Should You Try To Get Back Your Ex?
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Article Title: Should You Try To Get Back Your Ex?
Author: Elliot Beers
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Even the strongest relationships can breakdown under the daily pressures of work, money, and temptation. Most breakups leave one side wondering how it happened, and what they can do to fix it. The natural reaction here is to do everything you can to get your ex back. But before you throw yourself at your ex lover, make sure this is a relationship worth saving. Here are some warning signs that you may be better off without them.
Cheating
Nothing demonstrates more disrespect for your devotion than an instance of your partner cheating on you. Trust is one of the cornerstones of a successful relationship, and without trust there will always be problems. Sadly, former cheaters are far more likely to cheat in the future than their non-cheating counterparts. Unless you can feel 100% confident that your ex has ended their cheating ways, than it may be best to cut your ties and move on in your life.
Substance Abuse
Another dark demon that has a tendency to reoccur is substance abuse. Thousands of relationships each year suffer due to a partner who is abusing drugs or alcohol. As this disease worsens, it begins to take priority over everything else. You can suddenly find yourself in second place to the next high. If your breakup was a direct result of substance abuse, than this may not be a situation you want to get back into. If you�re sure this is something you want to pursue, you should demand that your partner seek professional help before you get back together.
Compatibility
It could be that your breakup was a simple result of compatibility issues, and this may not be a bad thing. Many relationships succeed for a short time based on physical attraction, or the excitement of a new experience. As time moves on, more and more compatibility issues can surface that will affect the quality of your time together. If you find that you look to other sources than your partner for intellectual stimulation, emotional support, or even fun, than perhaps there is someone better suited for you as a long term partner. Don�t try to hide from compatibility issues, sometimes two people are simply not a good match.
Happiness
It may seem simplistic enough, but you ask yourself if you were truly happy with your ex. Did this person make you feel good about yourself? Did you look forward to spending time with them? These are all important aspects of a thriving relationship. No one likes to be rejected, and it is a natural to feel devalued when you are dumped. However, before your try to get your ex back, think about how much you got out of your relationship. Was it reciprocal, or were you doing all the work to keep it together? Even if you are suffering after your breakup, you might be happier in the future by finding someone who better compliments your interest and needs.
Should you try to get back your ex? The answer will be different for each person, but everyone should evaluate their relationship before they try to fix a breakup. It can be difficult to feel alone after a breakup, but time does heal most wounds. The key is to determine if this is the person you want to be with in the future. If you know that your ex is the one, and you want find strategies for getting them back, you can visit http://getbackmyex.com for resources that will help you build an effective strategy.
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Article Title: Should You Try To Get Back Your Ex?
Author: Elliot Beers
Word Count: 601
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Even the strongest relationships can breakdown under the daily pressures of work, money, and temptation. Most breakups leave one side wondering how it happened, and what they can do to fix it. The natural reaction here is to do everything you can to get your ex back. But before you throw yourself at your ex lover, make sure this is a relationship worth saving. Here are some warning signs that you may be better off without them.
Cheating
Nothing demonstrates more disrespect for your devotion than an instance of your partner cheating on you. Trust is one of the cornerstones of a successful relationship, and without trust there will always be problems. Sadly, former cheaters are far more likely to cheat in the future than their non-cheating counterparts. Unless you can feel 100% confident that your ex has ended their cheating ways, than it may be best to cut your ties and move on in your life.
Substance Abuse
Another dark demon that has a tendency to reoccur is substance abuse. Thousands of relationships each year suffer due to a partner who is abusing drugs or alcohol. As this disease worsens, it begins to take priority over everything else. You can suddenly find yourself in second place to the next high. If your breakup was a direct result of substance abuse, than this may not be a situation you want to get back into. If you�re sure this is something you want to pursue, you should demand that your partner seek professional help before you get back together.
Compatibility
It could be that your breakup was a simple result of compatibility issues, and this may not be a bad thing. Many relationships succeed for a short time based on physical attraction, or the excitement of a new experience. As time moves on, more and more compatibility issues can surface that will affect the quality of your time together. If you find that you look to other sources than your partner for intellectual stimulation, emotional support, or even fun, than perhaps there is someone better suited for you as a long term partner. Don�t try to hide from compatibility issues, sometimes two people are simply not a good match.
Happiness
It may seem simplistic enough, but you ask yourself if you were truly happy with your ex. Did this person make you feel good about yourself? Did you look forward to spending time with them? These are all important aspects of a thriving relationship. No one likes to be rejected, and it is a natural to feel devalued when you are dumped. However, before your try to get your ex back, think about how much you got out of your relationship. Was it reciprocal, or were you doing all the work to keep it together? Even if you are suffering after your breakup, you might be happier in the future by finding someone who better compliments your interest and needs.
Should you try to get back your ex? The answer will be different for each person, but everyone should evaluate their relationship before they try to fix a breakup. It can be difficult to feel alone after a breakup, but time does heal most wounds. The key is to determine if this is the person you want to be with in the future. If you know that your ex is the one, and you want find strategies for getting them back, you can visit http://getbackmyex.com for resources that will help you build an effective strategy.
About The Author: http://getbackmyex.com
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