If they're two wire, they should be diodes. But I've seen some IR remote transmitters that used two or more LEDs in series which would put the diode voltage drop higher than your meter would likely output to get conduction/diode indication.
You can try watching the output of the suspect buds through a cell phone camera. Many cell phone cameras will show the IR as visible light if they're working (pretest first on a known good IR source). Using a low voltage adjustable source, add some voltage across a resistor and watch the buds through the camera to see if they output light. Switch polarity and check again.
If they are multiple diode buds and the Homepro kit you have uses single diodes, they won't work together.