On May 24, 9:21 am, really real <
reallyr...@shaw.ca> wrote:
> On 5/23/2013 5:45 PM, The Bloomfield Buddy wrote:
>
> > On May 23, 7:46 pm, "RichL" <
rpleav...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> >> People have aging parents living with them for a variety of valid reasons.
>
> > She not living with HIM, HE's living with HER.
>
> >> In any event, if it is actually true that PR lives with his mother, so what?
> >> Why is that supposed to reflect poorly on him?
>
> > Ask a woman if she'd go out with a 50 year old guy who still lived
> > with his mother.
>
> > It didn't seem to hurt JR Ewing though.
>
> If PR has no wife or girlfriend, so what?
He claims to have a girlfriend. He's found ways to mention her in
posts, to make sure we all know about it.
> Why is that supposed to
> reflect poorly on him? Why would there be a relationship between the way
> he relates to people here and in real life?
Talk to Freud.
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/men-that-live-with-their-mothers/
Now I’m going to say something that no doubt many men won’t like and
certainly it should set off some alarm bells if you’re with one of
these guys:
Most guys with a healthy relationship with their mother and a fairly
decent level of connection to their emotions, definitely do not want
to be living with their mother past their mid to late twenties; thirty
at a push.
Unless he has been a victim of famine, and destruction, for instance,
financial issues, no man who actually wants to have a relationship and
do it in a healthy way is going to be literally living under his
mothers apron strings.
This may sound harsh but the reality is that I am yet to come across a
man living with his mother that is able to have a healthy relationship
with a girlfriend.
It is bad enough going out with a guy that’s an overt mummy’s boy, but
at least he’s evolved enough to have made it out of the house! The
words ‘uphill struggle’ spring to mind.
I’ll buy the necessity reason for a year or two, but the thing is,
most of the men who I have ever come across that still live with their
mothers, live there because they want to. Oh they might do the whole
One Time in Bandcamp Thing, where they claim they had a problem that
caused them to be living at home with them and yada, yada, yada, but
by the time you meet them, that problem is waaaaay in the past and no
longer relevant.
I know of some very well off men that still live at home…Mind you,
they’re well off because they save a fortune….and they’re tight….
He’s living there because he wants to. He can avoid getting serious in
his relationships by having an obstacle of his mother. If things don’t
work out, he can always convince himself that it was because you
didn’t impress his mother or you weren’t as perfect as you should be.
But…let’s say you did meet a guy and he lived with his mother – if
he’s serious about you, he will want to be moving out of his mothers
pronto! Do you want to be putting a ‘do not disturb’ sign on your door
or only getting jiggy at your place because you don’t want to be
thinking of his mother lying in bed in her rollers and blue rinse,
listening to the two of you having a shag?
Clandestine is funny and exciting for a little while, but at some
point, you want your relationship to progress past the high school
gates!
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