When Thaub Laus wants a new/young wife
Nouka
Yog hnub twg nej tus txiv taij yuav niam yau ces nej cia li tu siab
kiag es tso plhuav nws mus nws nawb. Nej cheem los yeej tsis ntxiv
dab tsi li lawm vim yog txog txij luag qhib tau qhov ncauj hais rau
nej ces luag yeej xum xuam yus pov tseg lawm. Lwm lo lus ces yog lus
dag lawm xwb. Lub sij hawm nej mob siab thiab tu x siab ntawd, nej
txhob waste nej tej sij hawm los depress los sis try to win him back -
He's long gone. Instead, nej siv nej cov energy no los strategize
saib yuav ua li cas yus thiaj yuav get ahead of the game lawm xwb.
The "prize of the game" is not HIM but everything that you and him
have earned since you two began your life together. Like Ivanna Trump
said "Don't get mad, Get everything!" Get a lawyer and get
everything. And please..please ladies...Don't threaten him about what
you'll do. Be nice and cooperative so he does not hide any money.
Remember that you can't make him love you. He may "care" for you if
you compromise by giving him permission to walk all over you with his
new bride. The question for you is - is this enough? My answer is -
NO. You are worth more than a mere door mat for him and his new
bride.
Peace,
HK
cwjmem
tsis muaj baum li koj hais paub. Yus tus txiv siab loj nav, ces mus
pab coj cov md ntxhais Hmoob tuaj nyob rau teb chaws no kom dim lawv
txoj kev txom nyem xwb nav. Tsis hlub cov me ntxhais Hmoob no los
yuav tsum hlub lawv lub qhov muag thiab paub, vim qee tus ntxhais quaj
tag zog li ces, koj tsis kam koj tus txiv mus sov lawv lub kua muag li
lod!
Nouka
Yog koj xav li ntawd tiag x ces koj sia li coj kiag neb 2 niam txiv
mus coj kiag 2 tug hluas tim ub tuaj los pob yuad? But honestly, I
bet if your wife as much as qhuas ib yawm hais tias "haib" thiab no
xwb ntshe koj twb yuav huaj cheej lawm nav...ua cas koj thiaj xav tias
pojniam tsis txawj mob siab /tu siab no nas yuad?
Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas tsis yog tsis pub nws mus yuav lwm tus nawb.
Kuv mas thiaj yog tus uas hais yooj yim tshaj plaws ntag. Nws taij
kiag xwb ces kuv tso phluav ntag hos. I don't believe in trying to
keep someone from realizing his own dream and his pursuit of
happiness, especially when his desire impeded my very own existence as
a human being.
Peace,
HK
vaajmoob
txug lawg lwm tug mas txwj has heev tabsis nub twg txug koj ces tsi
muaj quav dlaab tsi le og,
vmged
Nouka
Kuv hab kuv nam quas yawg ib yeej coj le has, has le coj tag x le kuv
pav nuav ov. Ib tug policy siv huv ib lub neej mas yog sis fwm, ncaaj
nceeg, sis hlub mas maav nyob ua ke. Yog nub twg hloov sab yuav tsus
qha tsua yug tus partner ca nyag moog nyag xob sis dlaag, tsim txom,
los yuam kuas luag nyob. So far, we are still together because we
have these 3 elements in our life. I'm not saying that we do not have
any problems. We have all the problems like everyone else but our
commitment to each other is unquestionable.
Peace,
HK
cwjmem
Tso phluav nws mus tau kawg. Tsov pluav lawm ces, tau kev ywj siab
mus rau hauv "stargate, a Hmong St. Paul nite club" li peb hmo, yuav
tsib cov txiv neej lwj liam haus dej haus cawv sib tsoo khob, ces
thaum ntawm koj yuav nco nco koj yawm Thaub laus koj muab tso. Poj
niam ces, lub siab muag muag li, hais tau ua tsis tau. Nrauj koj lawm
Thaub lawm ces kawg los mus ua lwm tus niam yau xwb tiag!
Kuv ces tseem yog single. Yam pluas zaub mov ua noj ntau hom thiaj li
tsis dhluav siab and avoid headache!
Born2beMhong
zaum no kuv agree nrog neb lawm...yeej yog li neb hais, thaum yus pom
luag hauvtoj kubnyiab mas zoo li pheej kub tsi txaus yusiab kiag.
tabsi txog yus hauvtoj thaum twg mas, ntuj aws...hajyam kuv tsi tau
qhov twg tuaj li ntag hod. tsi tag li los pojniam mas lawv lam hais
tau xwb, lawv lub siab tseem muag heev...tsawg tus kawg kiag thiaj li
ua rau li lawv hais...thaum coj los siv kiag rau practical usage os.
Born
ntujkag
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Wrong way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
phwvnyawm
Koj cov lus no mas yeej muaj ceem kawg lawm.......tab sis nej cov poj
niam nad.....100 leej mas tsuas muaj li 5 leeg ua tau li koj hais
no......95 leeg ces kawg ua heev thaum pib.......yog txiv neej ua tiag-
g lawm ces kawg quaj-j cia li xwb.Qhov no lauj peb cov txiv neej thiaj
tsis ntshai.......cov txiv neej laus thiaj pheej cob cov txiv neej
hluas tias yuav kiag xwb ces nws yeej ua tsis tau dab tsi.......nej
yuav tsum paub tias txiv hmoob mas lub siab phem tshaj
plaws.......tseev koj zoo nkauj nawb......yog koj niag thaub tso koj
pov tseg kiag.......cov zoo tshaj koj niag thaub ces luag twb tsis rov
kaum muag saib koj......kawg cov npeeb-b,txab-b tshaj thiaj lam ntxias
koj so ko tawm xwb.....luag twb tsis yuav thiab.......txiv neej hmoob
mas ib tug phem rau koj mas yuav luag tag cov txiv neej hmoob no phem
rau koj........hos nej cov poj niam mas zoo li no.... koj phem rau koj
tus txiv mas ib nrab cov poj niam tseem mus tuaj txiv neej tog lawm
thiab ces nej cov poj niam kawg swb nawb.......thaum kawg ces kawg Dub
thiab Mev khaws lawm xwb las as......qhov no kuv qhia ncaj-j es kom
nej cov poj niam yuav ua neeg phem los 2 xav,3 xav,4,5,6 xav.....quaj-
j tas los ho rov los nplig nej tus txiv.........peb tuaj nyob tau 30
tawm xyoo kuv yeej tsis tau pom ib tug poj niam twg khiav tus txiv qub
es mus tau lub neej zoo tshaj.......cov zoo ces tseem yog cov cia li
tsis yuav txiv ntsaub tej me nyuam, daim tej me nyuam es tej me nyuam
tseem hlub.
Tiam no nej xeeb yug tau los ua poj niam lawm ces kav liam ua siab
ntev-v.......yeej yog txiv neej thib txim nej lawm ned......ntev tag
ntev thiab kom lub neej txhob tawg.......niam pog Clinton mas yog ib
tug poj niam zoo kawg.......kawg luag twb yog Meskas luag tseem tsis
ua phem nad.
peacock
Minnesota encouraged all married couple with children to get divorce
by filing separated to get more refunds. This tax code is a blessing
to the Hmong men to excuse to get off their marriage and to find a
younger one in Laos.
nres
txog luag lwm tus mas yeej hais yooj yim ...kuv mas ua kiag li no , ua
kiag li no...tiam sis thaum txog kiag ysu tus kheej mas , kuj ntuj teb
tsaus ntais, xuas qhov twg kuj tsis yog kiag li....Luag tej laus niaj
txws hais tias " UA NEEG NYOB, TSIS POM DEJ DAG SIAB TSIS NQIG"...YUS
KOM LUAG DIA TSUA, tiam yog txog yus thib Dhia mas HUB...yus kuj
ntshia tuag thiab...ces nyob MLUAS MLOB...cia dhia tsis taus Tsua
li...hehheheheh
yawgnomdub
You may misunderstand but to make it clear, in the past people never
divorce but they file separate as household (two household) so now on
the uncle sam will not do that any more. You need to legally divorce
to be able to file separate or head of household by yourself.
In the past uncle sam allow any body can preparer the income tax
return but nexy year they will have more control, anyone who want to
prepare income tax return must register to be certify with uncle same.
When you do your next income tax return, you must becareful and make
sure the one who prepare is certify otherwise they will audit you and
ask you to pay a lot of your money. Good luck
peacock
yawgnomdub,
Thanks for your clarification. Two of mine cousins who live in St.
Paul were able to get a young girl in Laos because of the lust for
more refunds from their stupid wives. Thousands of Hmong Minnesota
had divorced because of the filing separately as two household to
cheat the government and now they paid the price for it.
peacock
young men have been chasing by many young girls in America. They
girls come to live with them without marry.
Why do you have to spend $5000.00 for a trip to Laos while there is
free sex in America? Check this link where my young friends and I
went to pick up some free chicks almost every weekend. No need to go
to Laos.
cwjmem
Tsam no koj mam li paub xwb! Peb cov no ses yuav tsum muaj
Appointment rau lawv mam ntsib taus yus xwb os. Thaum mus rau
Lostsuas teb yog mus ncig ua si xwb. Koj puas paub hais tias cov
hluas nkauj mos nyob rau rau sab Asia muaj VD, HIV, Hepatitis B (kab
mob siab B) no los. Yog thaum twg ib tug kis tau lawm ces yuav ua
neej nyuaj sib. Mus rau sab Asia, noj zaub mov twb xaiv nav!
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMBCkDyHaVM&feature=PlayList&p=CE11C69...
Mouatony
Hmongza.com muaj ib cov phoojywg twb thaam has tas muaj ib khub nam
txiv, tug quas yawm pheej moog thaam hluas nkauj. Muaj ib nub tug yawm
moog ua hauj lwm lug txug tsev saib ntawd rooj pum tug quas puj sau
tau ib dlaim ntawv tseg tas koj xob nhrav kuv lawm. Tug quas yawg feel
zoo le quav yuav lug ho tsi yog, zoo le zig yuav lug ho tsi yog. Yog
npaum le nuav lawm se peb cov txiv neej Moob yuav tau hlub cov quas
puj hab nawb. Thaum cov quas puj txav txim sab tas tso tseg nuas ce
peb quav yeej yuav lug tag tag le od, vim nyaj txag, vaajtse, hab
mivtub mivnyuas yuav moog taag. Laug le koj hab kuv nuav lawm ces tsi
tshuav pi tsawg xyoo khwv, es yog nrov moog pib zero tuaj ce kawg tuag
xwb la a.
Nouka
Nov tsis yog txhob kom pojniam ua phem rau cov txiv os mog. Yog qhia
kom sawvdaws paub meej tias, ua tib neeg no yog thaum luag lub siab
tsis npuab koj lawm ces yeej rub tsis los lawm es tsis xob waste
energy mus rau sab ntawd no naw... Pojniam mas muaj ntau ntau...b
option kawg li os. For example:
1. tus neeg uas nws BELIEVE tias yog yus tso yus tus txiv lawm NTSHAI
tsam tsis muaj lwm tus txiv zoo yuav yus lawm no ces yuav tsum cia li
tsum kiag es nyob twj ywm pau tw nthoob li tus maum dev xwb ntag
nawb. Koj hais ntau tsam laug ncaws taw tuaj thiab ces ho sav duav
sav ceg es khwv tsis taus noj lawm ov. Nyob kiag li tus dev dig muag
lag ntseg es luag pov khib nyeua hauv qab rooj ces yus mam noj nawb.
Nov kuj yog ib vib thi zoo rau tus nyiam nyob li tus maum dev thiab
nawb.
2. tus BELIEVE tias nws yog ib tug tib neeg (human being) no mas nws
yuav tsum pom dav dua qhov hais tias NTSHAI tsis muaj tus txiv yuav
yus lawm. What is a "husband"? A husband is someone who cares,
respects and loves you. Someone who sees you as a person - not a
"thing" he owns or has authority over. Vim li cag yus thiaj yuav nrog
ib tug tib neeg uas tsis pum yug tej value nyob ua ke? Muaj qaab hau
dab tsi mas? Ua tib neeg nyob hauv qab ntuj, yawm saub yeej pub teg
taw rua txhua leej kuas khwv tau noj tau haus lawm es yuav moog txhawj
tus dab tsi nas. Zej zog yuav saib taus koj tsis yog tim koj muaj tus
quas yawg nkaus xwb. Teb chaws no koj muaj peev xwm yuav ua tau koj
ib lub neej kom xws sawvdaws tib yam los ntawm koj ntiag tug los
kiag. Yog thaum koj ua lub neej zoo lawm ces tej txiv natwd yog "pik
gnoy" xwb os. Simply put, our Hmong community over rated the value of
Hmong men.
3. Tus pojniam uas tseem hluas, concentrate on how to make your life
better than his. Go back to school - that's the way to get ahead.
Even if it means you are going to be poor for a while. Your sacrifice
will be well worth it in the long run. Forget the night clubs - they
will only bring disastrous results. Tej phooj ywg tim night club tsuas
yog pheuane keen xwb tsis yog pheuane tai. Cov niag ntawd mas hnub
twg koj txom nyem ces ploj tag ho yog koj ib sij yuav ib nkev beer
txawb saum rooj mas ntuj aw phooj ywg sis laub sis lug li os.
4. tus pojniam uas laus zog lawm, concentrate hlub koj cov menyaum
thiab cov xeeb ntxwv kom lawv paub koj txoj kev hlub thiab fwm koj as
an individual. Koj xob mus khuv xim tej niag kev tawm rooj ntxub
ntxiag uas puas thaud koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tau ua dhau los. Koj
mus nrhiav tau ib niag thaub laus los cov niag ntawd ces ua neej rov
qab xwb. Koj tsuas lam tau lub niag khauj khaum puag pw xwb yeej tsis
tau nws dag zog los pab koj dab tsi li. Thaum tau ib niag thaub li no
lawm thiab mas nws tseem cav muaj xiv txwv tsis pub koj pab koj tej me
tub menyuam ywj siab lawm thiab. Nws nyiaj txiaj yog nws li tiam sis
koj nyiaj ho tseem yog nws tug thiab. TROUBLE xwb nawb, yeej tsis
worth it li os.
Hais li no xwb nyaj sawvdaws yuav to taub lawm.
Peace,
HK
cwjmem
Puas yog koj hais rau cov poj niam Hmoob hais tias yog thaum yus ob
niam txiv sib tso tseg lawm ces kom cov poj niam muab nws lub tshuaj
kib foob kiag es get on her life tsis txhob thab txiv neej no lawm
nad! Ua tsis tau. Hmob twb muaj ib lo lus hais tias "CUAJ LUB HNUB
YEEJ TSIS BAUM LI IB LUB HLI NO NED!". Nrauj lawv cov txi lawm ces
kawg los ua lawv cov laus dlua koj tus txiv niam yau xwb tiag. Los
yog ua saib ntev nyob ua NIAM LOJ, NIAM NAI es kom niam yau nkawv ob
niam txiv khwv los rau koj noj thiab saib yus cov menyuam yuav zoo
duab mus ua luag cov neeg laus niam yau pob!
Nouka
Ua cas hais lus tsim tsim nyog lub npe li nas me tub? Cwjmem suppose
to be very smart laiv ua cas es samong chao ni teune thae no? Chao
khue si mane phuak thi khao va mi tae khuam hou tae va bo hou khuam ti
bo? Chang mane sia day de chao euoy...
Kuv nyav qha tag tas cov laug tes kuas nyob tws ywv paab tej tub ki
hab tej me xeeb ntxwv xwb xob thuv laaj cov nam quasyaug xom faav hov
no ned. Why do you think women MUST have a man in her life? Es yog
tso yus tus txiv lawm ces TSUA KAWG mus ua niam yau xwb no nas? C'mon
guys, wake up the 21st century!
HK
Pojniam Hmoob CA
> to be very smart laiv ua cas es samong chao ni teune thae no? Chao
> khue si mane phuak thi khao va mi tae khuam hou tae va bo hou khuam ti
> bo? Chang mane sia day de chao euoy...
I like your Lao language here! hehehe...
phwvnyawm
Koj thiab peb tus niam tij Hnub Kaj tej lus mas yeej yog kawg
lawm.Qhov kuv hais mas yog yuav muab ua % mas peb cov txiv neej yeej
zoo ntau dua cov poj niam nawb.
Kuv saib kiag li kuv pab kwv tij thiab cov txheeb ze xwb.
10 leej poj niam khiav los nrauj lawm mas 8 leej yeej mus yuav tau
niam mos-s tim Nplog tuaj ntag.
Hos cov poj niam ces kuv twb tsis tau pom ib tug mus yuav tau txiv mos-
s tim Nplog tuaj hais peb pab kwv tij xwb nawb.
Koj saib maj peb hmoob tuaj nyob Meskas teb cov txiv neej mus yuav tau
niam mos-s tuaj mas ntshai yuav txog phav tus lawm laid......hos cov
poj niam mas raws li kuv paub mas ntshai tsuas txog 20-30 leej xwb.
Cov txiv neej xav tau li koj mas muaj tsawg kawg.........yeej yog cov
xav yuav lub mos-s ntau xwb.......nws ua tsis tau los tshuaj ua tau ib
ntus xwb khiav lawm los nws yeej zoo siab.......muaj peb ib tug kwv
tij tseem hais li no tshuav tau ua ib teg lawm ces nws khiav lawm los
xij......vim yus twb tau tsij ib zaug rau hauv lawm.
Peb txawm yuav hais npaum cas los txiv neej yeej tsis muaj qhov swb li
nawb..........cov poj niam khiav lawm es quav yuav los li koj hais mas
yog cov tsawg thiab neeg ruam thiaj ua li ntawd xwb......tej nyuag vaj
tsev,nyiaj txiag lub cuab tam ntawd mas txiv neej tsis kk li nawb cov
coob naj.Nws rab twb lov duav ua tsis tau 1-2 hlis mam ua tau ib teg
los nws yeej tsis kk li nad......ua tus me khov-v tag mus li
xwb......muaj tej tus txiv neej ces tshuav tau nplhws-s xwb los twb
zoo siab poob nyiaj lawm.
yawgnomdub
Kuv hais kiag li koj ntag nawb. Ntau zaug wb hais pheej tsi tshuam sib
haum mas kuv yeej hais tias lub neej nyo nyuab heev lawm thiab zoo li
pheej tsi nce qib hos pheej ua neej nqis hav xwb cais kuv yuav ua ib
siab muab nej pab niam tub tso tseg cia kuv mus kuv lauj. Poj niam
tias yog koj mus sis tsi txhob coj ib qhov nyiaj mus li laiv? Kuv hais
tias wb los khwv txog txij no muaj npaum twg nyiaj los kuv tseg tas
nrho rau koj, tej metub menyuam los tso tas nrho rau koj noj nqi
tiamsis wb muaj 3 lub tsheb cais koj kam kuv coj lub qub qub mus kom
kuv tau luv mus ua haujlwm rau kuv noj kuv haus xwb. Cov tsheb tshiab
los tso tas nrho rau koj. Thaum yus hais li no mas ua rau poj niam
poob siab kiag tias yuav mus tiag los ua cas ne, zoo li yeej tsi khuv
xim tej nyiaj txiag thiab tej menyuam li. Zoo li nws ciav ua zoo tuaj
lawm thiab no laiv.
Kuv mas xav kom nws tso cais kiag cais yus mus yus xwb, yog nws tso
cai lawm cais thiaj tsi hais nyuab nyuab tom xaam nav.
cwjmem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbav-jj7kCM
Nouka
Yam koj xav tau mas kuv qhia koj tias yooj yim kawg nkaus. Koj cia li
mus ua daim ntawv xuam tag nhro neb lub neej, tej property, asset,
children, retirement benefits etc. rau nws ces nws yeej kam ua ntawv
nrauj koj tso koj mus xwb los mas. This way, you not only maintain a
good relationship with your children but wiht her too,as a friend.
Make sure koj xob tseg nuj nqis rau nws them tom qab ov nws thiaj li
muab kev yooj yim rau koj.
Ib tug txiv neej yawg mas yuav tsum yog ua tau lub siab loj npaum no
mas thiaj tsim nyog ntiaj teb nav thwm nawb. Cov nyuag uas yus twb
tsis xav yuav pab nyuag niam tub lawm los tseem pheej nrog sib txeeb
nyuag lauj kaub tais diav, lub fai khaub hlab, thiab kis nyuag puav
nyiaj hauv qab nas mas...haub yau...tsis tsim nyog tuav lub meej mom
tias yog ib tug txiv neej yawg no li os. Kuv thov xalaxeune koj nawb.
Peace,
HK
Hmong-Lao
PY Hnubkaj,
Kuv yeej paub hais tias nws tsis ncaj ncees rau pojniam lawm, tabsis
kuv ho xav hais tias yuav tau rub lub siab kom ntev thiab kom loj zog
nod!
Yog txhua tus pojniam Hmoob ua raws nkaus li koj hais mas ntshe Hmoob
cov pojnrauj nkaujfa yuav puv zej puv zos li lau (ib yam li main
stream ntag). Tos kuv hais li no mas yuav luag txhua tus txivneej
Hmoob yeej muaj lub siab xav mus ua hluas thiab deev lwm tus hluas
nkauj. Muaj tej tug mas txawm nws twb hlub hlub nws tus me niam nkauj
txhav qaib los nws tseem ua txuj taij yov yuav niam yau thiab seb tus
pojniam lub siab ho loj los me, lossis seb tus pojniam puas tseem hmov
thiab mob siab txog nws. Qhov tseeb, nws xav qhia rau nws pojniam hais
tias nws tseem ua taus txiv kawg no xwb.
Tos kuv hais li no mas kuv twb yog ib tug ntawm cov txiv neej uas hlub
yus pojniam ib leeg xwb (never have an afair or have sex with anyone
other than my wife), tej thaum kuv tseem ua txoj nug nws seb puas kam
kuv yuav niam yau no thiab laid. Qhov tseeb yus yeej tsis muaj pluaj
siab yuav ua li ntawd, tabsis tsuas lam sim nws siab xwb. Yog nws coj
ceev npaum li koj hais ces wb lub neej ham tsis puas cisfij cistom li
lawm las es.
Tsis tag li ntawd, kuv cov neeg txheebze yuav luag txhua tus txiv neej
mas yeej mus tham hluas nkauj, tham poj ntsuam nkauj fa, deev niam
ntiav thiaj tseem muaj tej tug taij yuav niam yau tiag tiag. Tabsis
tus pojniam ua taus siab ntev thiab ua tawv qhawv tsis kam txawm tsis
kam xwb ces lub neej kuj tseem nyob khov khwb kho thiab ne! Hos kuj
muaj tus puav uas tus niam tsis kam los nws nias qhi yuav niam yaus
ces tej tug lub neej kuj puas lawm tiag, tej tug lub neej kuj tseem
lam sib uv sib uv nyob thiab. Muaj ob tug uas tus txiv yuav niam yau
es nws tsis kam yuav tus txiv ces sib nrauj tsheej. Ib tug mus ua lawv
niam ob, hos ib tug mus ua lawv niam peb thiab tus txiv tseem laus dua
tus qub lawm.
Li cas lo xij, lub neej uas kaj siab tshajplaws mas yog yuav tug kav
tug xwb; hlub yus tus tib leeg xwb mas yus lub neej nyob tau kaj siab
thiab tshav ntuj nrig txhua hnub txhua hmo.
HL
Nouka
Qhov zoo ces yeej yog yuav tsum txhob kub x es ua twb zoo xwv xam seb
tus txiv hais tiag los yog lam sim siab xwb. Kuv xav mas yog nyob ua
ke laus li peb cov no lawm mas luag hais tiag hais dag los yus yeej
yuav ntsuas tau thiab. Tiam sis ib qho kuv xav ntxiv mas yog tus txiv
pheej muab lo lus yuav niam yau coj los sim siab mas ib zaug tsis chim
los ib zaug yeej yuav chim ces yuav muaj kev sib cav sib ceg no. Tos
kuv hais li ntawd mas vim lo lus ntawd yog ib los lus tsiv siab - an
indication that yout wife is not good enough for you that's why you
are yearning for another woman. Yog yus xav paub saib pojniam puas
tseem tshua yus, muaj ntau txoj kev yuav tham thiab nug yam uas kom
luag txhob me siab los mob siab. Put very simply, be kind and
considerate towards your life partner. Treat her the same way you
want to be treated - with respect, trust and love.
Peace,
HK