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 More options Feb 24 2004, 9:24 am
Newsgroups: rec.arts.sf.written
From: Brandon <jcha...@avalon.net>
Date: Tue, 24 Feb 2004 01:01:54 -0600
Local: Tues, Feb 24 2004 2:01 am
Subject: Re: New Lesbian Sci-Fi Novel!

Ross TenEyck wrote:
> Pete McCutchen <p.mccutc...@worldnet.att.net> writes:

>>Doesn't this way of formulating the scenario assume your conclusion in
>>advance?  The issue that we're discussing is when is it a crime, or,
>>rather, when it should be a crime.  I'm not saying that voluntary
>>intoxication excuses someone else for committing a crime.  Rather, I'm
>>arguing that consent which occurs when one is voluntarily intoxicated
>>should be considered legally effective, and that therefore, if consent
>>is an element of the alleged crime, then no crime has occurred.

> I'll quibble just slightly here.  Suppose that Jane goes to a party,
> and voluntarily gets drunk to the point of impaired judgement.  Joe,
> who has been shot down repeatedly by Jane in the past, observes that
> this is his chance, and propositions her.  In her drunken state, she
> says, Sure, why not, and they get busy.

> I would argue that, in this scenario, a moral if not legal crime has
> occurred; but that crime is not rape.  Joe is, at the very least, an
> asshole; he's hoping that Jane will agree to something that he knows
> she would not consent to if sober.  He is not a rapist, because she
> did give knowing, albeit drunken, consent; his crime is substantially
> less serious than rape.  But he's still knowingly taking advantage of
> her; and I'd say that's a crime, at least morally.

I disagree.  You are making Joe morally responsible for
knowing that Jane would never change her mind.  And for that
matter, we've all been assuming that the judgment made while
sober is the "correct" one.  One of alcohol's qualities, as
many have noted in this discussion, is that it lowers your
inhibitions.  But inhibitions are not always good things;
sometimes they keep you from doing or saying things that you
OUGHT to do or say, or that you would be happier if only you
could do or so say them.

 From Joe's perspective, it  is possible that Jane has been
saying "no" because she's afraid of the discomfort that many
women experience on their first time.  Or perhaps she's had
the idea that sex is "dirty" drilled into her.  Either way,
it is possible that lowering her inhibitions through
voluntary innebriation will allow her to get by those
blocks, and that in the long run it will be a positive thing
in her life.

It's also possible that Joe is a skanky bastard who never
bathes, and that's why she usually brushes him off, and
she'll be banging her head on the wall tomorrow morning
screaming, "What was I thinking????"

But either way, it's not Joe's responsibility to read her mind.


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