Loving a Cigarette Lover
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Johnathan Cunnings
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Article Title: Loving a Cigarette Lover
Author: Johnathan Cunnings
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Cigarette smokinghas become a popular fad. Every other person is doing it, or has at least tried it. The numerous cigarette shops lining the streets and online cigarette stores are just proof of how trendy smoking has become.
Knowing the dangers that cigarette smoking can bring, it is quite easy to find faults in those who smoke. "He doesn't know what he is doing, that thing could kill him!" or "She doesn't care about anybody inhaling her second hand smoke!" or "He's just wasting his money buying his Newport cigarettes online."
There is a big controversy though, if the one buying cheap cigarettes online is the husband. Admit it, for a split second a wife will stop and think whether or not to make an issue out of every stick smoked.
However, the smell of cigarette in the house alone can send a woman ballistic and cause endless arguments. More so when he starts coughing, he'll think he'll never hear the end of it. And even more when the ashes of your cigarette lay on the ashtray, which lays itself on the table, which won't throw itself out.
She could say "Stop smoking!" or "At least limit it to a few sticks per day". She might even employ ways to lessen his smoking, such as engaging him in cooking lessons or sometimes, literally hiding his stash or blocking his car in so he can't go to the cigarette store. Either way, people do this in the belief that it is for their love's benefit, that they don't want their loved one to get sick and just to be able to spend more time with them in the future.
Now, ladies, before going on and on and on, stop and think! Think about love and what it really means. Without the cigarette smoking and the money wasted, remember that love is accepting and giving unconditionally. By definition, it is a truly selfless act by which your loved one's happiness becomes your happiness. Stop and think if a piece of dried plant wrapped in paper is enough reason to cause your love anxiety, stress and potential damage to you relationship.
Instead of yapping purposelessly every time he reaches for a lighter, try talking calmly. Tell him your concerns and your fears. If you want the best for him, then make him realize the dangers that cigarettes has to his health. When he makes a decision, though, whatever it may be, respect it. You may not be happy with it, so propose some compromises. It will be difficult, but it is more difficult to fight a battle you know you cannot win.
Instead of being the enemy in his life, try to be a supportive friend. Instead of hiding his box of smokes, buy him one from his favourite online cigarette store and get a lighter with that. Instead of stressing yourself thinking about how much more time you have together, think that at least, for the time you were together, your partner was happy.
Loving a cigarette lover when you are not is a difficult task--but one that can be arranged. It just takes a little bit of remembrance of the love and respect you have for each other.
About The Author: Are you looking for more information regarding online cigarette stores? Visit http://www.dutyfreedepot.com
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Article Title: Loving a Cigarette Lover
Author: Johnathan Cunnings
Word Count: 553
Article URL: http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1861505&ca=Wellness%2C+Fitness+and+Diet
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Cigarette smokinghas become a popular fad. Every other person is doing it, or has at least tried it. The numerous cigarette shops lining the streets and online cigarette stores are just proof of how trendy smoking has become.
Knowing the dangers that cigarette smoking can bring, it is quite easy to find faults in those who smoke. "He doesn't know what he is doing, that thing could kill him!" or "She doesn't care about anybody inhaling her second hand smoke!" or "He's just wasting his money buying his Newport cigarettes online."
There is a big controversy though, if the one buying cheap cigarettes online is the husband. Admit it, for a split second a wife will stop and think whether or not to make an issue out of every stick smoked.
However, the smell of cigarette in the house alone can send a woman ballistic and cause endless arguments. More so when he starts coughing, he'll think he'll never hear the end of it. And even more when the ashes of your cigarette lay on the ashtray, which lays itself on the table, which won't throw itself out.
She could say "Stop smoking!" or "At least limit it to a few sticks per day". She might even employ ways to lessen his smoking, such as engaging him in cooking lessons or sometimes, literally hiding his stash or blocking his car in so he can't go to the cigarette store. Either way, people do this in the belief that it is for their love's benefit, that they don't want their loved one to get sick and just to be able to spend more time with them in the future.
Now, ladies, before going on and on and on, stop and think! Think about love and what it really means. Without the cigarette smoking and the money wasted, remember that love is accepting and giving unconditionally. By definition, it is a truly selfless act by which your loved one's happiness becomes your happiness. Stop and think if a piece of dried plant wrapped in paper is enough reason to cause your love anxiety, stress and potential damage to you relationship.
Instead of yapping purposelessly every time he reaches for a lighter, try talking calmly. Tell him your concerns and your fears. If you want the best for him, then make him realize the dangers that cigarettes has to his health. When he makes a decision, though, whatever it may be, respect it. You may not be happy with it, so propose some compromises. It will be difficult, but it is more difficult to fight a battle you know you cannot win.
Instead of being the enemy in his life, try to be a supportive friend. Instead of hiding his box of smokes, buy him one from his favourite online cigarette store and get a lighter with that. Instead of stressing yourself thinking about how much more time you have together, think that at least, for the time you were together, your partner was happy.
Loving a cigarette lover when you are not is a difficult task--but one that can be arranged. It just takes a little bit of remembrance of the love and respect you have for each other.
About The Author: Are you looking for more information regarding online cigarette stores? Visit http://www.dutyfreedepot.com
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