are you a nudist?
are you a true nudist?
are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
are you a nudist, so you can gawk at others?
are you a nudist, so you can have an erection?
are you a nudist, so you can have sex?
are you a nudist so you can get your butt whacked?
are you a nudist, because being nude makes you comfortable?
Yes
Yes
No
No
No
No
NO
Yes
How did I do, Teacher?
:-)
Jenny
and the last question.....would you rather be naked in a group where
children are present ...rather than just adults.....if yes explain
why...if you prefer adults only....no need for an explanation....jz
Well on one hand having children around might make the adults be on
their best behavior.
But if you mean would having nude children present attract me more to
a nudist venue so I can see nude children, of course not. But it
wouldn't bother me either.
> are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
I have to wonder about those who participate in events like the
Fremont Parade and the World Naked Bike ride.
After all that is what is happening to them. They are being gawked at
by the textiles around them.
I guess the only thing that would bother me about having children
around is the concern that it could attract pedos.
Anna....that is as close as even a textile could get to a non
contoversial answer....of course sex seekers would naturally prefer
adults only but sex seeker dont come to rec nude ...it is too
boring.....so i figured this many many years ago....and said to
myself.....so family nudism has sit the child up to be hostage
taker...a form of terrorism...being born.....
....where all adults are being restrained from normal sexy fun ...for
adults...that would be expected in a naked environment.....so many
adults do not hold a lot of respect or charm for children if they are
not the parents.....so i thought man there is some folks out there
that will think....hey kid since your presense is keeping me from
having all the fun i want to have...so entertain me and make me like
you for being here...and of course the little girls are willing and
waiting for the adults to respond that way.....so i said to
myself....this aint gonna work too good...and history says i was
right...in the textile world we smile at all the kids and love
them....but when they are naked....they owe us something...in the
naked world......uh huh....jz
One question I have always wondered is how many people who go to
nudist camps/resorts are also into alternative sexual lifestyles.
I am guessing just a minority like 25 percent but 25 percent is still
too high. For a nudist venue to work everyone must be on their best
behavior and have the appropriate mindset. They must be saints, they
must have purity of mind, at least for the time they are there, If
even a few aren't it totally ruins the experience.
he he he ...yes Anna...ol richard is sorta caught with his pants down
when he is surrounded by those bike riders.....but let me adjust
everything a little by saying....he he were you thinking that all
other places of social nakedness was different....i think those bike
riders might in some cases be honest and admit they are
exhibitionist....but none in the other nudist places will ...but the
nudist free beaches would be a great place to find some honest
folks.....now we got that straight.....regards.....jz
I would think it would be hard to be an exhibitionist at a nudist camp/
resort.
It's not like you can go look at me I am nude when everyone around you
is nude as well.
Maybe if you walk around with strange body language like if you walk
around emphasizing your sexual parts then yeah that could satisfy your
exhibitionist urges but otherwise being nude where everyone else is
really doesn't make you stand out like it does if you are doing a nude
bike ride with textiles all around looking at you in shock and
pointing at you.
Nude hiking also might satisfy exhibitionist urges as there's always a
risk of non-nudists seeing you, no matter the level of risk (which
depends upon where you are hiking). That is unless you confine your
nude hiking to nudist venues and your own private property (if you are
rich enough and lucky enough to own a bunch of acreage).
well for conservative consumtion only as liberals think sex has to be
taught and exhibitionism has to be taught....but conservatives know it
it just like breathing ...it all comes naturally......the nudist camp
is the perfect hollywood type set for displaying sexual exhibitionism
to perfection....there is the unwritten rules of sex and
exhibitionism.....for sex it is no rought stuff and sex organs are not
made of iron and 2x4.....as for exhibitionism ....no pointing and
verbal description of body parts unless you know it would be welcome
by the person being talked to or about....now we got that
straight.....about 75 to 100 is the perfect amount of expos on a hot
day ....and you will see one on one and 3 to 5 in groups and you will
find a mom that brings her daughter in front of a group of men usually
and introduces her prepube daughter if she has never been
there....the next weekend that slithering puffy will be waiting for
the pedos when they get there.......and of course ol mom and pop has
now got their vectors memorized....as their compass settings are ol
jack and rachael who is waiting for them at their trailer to have
coffee inside the picket fence at their trailer....and that expose of
sexy tease is in full bloom....while the little daughter is
entertaining a half dozen pedos maybe.....they may be passing her
around in the indoor pool and she wants to use the gogles to check em
all out....and of course there is usually a few gogles lying around
for her to be checked out.....jeesh i am glad you finally understand
and can appreciate the engenuity of the primate nudist for fixing the
setting for perfect sex and exhibitionism....but the story does not
end there.....the lust of sexual pursuits never seems to get satisfied
for some of the ones that do not have official family nudist teachings
of rules... ...as the nudist get bored with the nice way at the camps
and want it to be more intense...some of these nudist could be into
bdsm..the bikers.. feed on the crude behavior of the kids and parents
as some kids may be alone on the sidewalks....but it is the craven
lust to get attention without blatant insults and
persecution.....iows....hard core exhibitionism..iows....depraved
nudist or dont know no better newbies......if you got any question
feel free....
> Please answer what best describes you:
> are you a nudist?
Please define "nudist".
> are you a true nudist?
Please define "true nudist".
> are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
I don't particularly care about being gawked at, but i don't see how loving to
be gawked at conflicts with being a nudist (whatever that may be), unless you
define a nudist as "someone who doesn't love to be gawked at".
> are you a nudist, so you can gawk at others?
I don't need to be a nudist (whatever that may be) to be able gawk at others,
should i want to.
> are you a nudist, so you can have an erection?
I don't need to be a nudist (whatever that may be) to have an erection, should i
want to.
> are you a nudist, so you can have sex?
I don't need to be a nudist (whatever that may be) to have sex, should i want to.
> are you a nudist so you can get your butt whacked?
I don't need to be a nudist (whatever that may be) to have my butt whacked,
should i want to.
> are you a nudist, because being nude makes you comfortable?
To me, being nude is more comfortable than being dressed. Whether or not i'm a
nudist (whatever that may be), is immaterial to me.
Kind regards,
Jan Dijkman
> are you a nudist?
YES
> are you a true nudist?
YES
> are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
NO
> are you a nudist, so you can gawk at others?
NO
> are you a nudist, so you can have an erection?
NO
> are you a nudist, so you can have sex?
NO
> are you a nudist so you can get your butt whacked?
NO
> are you a nudist, because being nude makes you comfortable?
YES
Someone who practices NONSEXUALIZED social nudity.
> > are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
>
> I don't particularly care about being gawked at, but i don't see how loving to
> be gawked at conflicts with being a nudist (whatever that may be), unless you
> define a nudist as "someone who doesn't love to be gawked at".
If you are nude because you like other people to see you nude,
otherwise known as being an exhibitionist.
:-)
Jenny
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On Dec 9, 10:27�am, Jan Dijkman <someb...@somewhere.nl> wrote:
>> are you a true nudist? HUH? WTF IS A 'TRUE' NUDIST?
A nudist who can only tell the truth!
> Excellent responses. And, within microseconds, the usual suspects are
> telling you not what nudism is but what they claim it is.
Thank you.
I don't see any other replies, so i guess i have them all bozobinned.
Doesn't matter anyway, because the only one whose definition i'm interested in
at the moment is the OP, and he is not in my killfilter.
--
Kind regards,
Jan Dijkman
Well during the summer months when it is warm I am mostly nude. I am
fortunate enough to live on a property with acreage with no neighbors
around, so I can be on my property naked without the chance of people
seeing me. So I sunbath nude, use my swimming pool nude, garden nude,
use my hottub nude, walk around my property nude, etc.
But the definition of nudist is nonsexualized SOCIAL Nudity. And since
I don't get nude around other nude people (except my husband and
daughter) and since to be a nudist one has to meet all qualifications
I would have to say no although I know I wouldn't have a problem being
nude around nudists without it being sexual but since there's no
nudist resort near me and since I am rather a homebody who doesn't
like traveling in a car more than a few hours and since I can swim,
sunbathe, walk around naked in nature all on my own property I haven't
been to a nudist place. And while I believe that most of the time at
most places most people behave themselves, I would still be concerned
about the minority who don't behave themselves all the time.
> are you a true nudist?
Yes, and No. In that I am able to practice simply nudity without it
being sexual then yeah I meet that qualification. But since I haven't
been nude in a social setting I do not. But most of the time when we
talk about being a true nudist we are talking about whether people can
be a nude in a social setting without it being sexual and I can.
Although I guess the question could relate to those who call
themselves "home nudists" and then the question would be although they
are nude at home all the time would they have a problem being nude in
a social setting of other nude people with the nudist ethic. I could,
but to me it wouldn't be any better than what I can do nude at home.
> are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
No, I am not an exhibitionist. I wonder about those who participate
in events like the World Naked Bike ride because I believe those who
would go nude in front of a bunch of textiles are indeed
exhibitionists. Also I would be concerned about going to a clothing
optional beach because I hear that gawkers hang out there.
> are you a nudist, so you can gawk at others?
No, I have no problem with seeing people casually nude. It doesn't
excite me one way or the other.
> are you a nudist, so you can have an erection?
I am a woman. But nudists assure me that at the first sign of an
erection the guy is booted from the place and put on a black list.
Still I wonder if he could get away with it if he did it in a hot
tub. And how about while sleeping in the nude you know like laying
sunbathing. My husband gets erections when he sleeps which he has no
control over. But then if the club made an exception for men sleeping
likely there would be men who would PRETEND to be sleeping. So, I
don't know what the answer to that should be. But if a man is walking
around with an erection someone should get something like a baseball
bat and hit the guy's erection before booting him out and blacklisting
him. If the guy complains to the police it would be his word against
the many people at the club who "didn't see it happen" and it would
probably be too embarrassing for him to go to the police anyway.
> are you a nudist, so you can have sex?
This is an important question. Oh, for me the answer would be no. But
although I believe most nudists are honest about nudism being not
about sex, I believe that, though no fault of the nudist club, nudism
attracts more than it's fair share of sexual pervs. There are people
who see the nudity that nudist clubs provide as being "foreplay".
They do go to the club to have sex. Sometimes there are "special
places" that is just known to be places in the resort where sexual
activity occurs. But even if that's not the case there are people who
go to nudist clubs to have sex. And even when it's in their rooms,
still going to a nudist club with the purpose of having sex effects
the person's mindset and ruins the nonsexual atmosphere that nudist
clubs need to maintain.
> are you a nudist so you can get your butt whacked?
Well we have it from an expert, Cyndiann that this doesn't occur at
nudist camps. Indeed I would hope that if clubs had any evidence of
this going on they would boot the people immediately, and it would be
kind of stupid (or them being exhibitionists) to go to a club after
participating in some form of BDSM activity for whereas they can cover
their activity with clothes in the textile world, at a nudist club all
their whip marks, their red butts, etc will be on display for all to
see. Now I guess they could try to explain their red butts as being
"from sunburn" but it is quite clear the difference between a red butt
due to suntan and a red butt due to being spanked.
> are you a nudist, because being nude makes you comfortable?
Yes, and that is practically the only reason one should be a nudist.
It shouldn't be about sex. It shouldn't be about being seen nude or
seeing nude people while of course both would happen. But nudism is
supposed to be about how it makes you feel and the simple joy and
comfort of being naked.
> > are you a nudist, but loves to be gawked at?
>
> I don't particularly care about being gawked at, but i don't see how loving to
> be gawked at conflicts with being a nudist (whatever that may be), unless you
> define a nudist as "someone who doesn't love to be gawked at".
Yeah, that is part of the definition. A nudist isn't nude because the
nudist gets some thrill at seeing how it effects the people around
them.
They are simply nude because it makes them more comfortable.
Getting nude because you like the effect it has on others makes one an
exhibitionist.
Yeah, like the truth about whether nudism is sexualized or not.
It wasn't during the 1970s.
> the only one whose definition i'm interested in
> at the moment is the OP,
He is?
> and he is not in my killfilter.
>
He's not?
Boggle.
--
Lane
Anna...i am amazed how well you have learned what is happening at
nudist places....however i gotta fine tune the erection issue.....that
is first and foremost for all that is concerned....first of all folks
dont get on the black list....they tried a black list for swingers at
one time but it did not work...aanr says it is not official and it can
cause law suits....if an erection is noted by staff and that staff
does not have erections themselves ...the person usually will leave if
someone talks to him about it....but erections are permitted at some
camps so it is not a problem.....to state that there is a big ol black
list and they are being kicked out right and left...just is not
true....rec nude does not need to drive away nudist at this
time....they need are the pervs they can get....oh ..they are all
pervs...you know...jz
No, it's a good question.
My answer is it makes little difference to me one way or the other
except for perhaps the adults would be better behaved with the
children around.