I'm sure that you both meant well in your own way, but there are more
constructive ways to say stuff like this. :/
It's important that we accommodate the diverse range of shapes and
sizes that our user group's members come in. However, we also want
shirts that are of nice enough quality that we'll actually want to
wear them. If we make shirts that people either can't wear or don't
want to wear, then we've failed. Can we please just agree to that?
The good news is that there are companies that make shirts that will
satisfy both of these goals. Lots of research has gone into this for
Open Source Bridge and such, and we'll make use of this knowledge as
we get further into this.
Love,
-igal