no sympathy whatsoever for any woman who runs into any scammers, creeps, abusers on dating sites
nothing but a constant struggle for me
was able to take the time to really dedicate myself
found a f-buddy who doesn't excite me in the least, got completely crushed by someone else and the whole experience was just awful, probably the worst thing I ever done to myself
yet I don't want anything financial out of anybody
decent companionship
someone to talk to, have dinner with, move on to something more, maybe
prefer childfree, and no tattoos but that's a really tough one at my age
it doesn't even matter what standards i have
can pay my own way and then some
was able to go from near min wage to six figures in a few years
lost weight, got fit
doesn't make a difference
would never abuse, scam, hustle, intentionally mistreat anyone
but me trying to date or talk to women is like the kid in Sun Dogs trying to join the Marines
i have a lot more empathy than i used to but it pretty much stops here
if you get scammed, beaten, mistreated, impregnated and tossed aside
whatevs
your choice, your problem