It's been that way increasingly since the 70s, I'd say. It was
initialized by the Vietnam involvement, and confirmed by Watergate and
Nixon's subsequent resignation.
Everyone started getting real cynical. You can see where we are now, in
the US.
>
>
> Let's have a mad max scenario. I can take care of myself that way,
> sure.
>
> Now that would be truly liberating.
Hah!
You know, skript, I had a moment of revelation concerning the
desirability of anarchy--which, I am embarrassed to admit, I thought was
desirable for a person like me, being in my mid-20s, and hence
invincible and immortal.
I'd had a few instances where my first wife provoked overt responses
from men on the street, often in poor neighborhoods, or maybe where one
might encounter a group of bikers.
Cold Spring Tavern behind Santa Barbara, in the 70s, springs readily to
mind...
And even when she didn't do this provocative stuff, there was still the
danger that she'd attract a fair degree of sexual attention, and I'd
have to brave it out, one way or another.
Burkas, anyone?... :^)
One day as were getting ready to walk past a bunch of young black guys
near the LA Colosseum and I was trying to figure out how best to deal
with the inevitable situation, it dawned on that in a *real* anarchy I'd
have to carry a gun in order to keep possession of my wife. Every day.
I'd have to carry something intimidating every single time I went
anywhere public with her, because she'd be like a $100 bill on the
ground, and whoever is the most dominant gets to keep it.
It was then that I re-thought my position on anarchy.
"Civilization upgrade", indeed! :^)
I didn't get smart enough to leave her until several years later.
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>
> For me there's nothing liberating in his cynical message that you
> should expect nothing, and don't even care. That's the reason for
> the current nihilism in the west. And people killing themselves
> rich drugs.
Probably. But that's the reality i have to deal with for the rest of my
life, most likely. So rather than attempt to moderate this, I can weasel
by learning how best to work within this corrupt system.
If I were in my 30s instead of in my 70s, I'd come at it differently...
>
>
> So when you have e.g. Hillary telling coal miners that they're
> losers and that they should accept their misfortune that's his
> legacy.
>
> Trump turned the tables on that. He restored patriotism.
Disagree. There is likely some argument that Trump is the second coming
of Reagan. He's not as encouraging or positive, that's for sure, but...
It sure *feels* that way, here as an observer.
>
> People expected of Trump not to give them free anything, they
> wanted someone who'd love his country and whom could they love
> back.
>
>
> We expect care from goverment. Government is responsible for
> planning, but love has to be part of everything. We expect them
> to care. Not to give us free stuff.
In my experience "caring" went gradually out of vogue after Watergate,
when it became apparent that in order to hold power, no expedient that
promised success, however distasteful, and without direct precedent,
would be off-limits.
It's like dealing with a lot of the posters here on RST.
I'd say that prior to maybe 1980 there was a tradition of limited, but
real, trust in authority in the US. This may have come as a tag-along
from WWII.
After Nixon, Carter *seemed* decent, but was also seen as weak and
incompetent. Reagan was seen as decent--rightly or wrongly--but
optimistic and effective.
It was as if Reagan was Kennedy, but instead of promising that NASA
would land a man on the moon within the 60s, *you'd* land on the moon,
by your own volition, and the administration would stand back and let it
happen.
This is of course silly, but it was very definitely positive and
optimistic. It was "anti-cynicism".
>
> If you're sending message we are all in it for ourselves, no
> matter how much emphasis you put on legal nuances, it destroys
> fabric of society.
It's what's happening here, and if you are not a part of it (look out
for yourself) you will in essence be entering a 100m sprint wearing a 60
kilo weight jacket.
>
> So what you see as liberating, I see as alienating. He did
> liberate people. Liberated everyone from shared collective
> identity, expectations, hope.
No. You fail to realize that what he used as a unifier is that the US is
composed of competent, motivated individuals. For those who bought this,
they felt a sense of unity.
Again, while no one was purposely excluded, many just were neither
prepared, nor confident, and they had some real troubles.
But for most of the rest--and this was increasingly the emergent
Boomers--just as the emergent Millennials bought into Obama's rhetoric
of social restitution for past wrongs.
>
>
> Humans are social creatures. Both individual and collective parts
> are important.
Agreed, but understand: it is a pit filled with the vilest of vipers,
here. You need look no further than the integrity--or complete lack
thereof--of many of the posters here in RST. *That's* what I'm talking
about, and it's why the informed individual here in the US cannot afford
to trust people outside of a circle of proven friends and acquaintances.
You can expect no compromise or cooperation; it's been shown over and
over again...