On 2/07/2015 1:06 AM, Gracchus wrote:
> On Wednesday, July 1, 2015 at 4:40:31 AM UTC-7, Whisper wrote:
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>> Yes, it's kinda dumb wishing your opponent good luck. I always say
>> 'good game' rather than good luck.
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> If you believe in your own abilities, then luck shouldn't be able to help your opponent, right?
Depends. Sometimes the margins are very small, so any luck could be
decisive. That means genuinely wishing them luck is pretty much the
same as hoping they win.
> It's not the same as saying, "Hope you win." One could say that the post-match handshake tradition is stupid too and should be optional in case you hate your opponent or believe he/she didn't deserve to win. It's a kind of enforced hypocrisy.
It's rare to truly 'hate' your opponent, but even so you should be able
to shake hands after the match. It's not like saying 'you deserved it',
rather acknowledging the battle took place & you both contributed.
>But someone with an adult mindset graciously endures the brief inanities that come with the sport and proceed to the business at hand. Bouchard causes herself a greater headache by refraining from the handshake, and for what? I don't know if she feels it's taking some kind of moral stand or actually believes the little ritual will give her opponent the edge.
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She might just feel it's fake?
My feeling is 'play well & let's have a good game', & then shake
afterwards - unless your opponent personally insults you eg 'you fucking
cocksucker' etc