In article <
e2262468-38c4-49fe...@l5g2000pbo.googlegroups.com>,
tivojohn <
john.e...@gmail.com> wrote:
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>I think it is highly inappropriate for any player to publicly accuse
>another player of unethical behavior, regardless of the exact
>wording. It poisons the atmosphere of the game for all of us.
But isn't just about every director call (i.e., every time you or someone
you know calls the director) basically that - an accusation that an op has
done something "wrong". Now, the point, of course, is that we try very hard
to dance around the issue - and say that, well, we are not accusing you are
being "unethical" (and we're certainly, certainly, certainly, certainly not
accusing you of "cheating"), but isn't that what it usually boils down to.
Obvious exceptions of course: lead out of turn, revoke, etc - those
mechanical errors are not accusations of "unethical"-ness.
But most other things are - either an accusation of "unethical"-ness or, if
not that, then a ZT violation - i.e, doing something "not nice/bad". So,
really, every time you (or someone you know) calls the director, you are
doing something "not nice/bad".
Anyway, somewhat incidentally, but also to get this (somewhat) back on
track, what do people here think of the practice of a director making a
silent ruling, without telling the guilty ones that he has done so? Here's
the case-in-point: Once upon a time, a long, long time ago, we bid up to
2S, which we were going to make, and the opps egregiously coffee-housed
their way into 3C (having been silent up 'til then) - which either makes or
goes down 1, but in any case, a great result for them. The facts were not
at all in doubt, and we called the director and layed out our case, which
was absolutely clear-cut. Two things immediately became clear:
1) The directory obviously wanted to rule in our favor.
2) ... except that he didn't want to upset the nice, young, female, opps.
His solution: No ruling at the time - just go on to the next board sorta
thing. At the end of the game as they were scoring it up, I happened to
check back and saw that the score on that board had been quietly changed
back to +110 (our way). It was kind of a wink, wink, nudge, nudge sorta
thing - I felt that justice had been served, but, I am quite convinced, he
never told the opps what he had done. And, in fact, I'd have never known if
I hadn't specifically checked back in.
This seems to avoid the problem of accusing anybody of anything, and note
that it's kinda win/win - in that at the table it looked like we had lost
the battle (since their score stood), but in the end, we got ours.
--
One of the best lines I've heard lately:
Obama could cure cancer tomorrow, and the Republicans would be
complaining that he had ruined the pharmaceutical business.
(Heard on Stephanie Miller = but the sad thing is that there is an awful lot
of direct truth in it. We've constructed an economy in which eliminating
cancer would be a horrible disaster. There are many other such examples.)