For an intuitive historical thrill (though not a scholarly accurate one),
try the following for The Young Widow.
Teach it as above with the kick balances or sets and handshake stars; have
your band play as at a "normal" English dance. Then "lead" your dancers
with the music; gradually have the band put more drive and lift into the
tune, finally toward the end of the dance letting your backup player play
standard New England boom-chucks. If the dancers are aware of music/dance
styling differences between historical English and contras, and
particularly if you have said that this dance is from right on the edge
between English and Yankee tradition, what you will first begin to hear,
as the music begins to change, is the sound of dancers' heels starting to
hit the ground in the middle of the kick balances or the pas de bas sets.
Then some brave souls (2's) will start doing old-fashioned New England
shoulder-to-shoulder casts instead of leaving the 1's to cast around
unassisted and 2's move up. Finally as the crowd gets more boistrous, and
'most everyone is "hitting" their balances (about the time you start
hearing boom-chucks), some folks at least will explicitly acknowledge what
is happening and finish "taking it home" by doing the wrist-grip stars as
well.
I do not remember where I have experienced this; possibly at the Seattle
English dance with Laurie Andres leading the Limeylanders (maybe on one of
Brad Foster's visits here), or maybe back east at RPLW or NEFFA. But I do
remember that "riding" the music from one era to another sent chills up
and down my spine. Kind of akin to dancing Trip to Tunbridge followed by
CJ.