Dear Emma,
I checked with a dataset of similar size (9000 taxa and 1500 site
patterns) and executed it with your command line and using the latest
RAxML version 7.7.2 on a machine with 8GB RAM.
I tested the memory utilization of the sequential version and the
Pthreads version with 4 threads.
I was not able to reproduce the problem.
The memory utilization (Residing figure for the htop command) varies
slightly between 1-1.7GB
The virtual memory utilization (Virt figure for the htop command) varies
between 3-4 GB.
Thus, I am not able to help you with this, except by recommending that
you upgrade to the latest RAxML version, if you have not already done so.
Cheers,
Alexis