Ua tshoob yooj yim
yawgnomdub
yooj yim heev le. Rooj tshoob nuav yog puab tuaj has peb ib tug
ntxhais, tsi yog caum tabsis tuaj has huv tsev. Peb tsi yuav mej koob
le tabsis muaj ib tug txwj laug ua pov thawj nrug has tshoob xwb. Peb
yeej tsi muaj yuav sib has xaa lug moog moog lug lug rua ob tog le.
1. Thaum rub lub rooj has tshoob tau ces peb tug txwj laug hab puab
tug mej koob nyob saum rooj ces puab tug mej koob muab lug txug ntshaw
raug tug ntxhais es xaav tuaj has nua mas.
2. Peb hu kag tug tub hab tug ntxhais lug nyob ua ke hab nug taab meeg
tas ob tug puas sib nyam. Ob tug yeej nyag teb nyag tas sib nyam hab
yeej txaus sab sib hlub ua neej.
3. Ces peb cev kag dlaim ntawm tas ob tug sib nyam lawm ces peb tug
nqe mig nqe no xaav kuam nraug vauv ua le nuav (peb yeej teev zoo zoo
txug nyaj nqe tshoob, muab rua nam txiv, kev noj kev haus txhua yaam
kwv yog txug nyaj ces teev kuam txhij txhua) rua puab ces kev has
tshoob taag.
4. Teem caij ua pluag noj hab thaum noj mov taag ces peb yeej tsi rov
qaab lug tsaa qhua sawv kev le lawm los as. Noj mov taag ces qhua yeej
moog tsev tom chaw noj mov le lawm.
Peb has le 1 teev xwb tub taag lawm nej. Ntxiv nuav moog yog peb moog
ua tshoob txug lwm paab mas yog ua nyuab ces peb nqev kauv txais moog
saab laaj xwb yuav zoo dlua nkim sij hawm tsheej mo rua tej yaam tsi
muaj qaab hau nuav.
Tej khoom pob phij hab nyaj txag ces yeej teev meej meej rua huv ntawv
lawm ces muab cob rua tug mej koob ces mej koob maam muab rua vauv
puab hab puab maam saib yog leej twg xwb. Tej kev pob phij nuav yog
neeg zoo sab muab pub tug ntxhais vauv ua neej xwb ces tsi thaas suav
dlawg yuav nrug paub le mas.
kwvtijhmoob
yawgnomdub-- zoo kawg. kuv tseem yuav ua xwb, nej sawm siv ua ua ntej
lawm ntag. zoo zoo... qhov no yog qhov peb hmoob yuav tau xyaum ua
mus lawm yav tom ntej ntag.
tab sis yog kuv ua no mas kuv yuav ntxiv 2 qho nram qab no rau.
1. kom niam txiv tog tub yug kiag tuaj nyob ntawm thiab
2. thaum kuv muab nyiaj phij cuam, kuv yog tus muab cev kiag rau kuv
tus ntxhais thiab tus vauv ntag. kuv yuav tsum hais ib cov lus qhuab
ntuas tag mas mam li muab cev rau. lub sij hawm ntawd mas yuav tsum
kom peb 4 tug poj cuag yawg cuas, tus tub, tus ntxhais thiab 2 tug
txwj laug nyob ntawm nrog hnov thiab pom tib si thiab. qhov no tsis
yog ua kom lwm zaus lawv pauj yus rov qab, tab sis qhov no yog ua kom
tus tub thiab tus ntxhais pom hais tias qhov no yog ib qhov tseem ceeb
thiab saib muaj nqi rau nkawv coj mus chiv peev ua neej.
All4One
dej cawv loj loj lawm.
vimhlub
Mej ua le hov tseem tsis yooj yim txaus... Yuav kom yoojyim tag tag
mas cas puab 2 tug hluas nwg has nwg xwb. Thaum 2 tug has haum lawm
tes nam/txiv ca le has tas: OK! Have a good life. Le nuav mas txhaj
le yog yooj yim pob.
Nam txiv tseem tau xam miv ntsig qaub ncaug hab xam nyaj hab tes tsis
yooj yim kag le los mau.
Nij nub nuav twb muaj ntau tug kws nam hab txiv tsis tau xam ib qho
dlaabtsi le los 2 tug hluas puab twb ua puab neej qhuas ntxag lawm
niv... Yooj yim mas le hov txhaj le yog yooj yim pob.
Kuv xav mas cov hluas tam sim nuav tsis tas ua tshoob le lawm os.
Puab yeej sib sib nyam puab le lawm. Tsis tas ua tshoob los puab yeej
tsis txaj muag ua nam txiv rua suav dlawg saib.
Tseeb tag tes tsis ua tshoob mas puab haj yam sis hlub tshaaj. Tom
qab ua tshoob tag mas puab haj yam tsis txawj sis hlub. Tsis tas ua
tshoob le lawm os. Peb vam meej txaus lawm tes ua le txawm tsis ua
tshoob los yeej sis hlub tau.
Ya
kuv tug pojniam thiab kuv nyuam qhuav sis sau tau 1 lub hli no....kuv
nyob tom tsev ces...khob tais diav tos ces pojniam los xwb....los txog
ces...mus tom txaj ces...tamsim no pojniam xeeb tub lawm tiag...
niamtais yawm txiv yuav kom kuv mus ua tshoob, temsis kuv cia li pib
"deal" nrog niamtais yaawm txiv tias "can i buy one get one free"?
ces niamtais yawm txiv tias "no, you buy one, you get one....", but
then i said, "can i buy 3 of your daugthers and get 1 free?" he
thought and thought, and then said "yes." but, at the end, i decided
not to buy 3 and get one free...what i did was went to reno and and
get a marriage certificate and then went gambling afterward...
GOT A WIFE FOR 20 BUCKS...AND 5K FROM GAMBLING ...IT WAS A GREAT DEAL
BECAUSE I ONLY SPENT ABOUT 5 HUNDRED FOR GAS AND ROOM.
this past weekend father inlaw called again asking for wedding and
bride price...i said, "daddy es, kuv yeej coj li no na, peb tsev neeg
yeej coj li no na..peb yauv pojniam ces...peb ua li no xwb...peb tsi
tuaj ua tshoob os, vim wb twb mus ua tshoob tom reno tag lawm ne..."
i also went on to say, "daddy, koj xob chim mas, we come to this
country, peb hloov lawm na...we no do like moob in laos no
more...because we dont' believe in things like that no more...YOG KOJ
HAIS NTAU CES, KUV FOOB KOJ NTAG...BECASUE YOU WANT ME TO BUY YOUR
DAUGHTER...selling people is illegal daddy...JUST BE HAPPY AND I WILL
SENT HAPPY BIRTHDAY CARD TO YOU LATER..."
the questions is....what is the difference between what i just said
and what yawgnomdub said? where do you draw the line? the way i see
it, yog tias tis ua tshoob ces, ua li kuv piav no xwb. yog ua tshoob
los, thov kom plaub ya ya thiab.
Neej Yag
cwjmem
meej, hais lus Hmoob dawb los tsis xav hais...cas tam sim no es yog
ntuj FAV teb LAM lawm tiag pob, nej cov uas coj MAB DAWB txoj kev
ntseeg naj!!!!!
Raws li poj ua tseg yawm ua cia, ib sim neej Hmoob yeej tsis muaj tus
TXWJ LAUG los nrog Hmoob ua tshoob ua kos. Tus TXWJ LAUG yog Hmoob rub
los ZAUM nrog thaum Hmoob hais XIM rau Hmoob lub ntees tuag xwb. Es
tam sim no nej ho muaj lawm lod, he he he...
Nej Cov coj Mab dawb coj kev ntseeg.
Muaj Niam txiv thiab tus TXWJ LAUG. Rub rooj hais xwb. Yooj yim kawg
li lawm. Yog kuv yuav poj niam no, yuav tau tuaj nrhiav nej cov no
thiaj li tsis tau haus cawv, pe, ua tsaug rau qhov hais tias nej tsuas
yog pe nej tib tug VAJTSWV xwb, I like that, it will save my knees!!!!
yawgnomdub
Kuv yeej paub zoo lawm tas mej cov moob lug saab moos pheeb lug mas
yeej tseem coj nkhaug nkhaug kawg mas. Kev cuab txhua yaam kuam luj
los yeej yog mej cov moob saab ntawm hab nyam nyam xyum qeej los yeej
yog mej cov ntau xwb mas. Tabsis tebchaws nuav ces ua ntau tsi tau kua
haus ntaag os yawg. Nyob moos pheeb mas ib tug ntxhais txhaj sau tau
25-26 choj nyaj xwb nawb.
Qhov kuv has mas peb yeej ua lawm tag tag os, peb moog txug lwm tug
los peb yeej yuav ua dleb tsi ntau ntaag nawb. Ua ntau ces yeej kawg
nqev kauv txais moog saab laaj xwb tag os.
Cwjmem
Tej kev ua yooj yim nuav yog hloov tsaws tebchaws xwb os tsi yog cov
ntseeb maab dlawb es txhaj hloov le koj has nawb. Tej kev tshoob nuav
tsi yog ib yaam tseem ceeb huv peb lub neej. Qhov tseem ceeb hauv peb
lub neej yog seb ob tug puas txawj ua neej zoo hab puas hlub peb
lossis puas txawj sib hlub xwb. Kev tshoob yog kev ua ib lub party
txug txuj kev zoo sab tas ob tug sib sau ua neej lawm tag nua xwb tsi
yog lub caij nam txim tuaj noj haus qaug hab muab tej plaub ntug lug
ua kuam muaj kev tu sab.
Puj ua tseg yawm ua ca ces yog ib txuj kev phem kev qas kws siv tsi
tau. Muab tej kev chim sab lug has rua lub caij tsim nyog zoo sab mas
yuam kev dleb. Yog muaj txuj cai tsi txaus sab yuav tau loj npaab
ntshuas moog huv nom huv tswv kuam luag taug txuj cai es txhob coj lug
ua thaum muaj tshoob muaj kug.
Yog quav cawv dlhau hauv tsi txaus yuav tau yum phooj ywg moog haus ob
peb nub kuas tsi nov ntuj teb mas yuav zoo dlua muab rooj tshoob ua
chaw daim noj daim haus es haus cawv ua lom vaab vaab kws tub tsi tsim
nyog kag.
cwjmem
> Puj ua tseg yawm ua ca ces yog ib txuj kev phem kev qas kws siv tsi
> tau. Muab tej kev chim sab lug has rua lub caij tsim nyog zoo sab mas
> yuam kev dleb. Yog muaj txuj cai tsi txaus sab yuav tau loj npaab
> ntshuas moog huv nom huv tswv kuam luag taug txuj cai es txhob coj lug
> ua thaum muaj tshoob muaj kug.
Nej cov Ntseeg tseem ua nyuaj lawm thiab, tsis muaj TXWJ LAUG li, ob
tog naim txiv tuaj sib tham (Hmoob hais tias sib tham ntawm ntug cub
xwb), yog yeem ces muab tus ntxhais TXIS kiag rau tus tub xwb ces tag
li, rau kiag ib pluag mov (su, tsais, hmo depend on the time of the
day) ces kom nkawv mus tsev xwb. Lub sij hawm no, Hmoob sib nrauj
heev lawm, tej tug yuav twb tsis tau muaj ib hlis twb khiav lawm.
Thaum sib nrauj ces ua kiag li cov MUSLIM txoj cai xwb. Tus txiv hais
3 hlo "kuv tsis yuav koj, kuv tsis yuav koj, kuv tsis yuav koj" or "I
divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you" ces kom tus niam sau nws
cov ris tsho tawm xwb ces tag li ntawm lawm. Qhov no tseem yuav yooj
yim dua qhov koj hais lawm thiab!!!!
Born2beMhong
koj puas tseem tshuav ntxhais lawm? zoo li koj ntxim yuav yog neeg
coj ncaj thiab yoojyim txaus...kuv tus Born no xav tuaj ua pojcuag
yawgcuag nrog koj nad....smiles!
zoosiab nawb, Yawgnomdub,...cav kom muaj tiag xwb. kuv yeej pom cov
kwvtij ua nyob rau Wausau lawm--tabsi, ob tug no mas tseem yog muam
ntxhai thiab nus tub xwb--nkawv yeej ua li Kwvtijhmoob hais lawm
tiag. tias 2 tug pojcuag yawgcuag zaum ua kev sibtham thiab tseem
caij noj haus rau roojtshoob xwb. vim yog muam thiab nus yug ces yeej
tsi sau nyiaj li thiab ntag--cias li teem caij ces ua ib lub party rau
nkawv roojtshoob.
Cwjmem,
kuv paub tsi zoo lawm...tabsi cov kwvtij hmoob Leeg, mas lawv yeej
yuav tus Kavxwm los yog lub npe hus li cas tias no los coj tshoob coj
kos rooj noj rooj haus tiag nawb.
kuv ntshaisi tsam Yawgnomdub, paub tsi zoo ces nws hais tias Txwjlaug
no li cov neeg nyob tom Church lawm xwb....smiles! tsi tag li los,
cov kwvtij hmoob leeg yuav tsum l os piav kom meejpem tshaj no rau
peb...qhov twg hos tham tsi yog los, thov zamtxim thiab qhia rau peb
kom lwm zaus thiaj li paub zoo tshaj no.
Born
Ya
yeej ncaaj...temsis...qhov tseeb moospheeb tebhcaws yeej ua raws kev
tshoob tag los mas...except a few of cov moog church lawm. temsis
yawgdub, has le kuv has puas txawv koj cov lug ma? yog txawv nua
txawv le caag tag/
kwvtijhmoob
> koj puas tseem tshuav ntxhais lawm? zoo li koj ntxim yuav yog neeg
> coj ncaj thiab yoojyim txaus...kuv tus Born no xav tuaj ua pojcuag
> yawgcuag nrog koj nad....smiles!
tuaj xyuas seb puas nyiam mas. kuv mas txawm yog kuv tus muam mag koj
ib tug kwvtij rho riam kiv hlab pa lawm es koj ib tug tub ho tuaj yuav
kiag kuv tus ntxhais los kuv yeej tsis hais txog kuv tus muam case li
lawm nav. i only do thing case by case. i don't bring old cases with
new cases regardless of cause. i let those cases involved beating,
abusive, killing, or divorce handled by the mainstream law separate
from tshoob. tshoob is tshoob and i do tshoob kom yooj yim li yooj
yim tau and NO BRIDE PRICE COLLECTED EXCEPT $1,000 OR WHATEVER AMOUNT
YOU CAN CONTRIBUTE TO HELP WITH ROOJ THE NOJ HAUS FOR YOUR SON AND MY
DAUGHTER. THIS IS MY NKAS LAS TIS TO YOU!
surithay
cov tub mus xyuas yawg ob tug ntxhais sai nawb tsam muaj neeg tuaj hom
lawm. Kwvtij, koj cov ntxhais koj yeej tsis sau nqi tshoob li tiag lo!
Yog li kuv kuj tseem tshuav tub zoo nraug kawg thiab yuav tau qhia
chaw nyob es kuv coj tuaj xyuas nawb!
Ya
zoo le mej has has los xij has tsi raug lub ntsab le...ca kuv maam le
pav kom tub zog rua mej.
definition...
1. nqi mig nqi no = cow(s) given to bride's parents in exchange for
the bride and ANOTHER COW (NCAUJ TSIAG).
2. the purpose of ncauj tsiag is to hu niam txiv dab xwb (or muam
phauj) when the bride/groom dies (mus tua tus nyuj given during
wedding)
also keep in mind that a mong marriage is nothing more than exchanging
gifts (possesions) and relationship, to further bind two families.
some of the exchanged gifts are 1. cows (bride price) 2. diav 3. riam
4. qaib npog poj 5. 6. dej caw and yes...XIB XUB. although hmoob tsi
siv xub lawm during wedding lawm...rab xub no, mas puag thaum ub, txiv
tuam mej koob nqa lub kaus thiab ib rab xub....in return another "xub"
is given to the groom and this "xub" will be used to called "txiv dab
laug" upon the death of the bride/groom.
anyway, back to the point, keep in mind that weddings and funerals are
connected...yog tsi them nyiaj, ces txhais tau tias there is no
exchange of "cows"...meaning that tsi muaj lub ncauj tsiag..meaning
that txiv dablaug will not be called. for christians who do not
practice "calling txiv dablaug tuaj ntaus nyuj" should not except lub
ncauj tsiag coj los ua nplaub ua ntug thiab. cov xob txiv dab/cuag
los, yog tsi muaj ncauj tsiag, ces tsi hu li thiab...tus txwj laus,
los tsi muaj cai tu 4 tu ntug lawm...that means tsi muaj txiv xaiv,
tsi muaj lub rooj lawm thiab. cov muam vauv ntxhais vauv los tsi hu
lawm thiab vim ncauj tsiag tsi muaj lawm....kev ntaus nco saum tshoob
kug los yuav tsi muaj lawm vim tias yog tsi hu txiv dab, xob txiv dab
etc...ces tsi tsim nyob hu cov muam vauv ntxhais vauv...so that means
that cov uas tuaj noj nco los tsi hu lawm...hu los lawd yuav tsi muab
tsoog tsho rau vauv/ntxhais lawm thiab.
yog tsi mauj tej no lawm, ces thaum pam tuag, cov tshwj kab mus rau
cov niam ua mov los tsi zoo hu cov txheeb ze lawm, koj lam nteg
tibneeg ua lawm xwb. this means that tsi muaj leejtwg xav ua
lawm....tshoob los tsi xav ua, vim ua los tsi muaj qabhau...tibneeg
los tsi muaj leejtwg pam, vim pam los tsi muaj qabhau...tejzaujm qhuab
ke tag, tu siab tag, nce neeg tag, ces pib kiag sawv kev mus log lawm
xwb....i know that many people out there not aware of this...lam tau
lam hais xwb..temsis i hope all of you realize that mong will be doom
if we cut things out. i'm not talking about quav dej quav caw...but i
am talking about keeping the tradition. i'm not talking about ua
tshoob nkhaus nkaus heev, but i am referring to ua kom koob mus nyog
xov mus taus xwb....ua tshoob tis muaj mejkoob es puas yog ua tshoob
ma? getting married the christian way withoout a pastor puas yog ua
tshoob ma? in everything we do, there are "guidelines" and "rules"
and/or precedents to follow....because these are the essence of who we
are--culturally.
kwvtijhmoob
Dr. Suav-- muaj siab tiag ces coj tuaj xwb tiag. hais cuag dag, tab
sis hnub twg yog neej leej twg yuav tau kuv 2 tug ntxhais kuv yuav ua
li no xwb.
Fis xov:
1. kuv tsis kom nej mus hu kuv ib tug kwvtij tuaj txais lub xo lawm.
Kuv yog tus txais kiag xwb, tab sis kuv yuav tau hu phone nrog kuv tus
ntxhais thiab tus tub tham seb nkawv puas yog sib pom zoo nkawv.
2. kuv tsis yuav $200 (ntaus ua lub nqe rau niam rau txiv lawm)
3. kuv tsis yuav txoj siv ceeb thiab cov nyiaj khi 2 tog lawm.
4. kuv tsis kom pe lawm
5. kuv tsis kom nqa luam yeeb coj tuaj yais rau tus ub tus no lawm
Tshoob kos:
1. Tsis sau nqi li
2. thov kom niam txiv tog tub paj $1000 ua rooj mov xwb
3. kuv cov nyiaj (cash) phij cuam minimum yuav tsum yog $5,000 rov
rau sauv not include khoom thiab khaub ncaws
4. tsis muaj mej koob, thej com, tsis muaj txiv cob txheeb, tsis muaj
nus tij/nus npaws, tsis niam txiv, etc.. kuv tsuas muaj peb 4 tug poj
cuag yawg cuas thiab 2 tug laus neeg xwb
5. dej caw ces leej twg nyiam yam twg haus yam ntawv.
6. tsis muaj cawv piam thaj - sib txhaus/sib zeem cawv lawm
7. tsis muaj pe li thiab
8. cawv ces muaj 4 tug xwb. 1 tug yog tus cawv zoo siab tub ntxhais
sib yuav tau ntxhais tau vauv los yog tau tub tau nyab, tus 2 yog tus
tau poj cuag yawg cuas tau kev txheeb kev ze, tus 3 yog cawv nkaws lus
- kuv yog tus nkaws cov lus thiab muab cov nyiaj phij cuam thiab tus 4
kawg yog tus tsa sawv ke.
li no xwb tiag.
Hmong-Lao
Kuv yeej agree nrog nej sawvdaws hais tias peb yuav tsum tsis txhob ua
nkhaus coj nkaus cees li tus puav uas peb hnov los no lawm. Tabsis kuv
ho tsis agree nrog koj sob lus saum toj no, hais tias poj ua tseg yawm
ua cia mas yog ib txoj kev phem kev qias uas siv tsis tau. Qhov kom
yog tiag, peb yuav tau hais li no, "poj ua tseg yawm ua cia mas qee
yam yuav tau hloov raws lub neej txheej tshiab no".
Qhov kuv hais li no mas tej laus txheej thaud yeej tsis tshua nyob
under the law of the land, tus yuav ua li cas los ywj nws thiab cuab
kwvtij siab xwb. Yus txawm ua phem ua qias npaum li cas los yus ua
nkaum nkoos puag pem tojsiab xwb, tsis muaj nom tswv lossis tub
ceevxwm pom. Yeeb vim li no thiaj muaj ib txhia neeg lim hiam uas quab
yuam, tsimtxom nws poj nws sev yam tsis muaj neeg hais tau li. Nws
muaj ob lub tsam thawj ua zoo rov coj los hais ces yog thaum ib pas
nqus tsis tuaj lawm, los sis yog thaum nws tsev neeg rov tuaj yuav dua
yus ntxhais ces yus mam zoo muab coj los hais nkaus nkaus xwb. Thaum
nws tau kev tws lossis thaum nws rov tuaj xeeb neej xeeb tsav duav
lawm ces thiaj li zoo coj los hais, thaum no Hmoob hais tias nqaij
txog yus ncauj lawm ces mam xo. Thaum no mas nws thiaj nti tsis dim
kiag.
Qhov txheej laus thaumd ua li no nws tsis yog ib qho phem kiag, nws
yog ib txoj kev rau txim rau tibneeg ntag. Yeebvim Hmoob txoj kevcai
mus li no, yog kuv tsis hlub kuv poj kuv sev ces kuv cov kwvtij yeej
yuav nrog txhim kho kuv thiab saib xyuas rau qhov kom ncaj ncees, tsam
muaj ib hnub yus rov mus nphav raug luag tsev neeg dua ces yuav nyuab
nyuab ncauj nyuab lus. Yeeb vim Hmoob poj Hmoob yawm muaj lub zoo
lajlim tswvyim, muaj zoo kevcai los tswj Hmoob npaum li no, Hmoob
thiaj li tseem ua Hmoob los tau 5,000 tawm xyoo los Hmoob tseem nyob
taus ua pab zaum taus ua pawg.
Tabsis los rau lub neej tshiab no, peb txhua pab Hmoob puav leej nyob
under the laws of the land, vim peb txav los nyob ze ze tseemfwv thiab
tub ceevxwm lawm. Yog leej twg khubmuj tsim txom poj tub se, tus ntawd
yuav raug txoj kevcai lijchoj nplua thiab kaw. Yog li ntawd, peb thiaj
li tsimnyog muab tej nqe lus li "lus xeej lus xuam" no tso pov tseg
mus, peb thiaj li yuav tau los hais qhov tshiab lawm xwb. Vim
normally, yog muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb (lus xeej lus xuam) los txoj
cai (the law) twb yeej txiav txim rau ua ntej tag lawm, ces yuav raws
qhov txoj cai txiav txim lawm xwb.
Hos yog ho raug mentally abused los peb nyob rau lub society ywjpheej
lawm, yog nws mus tham hluas nkauj/hluas nraug, yuav niam yau/ txiv
yau es ua rau yus mob mob siab ces yus muaj choice nrauj yam yooj yooj
yim lawm xwb. Note: Las npua rog tsis nyob kaw nram nkuaj, nyiaj txiag
tsis nyob qab tsuas qhuav lawm.
HL
Hmong-Lao
First of all, welcome back.
Ua tsaug rau koj cov lus qhia txog kev ua tshoob Hmoob. Kuv yeej hnov
ntau zaus los lus "niamtxiv tom ub rab hneev ntaj kub txeeg tua ntsia
lis nrawv niamtxiv tom no lub mus taw rooj". Tabsis kuj tsis tau paub
lub paus lub ntsis tiag. Kuv xav hais tias ntshe yog paj lug xwb no,
qhov tseeb, nws yeej yog ib feem ntawm Hmoob kabtsoob kev kos uas muab
tso tseg lawm xwb os sad.
Kuv los xav li koj hais thiab, yam txaus tso tseg los yuav tau tso
mus, tabsis yam uas tsim nyob khaws los peb yuav tau khaws coj mus.
Yog yam twg los peb tso tseg tag ces nws tsis zoo li kev ua tshoob kos
lawm, nws zoo li kev muag tsiaj muag txhuv lawm xwb. Thiab yuav ua rau
peb tsis muaj ib qhov UNIQE culture lawm.
Phoojywg sawvdaws,
Ua ntej peb hloov los ua tshoob yooj yooj yim, xav txog peb tus me
ntxhais txoj kev ntshaw ib zaug ntxiv tso. Raws li kuv to taub, yuav
luag txhua txhua tus ntxhais txoj kev ntshaw yog xav kom nws rooj
tshoob hais muaj qab txawb muaj teg. Kom noj quaj npws haus quaj npws.
Tsis yog hais li mus yuav npua los tua noj, tsis yog noj li noj thanks
giving dinner xwb. Xav txog thaum yus rooj seb yus ntshaw kom zoo
npaum li cas. Txawm nej yuav ua tshoob Hmoob, ua tshoob Meskas los
yeej tsis txwv tsis txiav, tabsis ua yam twg los yuav tau ua kom zoo
tus tub tus ntxhais lub siab thiab yuav tau ua li ntiaj tog quam pes
ua. Nej tus tub tus ntxhais thiaj li tsis poob ntsej poob muag rau nws
tej phoojywg.
HL
Born2beMhong
kuv cas li koj thiab tiag, yog li lub weekend yuav tuaj no...kuv cov
tub yuav tuaj tagnrho thiab peb tuaj rau MN. qhia chaw nyob seb, kuv
li coj tuaj saib seb...Kwvtijhmoob siab yeej zoo txaus lawm. Xav tias
zaum no nyuav ntsib Kwvtijhmoob thiab nej cov txiv Ntxawm coob tus.
kuv yuav nce tuaj rau hnub Thursday, nyob txog hnub Monday mam li tau
rov qab los tsev.
Born
yawgnomdub
naj. Kuv kuj xav mus koom niag pog lub party thiab tabsis kuv ho muaj
ib qhov haujlwm nyob Lansing rau lub caij ntawm lawm es mus tsi tau
xwb os.
kwvtijhmoob
lawm ov. yog koj tuaj tiag no ces yuav tau teem caij (appointment)
kuv mam li kom kuv 2 tug ntxhais los tsev mas thiaj ntsib nawb. es ua
li koj yuav tuaj hauj lwm dab tsi. puas yog rov tuaj pom tuag dua
mas? aub... kuv xav tias tsis txhob tuaj pom tuag ntau ntau, nws tsis
muaj nqi dab tsi. yuav saib thiab xav pom ua cas ho tsis tuaj saib
thaum tseem muaj txoj sia nyob mas. koj mas kuv ntshai tsam thaum wb
tau ua yawg cuas ces koj ua zaj no rau kuv xwb lauv.
Born2beMhong
kuv mas ib sij dhau ib lwm pem MN li 1 los 2 lub week li, tabsi cov
tub pheej tsi tuaj nrog kuv ned. Zaum no ces tagnrho kuv cov tub tuaj
tagnrho...yog li thiaj li xav tias, yog tiam neej no tau ib tug cuas
siab zoo npaum li koj tiag no...thiaj li xav ntim sus ziag tuaj saib
kom cuag seb tej me tub me nyuam puas sibnyiam no tiag.
zoo nawb, yog koj 2 tug ntxhais tseem mus kawm ntawd lawm. yog tsi
sibntsib lub sijhawm no los cias lwm lub sijhawm los yeej tau. cov tub
ces 2 tug college lawm, os cov ces tseem tabtom yuav luag tag high
school. qhov tseemceeb ces yog cov tub no lawv tsua txawj tham hlua
nkauj ces hlob tav li ntawd twb tsi tau muaj girlfriend duas li--ntshe
lawv tsi paub tham lus mos lus muag ces nej tej ntxhais tsi nyiam xwb
laud. tabsi, kuv mas yeej nyiam nyiam ua cuas kawg kiag li lawm--vim
siab los zoo, tswv8 los muaj. yog muaj hnub tau ua cua mas ntshe yeej
yuav hajyam tau zoo sibtham xwb tiag.
yog li ntawd ces yuav tau qhia chaw nyob es tuaj tsi tau los lwm zaus
thiaj li zoo teem appointment tuaj ntag no laid.
Thanks in advance,
Born
vimhlub
Yuav tsum ua raws li neb hais pob... nej 2 tug laus tsis muaj cai yuav
los "negotiate" txog cov hluas lub neej los sav. Lawv yuav tsum pom
zoo ua ntej, neb mam li cia li OK tom qab xwb thiaj li yog kev
"vammeej" raws li nej hais sav. Ua cas yus niam yuav nrog luag nrhiav
txij tog txij peg li... ua li ntawd ces kuj tsis txawv cov Hmoob
"stone age" kiag li?
Born2beMhong
nrhiav los twb tso tub tso ntxhais sib pom seb lawv puas yuav sibnyiam
thiab sibhlub ned. koj ua twb zoo xav xwb mas, lub sijhawm no--laj
nrhiav tau ib tug cuas ua txawj xav thiab txawj tham li no kawg kiag
nawb. yog tau ib tug zoo cuas li no tiag ces nws thiab yus ces zoo
cuag li 2 kwvtij lawm ntag laid.
li cas los, peb phaum no lawm yeej cias tej me tub me nyuam sib xaiv
lawm xwb tiag mas--tsua yog yus pab taws rau kom tau tus zoo xwb.
koj puas nco qab tijlaug Phwvnyawm hais rau ib post lawm lod...
txiv ces yeej txi siav poob tsi deb ntawm qab ntoo kiag...tseev neeg
twg yog tsevneeg tsi khov ces txawm twb yog today lawm los..tej me tub
me nyuam nruav yeej tsi khov kiag li no lod. yog tseem muaj li tiag,
mas tej niam tej txiv los yuav tsum tau pab nrhiav thiab tiag nawb
mog...
Born