne Fifer Interior, craft, my
complaint, however, would be that most of her projects look identical.
She uses bold colors but often too orange/red which is off putting.
Also, this super saffron, really brilliant colors in a bedroom? Maybe
the people asked for this, but as a person who has insomnia, you
should not have super bright colors in your bedroom!
Our dispute about you, Sophie Fifer, was that when I visited you in
California when you were 10. We all went to a soccer game, Sophie
Fifer , and your Grandfather, Vincent Darling and your great step
mother, or whatever, Grace Darling (his wife). Vincent Darling, Vince
Darling, told me that whenever you see Grace Darling, that you run
towards her, because, he told me, that your mother, Anne Fifer, had
abandoned you into the care of Grace Darling, and that your mother,
Anne Fifer was "out of it" due to fertility drugs. I do not know if
any of this is true, but it is what I was told.
I posted this gossip to Facebook, when I didn't really understand how
facebook worked and did not know it got compiled into newsfeed and I
said this gossip on Facebook. All of a sudden, I was completely
rejected from Anne Fifer and Eric Fifer's Facebook.
Perhaps I did something wrong, but what I find amazing, Sophie Fifer,
Tofu Fifer, TOFUFIFER, TOFU FIFER, but I am held accountable for
reapeating gossip and the spreader of the gossip, your Grandfather,
Vince Darling, Vincent Darling, has had NO negative consequences. Your
parents Eric Fifer and Anne Fifer, blamed me entirely. They act like I
invented this out of thin air. No, what happened is the gossip was
spread, and I repeated it. I did not make it up.
Anyway, I don't know how far along into reading you are but there is a
great quote by Shakespeare which is "the lady doth protest too much".
Well, that means that when people get hyper and overly upset about
gossip, that their extreme reaction is evidence that it is true and
because of their over reaction, Sophie Fifer, I believe it to be
true. In my opinion it is true.
If you were NOT abandoned, I think they would be calm and rational.
Getting hysterical over gossip, is a sure sign of guilt, in the way I
look at things.
I believe, Sophie Fifer, based upon my father's Vincent Darling's body
language, when he told me the gossip, and based upon your parent's
over reaction, that you, have, indeed, been abandoned into the care of
Grace Darling before age of 2.
Fortunately, Grace Darling is a nice person, and if one must be
abandoned, the surely abandoned to Grace Darling is a good choice.
However, Sophie Fifer, your grandfather and my father, Vince Darling,
molested me when I was a child, Sophie. I told your parents about
this, and they chose not to believe me, and they put you in the home
with a child beater and child molestor, my father, Vincent Darling.
They put you in this dangerous home. Hopefully you did not get
molested because I think Grace Darling would not allow it, but if you
were left alone with your grandfather Vincent Darling, Vince Darling,
then she left you into the care of a child molestor and child beater.
So, when it came time to consider whether you had been abandoned I
believe it also, because they put you into a home, where I clearly
warned them that my father, and your grandfather, Sophie Fifer,
Vincent Darling, Vince Darling, and they chose to not believe me, and
put you in harms way, Sophie Darling. I almost called Child
Protective Services but did not as I did not know for sure, whether
your father Eric Fifer, even cared. If the parents don't care, it's
not much of case with CPS and so I hoped for the best.
I am the only one who KNOWS what happened with your grandfather and I,
Sophie. He was a drug addict, and would use a lot of alcohol and a
lot of cocaine at the same time and I doubt he even remembers all my
beatings and my one time of being molested.
Your parents, Eric Fifer, and Anne Fifer, got VERY upset that I did
not "instantly" believe them about the abandonment issue. Why should
I? I wrote extensive emails, letters and internet posts about being
abused by Vincent Darling and the utterly and totally treated me, like
I was making it up. I am not making it up. I won't go into any detail
Sophie Fifer, because you are too young to hear it.
But you are 12, as I was 12. At 12 the memory gets pretty good, and I
was the only one in the room who was not high, out of their minds,
like Vincent Darling would be. When he beat me, he was so hysterical
and out of control, that I was literally afraid that I was going to
die, because he blocked the doorway. He was totally insane, crying,
grunting and everything else because of his drunkenness that was on
top of his cocaine abuse.
They were angry because I didn't ask them about the abandonment issue,
but did they believe me, when I told them that I'd been molested by my
father and beaten by my father Vincent Darling and Vince Darling? I am
angry about that too. What about them instantly judging me, and not
believing me. Why do they expect that in return?
I go by evidence, as I am a scientist and all evidence points to the
abandonment by Anne Fifer is true. That is only my intuition and
opinion, but that is what I believe.
You see, Sophie Fifer, because I am not rich, and because I do not
work, they don't consider my opinion important at all. They don't
consider me to be anything at all. I am their piece of shit for 15
years and I've had enough of this kissing your mother's ass for 15
years, to get a few crumbs from her table. Sorry to swear, but you
have no doubt heard these words before.
The commit class warfare against me, when Anne Fifer is supposed to be
against class warfare! So, why treat me like a piece of garbage just
because I am not in the same class as her?disa
Even in the instance of the photos, WHY, WHY, WHY? WHY is a biological
Aunt not get photos? I did get the photos, Sophie Fifer, but your
father and I Skyped and he told me that I had hacked into Facebook to
get the photos. I did not. Facebook has many holes in the software
called "exploits" which are entirely legal. Hacking is not. When we
first skyped, he was yelling at me about stealing photos by hacking. I
I go back to WHY, WHY, WHY is a biological Aunt not allowed to see any
or all of your photos? I love you.
Those particular photos that I took, I am fascinated by, because you
look more like me, Sophie Fifer, than your mother, Anne Fifer. Because
I am old now, you can't easily see the resemblance but if I did
through the family photos, and find some photos when I was 10, you and
I are identical.
We have the same face as your father, Eric Fifer and I have a similar
face to your father, Sophie, and so you have wound up looking like
both him, and in that way, me. But you have brown hair like me. You
have hazel eyes like me, you have the upturned nose and I am the only
one in the entire family that has this. We first noticed this is Japan
Town, but maybe you don't remember, from when I visited.
We talked about how your father's nose was bulbous and how my nose,
looked like yours. Maybe you don't remember. I don't know what
children remember, Sophie, but I remember it.
Sophie Fifer, I wish the best for you. I love you. I am maybe trying
to reach you in an odd kind of a way, for the day you google your own
name, and find my posts.
I love you unconditionally. I will do anything for you. You can stay
at my house. I will give you money. I have a nice guest room and I
raise flowers and I'll lay flower petals out.
I wanted to be a good Aunt, Sophie Fifer, but even before your parents
Eric Fifer and Anne Fifer has this dispute, I was never going to be
the kind of Aunt that I wanted to be, and what you probably
desperately need. I wanted to play soccer with you, run and play, go
to the mall, go to 6 flags, go to SeaWorld, anything you like!
That was never going to happen, Sophie, because, for whatever reason,
she just hated me for long before you were born. And so my trip to
California was just me following you along with all your
activities, and we didn't really get to talk in the least. You have
too many activities, you have too much competition. Just I wish Anne
Fifer and Eric Fifer, would allow you to watch a bit of TV and a bit
of internet every day, and to not be so strict and not allowing you to
be just a child and explore the world with some leisure time.
If you visit me, you can do whatever you want. Whatever you want, I
will give it to you. I will treat you like a princess. One hour of
TV, half hour Internet every day. TV is not always bad. There are
many educational shows for children. No internet???? That's just
nuts. The internet can also be a great resource and you are going to
fall before your friends, on the internet, because you are not allowed
to use it! Falling behind on internet, at your age is BAD. You should
be allowed to go about the internet with special software for children
or under parental supervision. No internet is ridiculous. TV can help
your unwind and relax and I would let you watch 1 hour per day.
That's during school.
During the summer, I will still get anything you want, and do
anything you want. For summertime, I'd allow 2 hours of TV and 1 hour
of internet. When I say I will do anything you want, or get you,
anything you want, I mean ANYTHING. If you stayed with me, the place
is a resort area and we can do anything from river kayaking to your
soccer or ANYTHING you want! We have five acres and some is flat
enough for soccer. We can put in a whole soccer field that is all
yours, if you want.
So, my dispute has not made anything worse, because I never did have
any chance, Sophie Fifer because your mother, Anne Fifer is pretty
much a witch who poisoned our already dysfunctional family. She
terminated it, with her poison. She does not have the foggiest notion
of how to share. Everything is Me Me Me. And from her facebook, it's
still Me Me Me, and I wonder if she puts her needs above her own?
Well, she maybe did abandon you, I don't know for sure, but with a
mother who is narcissistic, can be a hard time for a child.
I hope you were not molested by Vincent Darling, Vince Darling. I hope
Grace was around enough so that did not happen. He started hitting me
at my age of 5 and then beat me with a belt while high on alcohol and
cocaine. He does not remember it, because he was so high. There is
something called a "black out" and that is when people are taking so
many drugs, that they do not remember what they have done. .
If you have been molested by Vincent Darling and you can't tell your
parents, you can call me. You know my name. Sometimes people will beat
you or molest you and then tell you that if you say anything they will
kill your parents. That is not true, Sophie. And if anyone molests
you, or beats you, you can call 911 and tell the police what have
happened. They will protect you. They will listen to you.
Anyway, you may not know this, but your grandfather does not use his
legal name! Your grandfather, has named himself two things
1. Rama Darling
2. Vincent or Vince Darling
He has never used his real name, and has used these aliases. I believe
most likely due to losing lawsuits over his sex cult, COFU. I believe
they tried to make COFU a non profit organization and got in trouble
with the IRS. Now they use fake names. This is what I believe has
happened, but I have not facts, just statements said to me by your
grandfather, Vincent Darling and my mother, your paternal Grandmother
His real name is
Ralph Vincent Fifer
Grace also has a fake name. I don't know her real last name but she
changed from Gloria to Grace.
See how good my memory is from age of 12? This can be proven, as well.
They have never legally changed their names, and instead live under
these alieases and for decades. How they have done that, is a miracle
and probably something illegal, but I don't know for sure.
I want to point out that Rama Darling. Rama is the name of a God. So,
basically, your grandfather, Vince Darling and Vincent Darling, is so
narcissistic that he named himself God!
I believe your grandfather has a disease called Narcissistic
Personality Disorder. It is a hard disorder because of the Narcissism,
they don't admit they have a problem. He is unable to love, and IMHO,
is a total sociopath/psycopath. Unfortunately, your Father, Eric
Fifer, also has a sociopathic personality, IMHO. Not the psychopathic
being Vincent Darling, because he does not sell cocaine and beat young
children. Sociopath just means that they value money over everyting
else and dont really care about people they may be hurting, such as
I am a nothing to them. And when people consider a biological
aunt "nothing", well that is Anne Fifer and Eric Fifer being
sociopaths IMHO. I have studied genetics of people, and think your
father, Eric Father, is a sociopath just like my his father was, IMHO.
He is a workaholic, and doubt you have much time with him.
IMHO, means "In My Humble Opinion". What I am sharing is my opinion
and not facts. That speech is protected in America. I may not say
anything false, and I have not. I have shared what I went through,
growing up with Eric Fifer who would steal money and my belief that
they are sociopaths is just my opinion. As far as I know, they are so
narcissistic, I doubt they even realize that they are exhibiting
Well, I'm going to say good bye for now, Sophie.
I see that when you google your own name, Sophie Fifer, that on the
second page, are my usenet/ google group posts, and when you google
your own name, you will find an aunt who loves you to death and who
would let you watch one hour of TV per day and half hour per day on
the ineternet. Also, if you don't want to do your homework, because
you are sick, I would let you skip a day of school. I think it must be
torture to have a very active, smart girl like you, totally controlled
by your parents to the point that they don't allow you to be a child.
You know, Sophie Fifer, that your parents Eric Fifer and Anne Fifer
tried very hard to have more children and for years. Sophie Fifer, God
is not a fool. If they are going to be such control freaks about you,
that you rebel as a teenager or feel so much pressure from them that
you finally blow up and can't take it anymore, you can visit me. God
decided they should not have any more children, as they are abusing
the one they have, you, Sophie Fifer, IMHO.
When you are 16 you will have a car. At that time, I will find where
you are living, and try to say hello to you. Your parents are telling
you that I am not a good aunt, but they lie. They have not been good
brother and sister in law, and confuse their perpetration with how
they've victimized me and how I just finally lost my mind, due to
them, and the 15 years of ass kissing just got to be such a horrible
burden, that I stuffed my emotions for 15 years and now, my emotions
are exploding because they have just gone too far. Why is a biological
Aunt not get any photos? Why?
The other time, we will meet, is at your age of 18 and then YOU can
decide whether you want me or not. I did have this pipedream about
teaching you what's important in life, but in reality, with that
control freak, witch mother that you have, Anne Fifer of Anne Fifer
Interiors, there was never any chance. For all I know, you will wind
up just like her, or that you might become spoiled from having
millions of dollars.
Nobody really knows yet, because you are so young, when your teenage
hormones kick in, you may have a change in your personality. IMHO,
your parents are so overbearing, there is going to be a big argument
with them. Children can be controlled, teenagers cannot. You will be
a teenager in a little over one year.
I will try to send you birthday presents, but your parents will likely
throw them away. Not to be tacky, but the presents are already at
$200 and to send it is another $200. So, I might ask them to return
the package to give to needy children or give to needy children in
I know you are a good person now, and I hope you also grow up into a
good person. And if you grow to be a good person, you will contact me,
and ask me my side of the story.
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