Well for one...hot damn that's a great looking frame!! Excited to see this one progress.
As for the derailleur, I would bet it's paint giving you some hassle. I've been surprised how little it takes to gum up smooth threading. A proper thread chasing is all it should take. I picked up a tap set fairly cheap at ACE hardware that already contained the correct bit for water bottle and rack bosses but had to get the der sized bit separately. Now I chase everything first build and all has been well.
I have seen some hangars that have just a slight deformation or blob of metal right around the beginning of the threads. Not sure what causes it, but that prevented getting the thread started too. Again tapping it would solve the issue.
To my knowledge there should be no compatibility issues.