> A guy at the office, doing quite well, thank you, had a
> gift from his dad when he turned 18: a set of luggage. His
> brother is doing even better as an anti-trust lawyer (but
> he claims that since brother works for the corporations,
> that brother is a pro-trust lawyer.) When I turned eighteen
> all I wanted was to get on my own; not that I had not been
> well taken care of.
>
> --
> Old Fritz
It never occurred to me that my parents would take care of my school and
whatever else I wanted. I worked all the way through high school, saving
money for college and, of course, buying whatever I needed for racing.
My dad, at one point, apologized to me for the fact that I had to work
while the other guys were out training, because their parents were
supporting them. ??? Looking back on it, yeah, the other juniors did
have an advantage, but I really didn't want it any other way. The
biggest guilt I ever felt was during my two years at UC Santa Cruz, when
I wasn't working during the school year. I couldn't wait to come home
for summer and work. And I wouldn't even consider the idea of spending
more than 4 years at college for a 4 year degree. Once out, I was out on
my own, rented an apartment, got a job at warehouse records (1979 wasn't
the best of economic times) then worked at Heathkit Electronics for a
year until an opportunity to get back into the bicycle business
presented itself.
Now? It's normal to take 6 years for a 4 year degree (sometimes more),
and why leave home when mom & dad are willing to pay for room & board?
It's ironic that a feeling of entitlement seems to have taken hold at
exactly the time when the US is having to seriously deal with global
economic realignment (not in our favor).