On Apr 9, 9:54 pm, "Alexander" <
atlind...@btinternet.com> wrote:
> "Alistair" <
alistair.potts+...@gmail.com> wrote in message
Alexander,
To describe Alistair's phenomenological account of the race as
'biassed' is to misunderstand what you were reading. We see all
things through the prism of our own experience. Alistair's particular
prism of experience is that of the cox of the record-breaking
Cambridge Crew of 1998. I'm sorry that he coxed the crew that beat
your nephew. I imagine he remembers some of the awesome pressure that
a Boat Race must cox feel. He must feel a very real awareness of the
fine line that a cox has to navigate between doing their utmost to
steer their crew on the fastest line while avoiding a clash that ends
the race. I must reiterate that I can only imagine, but Alistair has
navigated it.
The strength of his remarks are based upon this experience. His
experience has told him that the crew put total trust in each other to
do their utmost to get each other across the finish-line first. His
experience as cox allows him to judge the risk/reward ratios of Zoe's
strategy in a way that most of us can't. His emotional reaction
indicates that he feels her strategy was a terrible one. The
discomfort you (and I imagine others) feel at reading his commentary
may lead you to describe those specific remarks as 'disgusting' but he
feels the enormity of her misadventure from a vivid perspective you or
I cannot imagine. For Alistair to make his remarks more palatable
would have left us with a less honest account of how he sees the
consequences of her actions.
I have rowed in the Boat Race but I have never coxed. I cannot
evaluate the risks that Zoe took in the way that Alistair can. I will
leave that to him. I can, from experience, tell you a few things about
the race.I can tell you that it is a very miserable race to lose, it
is a more miserable race to lose as a club president and that it can
be absolutely shattering to read, on this and other forums, comments
by individuals that I have never met, which have attributed in some
way my own performance to those losses. Intellectually I know these
comments are based on snippets of information but they have an
emotional impact an nonetheless. As president I made a few mistakes
that I regret, especially a couple of those where I did not show the
moral courage I expected of myself. What I will say is that these
failures made me reflect in a way that winning never did. Winning
feels great but failure is a big improver, probably the best. To
discount a loss and to attribute blame in a way that leads no room for
personal reflection is perhaps the most counter-productive outcome
possible. If the Oxford crew believe that Saturday's result was a
complete injustice and attribute the outcome of their result entirely
to the swimmer then they will not gain much from their experience.
From my own experience, I have come to believe that the result is over-
emphasised, it is the deep sense of unity gained in the striving to
win with other people that is the most life-enhancing aspect of this
race. The Oxford crew has much to reflect on that is good and
worthy. If, in the emotional turmoil of disappointment, the crew can
recognise how they gave their all for each other even though the odds
were all but impossible, then the crew may experience a sense of unity
that they will never find with another set of individuals again. It
may seem that Alistair's account is dishing out emotional pain in the
direction of Zoe but, as rowers know, pain can be life-enhancing too.
It may be more helpful for her to read the uncensored opinion of an
informed peer than to live in a sugar-coated world, where no-one says
what they are actually thinking.
Although it is unrelated to your comments I think it must be noted
Cambridge crew deserved their win for many reasons. Cambridge stuck
to their plan and delivered. They weathered Oxford's fast start and
delivered the good base pace they knew they had. The unbridled
celebrations at the finish were an understandable response to being
written off by commentators and being able to throw their predictions
back in their face. Proving doubters wrong is deeply satisfying. The
guys in this crew have believed in each other when most others
didn't. The respect that they were not given before the race is due
now. They won the race, both actively and actually.
In order to give you enough information to evaluate my 'biassed'
perspective you should know that I went to Cambridge. I also know Zoe
well enough to know that she is a decent person and is a good cox.
Her reaction on the day was an emotional response to a terrible
mistake. An over-aggressive race strategy on the day, however
disastrous, doesn't change my opinion of her, although I accept that
my defence of Alistair may change her opinion of me.