On 11/06/2017 1:41 AM, Gracchus wrote:
> On Saturday, June 10, 2017 at 8:28:48 AM UTC-7, Whisper wrote:
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>> Agreed. The game needs a real woman player who is hungry & not scared to
>> win. There are only 2 - Serena who is pregnant & Sharapova.
>
> Is it really "fear of winning" though? To me it seems more like a chronic "beta" mindset. They believe in themselves enough to be world-class or top 10, but don't believe they're a slam-winning caliber of player.
Yes, I mean 'fear of winning' at the slam semi or final level. They
really need to overcome that fear & see it as a golden opportunity &
privilege.
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> Players like Graf, Seles, Serena, or Sharapova had that belief even in their early teens, but most never get there.
They all had dominant fathers guiding them though, so maybe there's
something there?
> They resign themselves to the mindset that runner-up is good enough, so it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I could see this with Wozniacki and Jankovic playing Serena for example. It's >disgusting to watch their body-language say, "Yes, I know I'm your poodle and that's okay. I'm happy just to bask in the glow of a real champion."
>
Exactly, & really it's not good enough for this great sport with so many
fans wanting to see ultimate efforts. We all want to feel satisfied at
the end of a slam that everyone has put in 100% & the best player on the
day won, not the player who choked less than the opponent. The men's AO
is a perfect example of what I expect in slams - everyone trying to play
their best & leaving it all out there.
Like her or hate her, Sharapova is an example to other players on how to
conduct yourself & approach matches. It's not that she's fabulously
talented, but she has the mind of a real champion. She sure as fuck
doesn't need the money so I really respect her.