Yes, that's a nice saying. I've used it myself on a number of
occasions.
There's also the one about people who complain and don't actually do
anything to solve a problem. I like that one too.
Which is specifically why I've been working so hard on setting things
up and organizing people, in the absence of another ONE person who
took both the responsibility and the accountability for the project as
a whole, as I believe I recommended strongly in my original blog post.
I decided to take on that accountability- and I honestly believe that
if ORBlogs fails, it is my fault- and mine alone.
You will, of course, remember reading my posts on the subject where I
continually say that one person needs to be the point person and do
something. And my repeated suggestion that the person is not me? You
stepped forth then, right? Took charge? Accomplished something? No? In
the absence of you becoming that person, I was trying my best to do
so.
Yes, I should have worked on it more- I realize- but things happened.
Like people in my family dying.
Wow, that was dramatic- you like the single sentence on it's own line?
Nice effect. I live for that stuff, because I'm a blogger. I also live
for that description because making a joke out if it will potentially
keep me calm and happy instead of, say, driving my calm happy ass to
Portland and...
...<sigh> meeting with you over coffee to discuss how rightly
frustrated you are.
You see, Gil, there's no committee. There are a lot of people helping
out in small ways- actually HELPING Gil. There's AJ staying up late at
night by himself programming parsers- he programmed 8 parsers- and
built up the entire database by himself Gil. There's Patrick
organizing his code for us to use.
They were basically waiting for me, who- and I realize this was wrong,
now- thought that a basic functional basic site was possible by Oct.
1- as I said in a number of forums. I was supposed to get the code
running, and really thought that I could.
I know it might seem- to someone who's not actually communicating with
anyone involved- that there's a big "committee" sitting around
drinking coffee spending all of your hard earned money and not making
any decisions. But the truth is, Gil, that it's just a lot easier to
be angrier and complain about a committee than to meet me- or anyone-
face to face, and shout at them for only staying up until midnight-
instead of, say 2am.
There's no committee, Gil, there are just a few people, giving as much
time as they can- and having life sometimes happen around them.
There's AJ, there's Patrick, there's Rick- each actually DOING
something.
There's even Kyle, who decided to not actually write wildly
inflammatory and insulting remarks to very kind and helpful people.
Kyle just went ahead and quietly created a functional website. You, of
course, being fully involved in the effort already know about it
because complete details are posted on the ORBlogs blog- where I try
to keep people informed about what we're doing...
And about what we need help on to get a site up and running- the small
things that people like you can actually do, right now, to make it
work.
So, you're absolutely right. I guess we are sort of a committee. More
than one person just screwing everything up, just sitting around
spending your money and allowing you to have completely righteous
anger towards people who have never prevented you from DOING anything,
ever. You know, the ones who physically prevented you from building
the site yourself? The ones who wouldn't tell you where the code was
that needs just a little work before it's fully functional? That
committee.
You're right- there should have been someone to come and make a simple
site.
Oh, right, he did- and with nary a word of complaint. And then he
contacted me and said, basically "You know, I'm just trying to help- I
don't want to derail the current efforts."
But, of course, as I said, you already know that story.
Look, I'll refrain from addressing your points individually because
that would only escalate a serious amount of anger I have right now. I
will, however say that nearly everything you say is incorrect and
quite insulting to an effort that has, I believe, very successfully
avoided the "committee" you speak of. There are basically three
people- all staying up late at night and working.
So I'll end by saying this. I can't speak for everyone- but I myself
am insulted and angry to the point of explosion because- and I may be
wrong- you seem to be chastising me for working my ass off for your
benefit. Others have suggested feeling the same way.
Rather than insult a large group of people, why don't you just insult
me directly. My phone number is
541.387.3872. I'm @Mettadore on
Twitter. I'm not hard to find.
I live in Hood River- I don't know where you live, but you're welcome
to come here and we can meet for lunch and you can yell directly to my
face for not working hard enough.
I'm sorry I can't drive to where ever you are. I'm already too busy
working on this to take the time.
-J