AA,
Me and my family move here from NY about 2 years ago. We live in Jamestown which is between Greensboro and High Point.
To answer your question it depends on what you are looking for.
To be honest its will be alot slower the NJ. Some areas are alot slower then others. If you target Winston Salem I suggest you visit the area first because alot of Winston Salem are still farm land with tobacco fields.
If you are looking for a more lively are then move to charlotte.
As for the Muslim community there are a few masjids to choose from.
Let me know if you need more information.
AA.
Hanif