(Jon and I have worked together for years)
FWIW, Twig was around before Objectify. I tried using it but for
various reasons it was less than ideal for my app, so I wrote
Objectify. Since then both Twig and Objectify have advanced
considerably, but in somewhat different directions. John Patterson is
also a smart cookie and I'm sure Twig is just fine.
I think your approach of "try each and see what feels right" is a good
one. Obviously, I'm quite partial to Ofy.
Jeff