On 2020-10-24, xyzzy <
xyzzy...@gmail.com> wrote:
> You???re singing my song. For nearly 20 years I lived in a beautiful
> showpiece house on 20 acres that I designed myself. I thought I would
> always want to live in a place like that. Then after a divorce and meeting
> my current wife I sold it, got rid of 90% of my stuff, and moved into her
> townhouse. I realized how much of a white elephant the country place had
> been, and how liberating it was to lighten my load.
>
> Wife and I can afford to buy a cute bungalow in the fashionable part of
> town and sometimes we think it would be cool to do so. But we never pull
> the trigger and likely never will because getting back on the mortgage
> treadmill is not the least bit attractive to either of us. At this point,
> with retirement in sight within a decade for both of us, we???d rather be
> debt free than live in the fashionable neighborhoods we like.
>
> What???s important to happiness changes with age I guess.
I went on this journey too, in a way. Had a trophy house and realized at
age 45 that we didn't want to be on that treadmill, and moved to a more
humble/affordable house. Got rid of all debt. We've bought with cash since;
haven't had a dollar of debt since 2004.
After a few years in a snowbird situation then a condo, we (I think)
figured out where we want to be. We have a very nice house now, but
somewhat less than we can afford. We choose to travel and be on solid
retirement footing, and maybe even leave the kids a few (not too many,
I hope!) buckaroos.
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Life isn't fair, but it's good. -- Regina Brett