On 2013-01-29 16:42:58 +0000, JSorell said:
> It's kind of a different perspective on a a "good one". An exerpt:
>
> Singer Michael Feinstein says Van Heusen was a man of contradictions,
> both in his life and in his music.
>
> "He was a real partier, and yet the romance in his songs is something
> that came from another part of him, because I would not say that in life
> he was a romantic guy," Feinstein says. "I mean, he didn't get married
> until the age of 56˜ that was the first time he got married! But then
> here he is, writing all these songs like 'Darn That Dream' and 'Polka
> Dots and Moonbeams' and 'Love and Marriage' and 'The Tender Trap' and
> 'All the Way.' And I don't think that he actually believed in those
> songs, you know? But he knew how to express what people wanted to believe
> in."
An intereting but somewhat confused perspective. I don't know Van
Heusen, and don't know whether Feinstein knew him either. But I know I
didn't marry for the first time until I was 43. A number of people
said, "I didn't think you believed in marriage". I pointed out the
reason that I hadn't married earlier: I DID believe in marriage!
Always a romantic, I was always searching which had it's very good
aspects and its very bad aspects.
Perhaps Michael Feinstein and I have very different views about
romance, love and marraige and how they interconnect.