> Not so if the person is one who cares about those around them and has
> good knowledge of safe and sane reponsibility on public roads. My
> Father-In-Law "Pop" was one of those. Having good knowledge about
> Safety he came to us in his late eighties and told us he wanted to
> take himself off the highway. Not a surprise given his background in
> automobiles and also him being unselfish. No doubt the honor in the
> past of two Bronze Stars and the Croix de Guerre helped him to his
> wisdom. He passed at 93 in 2007. I drove him to the bowling alley the
> week he died and many weeks before. He left my home with a flag over
> him.
>
> We can certainly expect this kind of person in the Presidency. If we
> get it or not we must sure as all hell want it for that position even
> if we don't get it, as we did not in 2008 and don't have now. All too
> far from it actually. Would this President do the honorable thing if
> he was a bad driver? NOPE. His ego won't allow it. The only way to
> combat STUPID is to vote it out of office. One small step for mankind.
Your FIL must have been quite a guy, and it's obvious that you hold
him in the highest regard, as you rightfully should. How would you
have reacted if someone were disrespectful to him? I'm guessing that
you'd have been looking to take the person out back of the woodshed
and teach them a lesson in respect.
That's the funny thing. Respect. A teacher once said in a 9th grade
class, "Respect is simply giving someone the benefit of the doubt. It
is not something that has to be earned, it is something that you give
to other people. It says more about you than your disrespect will say
about them."
You weren't there when your FIL was awarded those medals, you weren't
there when he performed the deeds that won him those medals. There
was no videotape clearly indicating the heroic actions. All you've
heard are stories, and the firsthand stories at the time were what
brought him forward to win those medals. Yet I'm sure you, and the
people awarding those medals, have and had no doubts about him.
Right? I don't doubt _you_ for telling me about the grand old guy,
and you're obviously very close to the story and could not help but
have some bias.
There's the old saying about there being two sides to each story, and
I'd imagine that the people on the opposing side might not have agreed
with or appreciated what your FIL did. It was war. Did your FIL hold
the burning hatred for those he fought against until his dying
breath? Did he curse and swear about the Gerries and the Japs his
entire life? I have no doubt he did not, as people do not have such
admiration for bitter old men as you so clearly have for your FIL.
Tell me if I'm wrong.
If your FIL was able to move beyond the hate for people that were
trying to kill him and his buddies and end their way of life during
wartime, it is sad that some people are not able to move beyond hatred
that stems from petty politics, and feel the need to be bitter old men
cursing "them others."
I'd suggest that anytime someone feels that burning need to disparage
someone, they should think of people like your FIL and how they'd like
him to be treated, think of the other person's family, and their own,
and how they'd like them to be treated. Offering up any less is
diminishing themselves as much as it is harming them others, and
setting up arbitrary and capricious distinctions to simplify thinking
is a mental deceit. It also gives us the current media-fueled bitch-
slapping excuse for politics we have now, and that would keep
exemplary people like your FIL from running for office.
I wrote this quickly and the very last thing I am trying to do is
insult you or your FIL. If there's anything in here that hurts your
feelings, it was not intended. You are a lucky man to have had such a
grand old guy in your life, and he was a lucky guy to have you in his.
R