I suspect you notice this because you continually look for someone to
share with you.
Yes. Like with playing the game of pool in a bar. Some people devote a LOT
of energy trying to distract their opponent and make their opponent play
bad.
Whereas other players use their energy to practice and learn about the game.
Of course the "cheaters" do not consider that those who spend their time
learning can also learn to ignore distractions. So cheating does not get
them very far...