Why shouldn't the server exe be distributed with this package? I did a directory diff between the package and the \server folder in the zip file, they were equal except it didn't have the .exe nor the dlls for nlog/
json.net because those are handled as package dependencies.
I went to install RavenDB.Database because I wanted to evaluate the implications of targeting the .exe for usage in development as opposed to IIS hosted in development (one reason being that, I still don't have a server package yet except for the hidden one that was created which seems like too much of a brittle solution to consider using).
So the improvements to the nuget experience while nice didn't really add anything that wasn't already there. I still have a bad experience dealing with migrating forward in RavenDB, and I'm the kind of user that is responsible for maintaining and deploying sweeping changes along with the authority to decide what softwares I'm going to purchase for myself and for my team. I'm not the user you want things to be difficult for because if I find things needlessly difficult and I've been one of the longest running RavenDB users what do you think users who in situations similar to me are going to see? They're going to see a tool that will make their lives more difficult because of how much manual package management is still involved for maintaining the servers.
RavenDB has an incredible story for development. It has a poor story for deployment and maintenance. The people who are responsible for deployment and maintenance are generally going to be the users who have key decision authority (or input) in regards to something as major as a database platform, these aren't the people you want to feel like they're the ones who have the short end of the stick when compared to how awesome using RavenDB is.