Guess my last sentance came off the wrong way. Sorry. I didn't mean to imply it's a "waste of time" (in your words) to look at the issue, just not the most worthwhile at this stage.
I would encourage reflection on the difference between 'request' for a feature, and 'demand' for a feature. If I were in front of a Girls Scout tribe - yeah that's a demand! Hiking on a winter weekend with LandTrust crowd - not so much (but maybe a desire in a few). What's the tipping point toward providing this? - public will let us know.
As I try to diffuse the passion with levity, realize that there are indeed females on BOA (in your ward), Parks & Rec and Trails Committee - granted not high percentage, but when they speak up their voice is heard and not simply desmissed.
Encouraging people to congregate at a ball field or farmer's market is apparently worthy of providing facilities. Is providing access to or improving trails encouraging people to congregate? If so where is the access point that gathering together is encouraged across the vast Shelton Lakes area and where then should facilities be provided? What about winter when pipes freeze, will this be heated?
I could go on down this rabbit's trail, and it would be unproductive at this point in our plans. Public use will demand modification of any assumptions made in our plans. Remember Independence Drive when we recomended stone over sidewalk and that didn't work out. We started the first paved area of the RecPath with stone dust on one side to help runners avoid shin splints on hard surface - probably won't follow that tact any further.
It's good to imagine the future, I don't want to discourage that (cable stayed bridges and all). However, I think we need to focus on what should come first within this context: Building the Rec Path. We can't muddy or dilute that message to those making decisions and approvals toward acomplishing that building plan, whether the decisions are land acquiring or improvements upon them.
PS: I'll admit that my foreign golf club is primarily men, and the course was certainly designed in layout when women weren't so much a factor to consider, but they do have an active Ladies Club, as do many courses nearby, and none have any sanitary facilities out on the course. Being in the sand dunes next to the ocean, in areas prohibited from development due to their being in "areas of outstanding natural beauty" or "areas of special scientific interest" or some other designation that somebody had the forethought to identify and others the fortitude to enforce, has ensured a landscape devoid not only of seaside residential condos, but any structure and with only a look of nature. It is my standard of what a course truly should be.