1. The 8 is a terrible card to play. The Q promises the J and is
correct. With this holding you can then easily underlead the K to the J
and take your tricks. Playing the Q only costs if the lead is from a 3
card suit which is highly unlikely.
2. We can't answer without seeing your whole hand and the auction.
Sometimes it is right to lead the ace but sometime I would make a
passive lead. However as a general rule I find people who bid slams
nearly always have 12 tricks if you give them time to set up their suits
so I tend to lead aggressively to try and set up our tricks first.