I have a feeling she is thinking of larger amounts. At 108-110lbs,
even I can drink a beer with no issues. A 2-4oz glass of wine may
enhance/match flavors. Umami thing.
A few weeks ago, Don and I did a 'date night' at home. You know,
dinner and a movie.
We had a simple white table wine.
First course: home made cream of mushroom soup with small side salad of
lettuce, tomotoes, black olives and buttermilk dressing. These were
small portions as we wanted to savor all the dishes.
Second course was steamed shrimp served in a white curry based sauce.
Hunks of bread pulled hot off the loaf from the oven and dipped in
olive oil, balsalmic vinegar, Parmesan and black smoked pepper. Again,
small amounts.
3rd course was a split Filet Mignon served with asparagus and a
colorful onion and bell pepper fixed in olive oil with a bit of minced
garlic. A small glass of rose was used here (also a table wine type).
Dessert was fresh fruit with cheese bits (Edam and a smokey Gouda).
Then I made popcorn (I have a stovetop unit) with lots of butter and we
watched movies. Cleaned up the next morning ;-)